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Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by Raalsalghul: 12:16pm On May 17, 2022 |
Acidosis: "Money is the easiest thing to contribute in a marriage" yet most marriages fail due to lack of the same thing that is easy to contribute? That is just outright nonsense, though I'm sure you know that and this is one of those days where you choose to pander to a certain demographic on Nairaland. 6 Likes |
Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by Belafonte(m): 1:33pm On May 17, 2022 |
Mariangeles: Everybody can get adequate affection and attention. Smh |
Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by Mariangeles(f): 2:14pm On May 17, 2022 |
Belafonte: Women want attention and affection from their husbands too, you know? Everything is not just about men. Don't give your attention that belong to your wife to another. She will never forgive you. |
Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by kayperry: 4:07pm On May 17, 2022 |
Acidosis: you don't just wanna say it, nothing about Money is easy from the making to paying bills, it bemusing sometimes when you see wives, cococandy & co. try equate domestic chores to financing. In my experience, i have notice it is difficult for women to part with there own money ... they prefer to hear "borrow" buh that word "contribute" bring out the EVE in them. Not just you mere saying, men will prefer house chores to providing buh when push comes shove on a scale of 10, 8 would stick to being a provider cos thats who we are. 2 Likes |
Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by cococandy(f): 4:16pm On May 17, 2022 |
Speak for your own ladies in your life not every woman kayperry: |
Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by cococandy(f): 4:36pm On May 17, 2022 |
Raalsalghul: It actually is. All you have to do is go to work and have the check deposited in the family account and that’s it. If that’s all I have to do, I’d be in paradise. No tending to children, no cooking, no cleaning, no mental load of planning and executing any family wellbeing activities. Any man that is only providing money better be providing loads of it to outsource many of the other tasks necessary to make a home functional. If he’s only bringing money but expects his partner to bring money too as well as take care of everything else, he’s not pulling his weight and is easily replaceable by a paycheck. He’s a whole human being and should be enjoyed in other aspects different from his paycheck. Not to underscore the importance of money in our capitalist society. But that can’t be the sole contribution of anyone in a healthy relationship. 4 Likes |
Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by thorpido(m): 4:45pm On May 17, 2022 |
cococandy:How some men provide money and expect the woman to still provide while overlooking other aspects of running the home does not make sense. 1 Like |
Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by cococandy(f): 4:47pm On May 17, 2022 |
thorpido:thankful for the ones like you who get it! 4 Likes |
Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by pocohantas(f): 4:55pm On May 17, 2022 |
When you people stop marrying and dissolve your parents marriage for a start, you let me know. Na that one dey me important. 6 Likes |
Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by Gloriagee(f): 5:03pm On May 17, 2022 |
N the ones who do all the whining rarely provide or even have funds to start with before they can start claiming their partners are living off them. No one hears of Otedola or Jim Ovia whining. More often than not, an Otedola wife will be itching to work. cococandy: 2 Likes |
Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by kayperry: 5:21pm On May 17, 2022 |
cococandy: Here we go again, you know you don't need an 100% to score A, few ladies might be different buh over 90% of ladies are what i described ... as if i don't see her comments year in year out 1 Like
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Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by Acidosis(m): 5:32pm On May 17, 2022 |
Raalsalghul: Not only marriage. Money is the easiest thing to contribute (for those who have it), in any situation. That statement does not apply to those who do not have it. You can't contribute what you do not have in the first place (whether it is money or cooking skills) I have been in a community of people who don't like to get their hands dirty. I'm sure you have been in that situation. Sometimes, you want to hold a small party but instead of cooking and cleaning stuff, you simply pay someone or go to a lounge or something. When you take the statistics of men who prepare their launch at home and comparewith those who pay a catering service, you'll understand the basis of that statement. 2 Likes |
Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by kayperry: 5:55pm On May 17, 2022 |
cococandy: i didnt even see this, an orange can never roll far from it tree if depositing is easy, getting a job nko? what about staying employed?? to collect salary easy meeting up with cost & standard of living Easy Funnily, housewives make big deal of house chores when they are the ones doing it buh when same people employ maid .... they trivialize the job and pay maids peanut who is deceivng who, how many wives will allow there husband pay a maid 50k 4 Likes |
Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by Mariangeles(f): 6:16pm On May 17, 2022 |
Acidosis: So on point! When you have money, you'd realize that there are so many things you'd rather pay to get done than do. For the domestically lazy, money is an escape. 2 Likes |
Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by Nobody: 7:57pm On May 17, 2022 |
Acidosis: You are somehow right at the bolded which applies to "POVERTY" but such doesn't applies to the ones who caught well to do SIMPS.... 1 Like |
Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by cococandy(f): 8:09pm On May 17, 2022 |
kayperry:It’s easy compared to being the one who has to do everything else.
You’re right about this part. And I don’t endorse trivializing a role because someone who you feel is beneath you does it. 3 Likes |
Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by Acidosis(m): 8:15pm On May 17, 2022 |
Mariangeles: With vendors everywhere on IG waiting to take your orders 1 Like |
Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by kayperry: 9:00am On May 18, 2022 |
cococandy: By everything "ELSE" you mean, washing plate, cooking, oda room & nursing kids ... shey you dey whyne me nii Coco the world cannot condescend to what you "Feel" besides what determines "EASY" are challenges & limiting factors (controllable or uncontrollable) .... so i'm curious what are the challenges & limitations of housewives 3 Likes |
Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by jornwhite: 3:44pm On May 18, 2022 |
pocohantas: keeping the diaspora obsession alive 1 Like
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Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by cococandy(f): 3:57pm On May 18, 2022 |
jornwhite: Off point. How’s this comeback even related to the topic? Weirdo 5 Likes |
Re: Most Men Wouldn't Marry If They Understood Women Well by Cromagnon: 1:39pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
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