Flamemignon1:

Have something with a man first before saying you are straight?

You see why your folks have to be looked in a psychiatric home as mentally deranged people

So I will have to have sex with acsane sex before I can determine my sexuality....

A world leader is coming someday to end this bad ridden from the world

You no really need Tinder to find babe for Abuja na
98% Abuja babes na runs babes with their fine innocent faces

The remaining 2% na children of politicians or NNPC workers wey don get money already and na abroad dem even dey sef

Just catch any babe for there and ask am how much period

But remember not to fvck any babe around your area… E get why

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Dating musn't be for same-opposite sex only..
Tinder itself doesn't cares who you want to stick what into..so what are you surprised about?

what are you even talking
so marriage is also same sex
when God said go into the world and mutiply why him no carry womb give man or put sperm inside women

Nawa oo I no even understand again

SocialJustice:
Will you think it does not seem right if you were born gay or if you had a gay child? Where is empathy? This is how society bullies and turns people into outcasts because they are different.

They did not make themselves that way and you should understand this.

I was born with a blood disorder and society treated me like a corpse until I became an adult. Most of them who were born healthy are dead but I'm still here. This is the same wickedness and ignorance that is being meted out to gay people, as if it was their making to be gay.

no one is born gay, it's a choice. It's funny how u consider one being gay with an individual born with blood disorder. In Ur own case, u have no choice. There are people born with sickle cell anemia, HIV, hepatitis and many more. If these individuals have a choice of changing their health status they would have done that. Being gay is a choice and they can choose to change at any time they desire. The discrimination against people who have health challenge is borne out of ignorance nothing more

Thebadpolitican:


You see why your folks have to be looked in a psychiatric home as mentally deranged people

So I will have to have sex with acsane sex before I can determine my sexuality....

A world leader is coming someday to end this bad ridden from the world

LoL......did you even look at the genesis of this Convo before you went on your rant? The person I replied said why don't a gay man have sex with a woman first to ascertain if he's really gay and I countered it with the opposite and y'all are mad,stay mad

Pious101:
no one is born gay, it's a choice. It's funny how u consider one being gay with an individual born with blood disorder. In Ur own case, u have no choice. There are people born with sickle cell anemia, HIV, hepatitis and many more. If these individuals have a choice of changing their health status they would have done that. Being gay is a choice and they can choose to change at any time they desire. The discrimination against people who have health challenge is borne out of ignorance nothing more

And your discrimination against queer people is born out of what if not Ignorance. Sexuality isn't a choice dude

my3name:

what are you even talking
so marriage is also same sex
when go said go into the world and mutiply why him no carry womb give man or put sperm inside women

Not everyone is a person

purejustice36:
You no really need Tinder to find babe for Abuja na
98% Abuja babes na runs babes with their fine innocent faces

The remaining 2% na children of politicians or NNPC workers wey don get money already and na abroad dem even dey sef

Just catch any babe for there and ask am how much period

But remember not to fvck any babe around your area… E get why

Why can't u fvbck babes in ur area....I've been seeing several greenlight around my proximity now that I'm getting to know my vicinity

I swear... I can be gay if you pay me well

FreeSpirited:
I couldn't believe my world after this shocker that a place can agglomerate an unbelievable numbers of gays in Nigeria, a very religious country.
At a point I became both teary and angry.

Let me give you how I found out. If you need evidence, I can present.

I came to Abj recently and most time when I travel to a new place, I usually download Tinder to try and meet one or two babes and see if we connect, we might hangout when I'm bored before getting familiar with such area.

So for about over a week, I was only able to match with about 5 girls, exhausting my swipes on daily basis. You know how matching can be funny on Tinder; and how hard getting connection with people u match with especially if you are not the type that's up for paying for runs-girl on Tinder..cos na olosho many pass for Tinder.

So today, because some of the matches I got dint inspire me enough, out of intuition, I decided to check out how the Men on Tinder in my vicinity looks, that is Abuja Tinder guys.
So I switched my setting from "show only women" to "show only Men"
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At first I was swiping left since I had no interest in matching a guy. I began to swipe left to get idea of the average physical look, or dressing, or the style of the guys on Tinder.
All of a sudden, something told me to swipe right....OMG...couldn't believe why but It matched!....I was schocked
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Though I thought it was a mistake, then I swipe right, and right, right and right.. my world they were matching in sequence!

My jaw dropped and my mouth went ajar that I couldnt close it the entire time.
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What this means for people who don't understand Tinder is that, these guys were on Tinder to meet guys, because their setting must have been set to see only guys, and they have been actively swiping guys pics to the right so that other guys like them swiping right will match with them.
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In less than 3 minutes, I matched an unbelievable numbers of 12 gays...Like wtf!
In 10 fvxking days I matched less than 6 gals in Abj, But in 3 mins I matched 12 motherfvcking ass rimming gaybriels. It's finished.
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So gay is so rife in Abuja, and Tinder is their hotbed. You have to try this experiment if you doubt me.
I think the reason women are not getting husband is as a result of astronomical numbers of gays in Nigeria. Times have really changed and things are really happening.

Gays plenty for nigeria sha. I used to doubt it. I thought it was a Western thing. How black man go dey fvck Blackman Nyash, I thought. But during the time of 2go, I curiously went to gay room and it was riddled with Nigerian men shameless displaying themselves.

Omo my head became light as if I had seen a ghost.

SenecaTheYonger:


Gays plenty for nigeria sha. I used to doubt it. I thought it was a Western thing. How black man go dey fvck Blackman Nyash, I thought. But during the time of 2go, I curiously went to gay room and it was riddled with Nigerian men shameless displaying themselves.

Omo my head became light as if I had seen a ghost.

And 2go was a long time ago.

Flamemignon1:

And your discrimination against queer people is born out of what if not Ignorance. Sexuality isn't a choice dude

it is absolute a choice. The fact that u read studies that support Ur perspective does not mean there are studies that does not prove other wise.

FreeSpirited:

And 2go was a long time ago.

For real. They’ve been here for a long time

Pious101:
no one is born gay, it's a choice. It's funny how u consider one being gay with an individual born with blood disorder. In Ur own case, u have no choice. There are people born with sickle cell anemia, HIV, hepatitis and many more. If these individuals have a choice of changing their health status they would have done that. Being gay is a choice and they can choose to change at any time they desire. The discrimination against people who have health challenge is borne out of ignorance nothing more

Educate yourself. I've lived very closely to gay guys. They are women in a man's body. Even the energy they emit is feminine. When you discriminate and cancel them, you will never be able to open your mind to observe and learn.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Fun fact..you actually sell things online.. imagine if someone decide to hijack this conversation and tarnish your business image by spreading rumors about you..

Don't do what's gonna make you regret ever knowing nairaland..I promise you might consider s***c*de..

Jst shut the f*ck up
U can't do shit

U're jst a useless shameless homo dat has nothing good to offer

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Keep mute..what's wrong with gays?
You are hateful homophobe..allow them be..if you don't wanna match then don't search and swipe...stick to gals let them stick to themself..stop the hate...they are all over Nigeria and in some years to come gay marriage is gonna be legalized..I wanna know what you are gonna do about it..

No one bothers you for being straight so why disturbing and whining over people's personal choice that doesn't affect you In any way?

Just imagine the first comment I came across..
Just simply say you are a gay.. Wtf!

Pious101:
it is absolute a choice. The fact that u read studies that support Ur perspective does not mean there are studies that does not prove other wise.

I'm not gonna entertain a Convo with you because you are no expert in human sexuality and gender studies so I'd rather believe those who've studied those spheres than you

Flamemignon1:

I'm not gonna entertain a Convo with you because you are no expert in human sexuality and gender studies so I'd rather believe those who've studied those spheres than you

and I assume u must be an expert in this field. While I may not be one, there are however series of literatures done by expert in that field that supports my assertion. The only time I will agree with Ur perspective is only when u categorically state the expert that did the studies are absolutely wrong and u are 100% right.

FreeSpirited:

Why can't u fvbck babes in ur area....I've been seeing several greenlight around my proximity now that I'm getting to know my vicinity

As a newbie for your area , you fit go fvck that kind Toto wey be say .. in 2yrs time you no go use hand touch 10k
Unto say you no know her story .. make u no go dey follow the agbero for street share same Toto

E better make the Toto dey come from distance make respect dey for ur name

purejustice36:


As a newbie for your area , you fit go fvck that kind Toto wey be say .. in 2yrs time you no go use hand touch 10k
Unto say you no know her story .. make u no go dey follow the agbero for street share same Toto

E better make the Toto dey come from distance make respect dey for ur name

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Well I'm never desperate for pvssy....I have a lot of assignment and project I attend to..if I give woman attention sef...I scrutinize...I can't be ignorant of vices of women at my age. Thanks for ur input anyway

SocialJustice:
Will you think it does not seem right if you were born gay or if you had a gay child? Where is empathy? This is how society bullies and turns people into outcasts because they are different.

They did not make themselves that way and you should understand this.

I was born with a blood disorder and society treated me like a corpse until I became an adult. Most of them who were born healthy are dead but I'm still here. This is the same wickedness and ignorance that is being meted out to gay people, as if it was their making to be gay.

blood disorder like I don’t get it… I don’t think people are born gay… it’s just ideology or the society….

Pious101:
and I assume u must be an expert in this field. While I may not be one, there are however series of literatures done by expert in that field that supports my assertion. The only time I will agree with Ur perspective is only when u categorically state the expert that did the studies are absolutely wrong and u are 100% right.

Where did I say I would be subjective to the experts I listen to on the field?,I'm ready to strike a Convo with all of them,just not you

Lamanii22:
blood disorder like I don’t get it… I don’t think people are born gay… it’s just ideology or the society….

People are born gay, there are mischievous copycats out there but there are genuinely gay people.

Flamemignon1:

And it's not a gay disease, that's just ignorant

dey there

Rexymania:
I swear... I can be gay if you pay me well

No you can't,you are still straight

SocialJustice:
People are born gay, there are mischievous copycats out there but there are genuinely gay people.

hmmmmm I still find it hard to believe

Lamanii22:
hmmmmm I still find it hard to believe

Yes o, the reason it happens is part of the biological process, the body may be male but it is biologically wired to be female. I do not want to call it a disorder but that is what it is. Like a genetic disorder. There are copycats too who are influenced into it but most times they end up being bisexual.

Our body is the most complex machine on earth and while it is being formed in the womb the outcomes are many, some are acceptable to society, others are treated with prejudice.

A person born blind or deaf attracts pity from society but the one born gay is seen as odd. It makes no sense.

I don’t even know what made me open this thread .
I’m baffled seen the number of gay defenders and apologist here . Wtf.
To the @op , you are already advertising for them with your explanations . You keep on replying each quote with deep explanation, which make me to think you are promoting it using your alternative monikers , while sounding like a defense counsel. We understand such games ( I may be wrong , though ) .
Your detailed post and replies showed reverse psychology. Maybe you are gay or a gay promoter. I apologize if you aren’t .
Some people have formed gay Councillors here , while some already gave out the name of some gay site and terms and their modus operandi. All these are indirectly advertising it .
Some discussions aren’t right or good to be discussed, it will gain publicity. No publicity is negative .

Dmacqh:
I don’t even know what made me open this thread .
I’m baffled seen the number of gay defenders and apologist here . Wtf.
To the @op , you are already advertising for them with your explanations . You keep on replying each quote with deep explanation, which make me to think you are promoting it using your alternative monikers , while sounding like a defense counsel. We understand such games ( I may be wrong , though ) .
Your detailed post and replies showed reverse psychology. Maybe you are gay or a gay promoter. I apologize if you aren’t .
Some people have formed gay Councillors here , while some already gave out the name of some gay site and terms and their modus operandi. All these are indirectly advertising it .
Some discussions aren’t right or good to be discussed, it will gain publicity. No publicity is negative .

This is the result of overthinking and over-rationalization.....
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.You even hazard a guess that I might be gay? I have no patience for that... U are either stupid or mad....Yes I mean it...like u say this is my alternate moniker? ..like really?
This Moniker is over 6years..with 90 Topics
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Don't go on hasty conclusion pls.....don't, learn to give benefit of doubt when there's reason for it...there are people who have genuine experience that shocked them and are inclined to make a report in a faceless forum because its actually an uncommon thing...is that hard to understand?
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I have about 90 topics in 6 yrs with this Moniker...do you know what that means? Why not go through my topics and post to spot out contradiction or any inkling of gayness.....Let s be guided in our bid to appear smart pls

SocialJustice:
Yes o, the reason it happens is part of the biological process, the body may be male but it is biologically wired to be female. I do not want to call it a disorder but that is what it is. Like a genetic disorder. There are copycats too who are influenced into it but most times they end up being bisexual.

Our body is the most complex machine on earth and while it is being formed in the womb the outcomes are many, some are acceptable to society, others are treated with prejudice.

A person born blind or deaf attracts pity from society but the one born gay is seen as odd. It makes no sense.

but the anus is exposed to so much risk…. And again are there faithful gay relationships? They are mostly promiscuous according to some movies…

Lamanii22:
but the anus is exposed to so much risk…. And again are there faithful gay relationships? They are mostly promiscuous according to some movies…

Yes na, very nasty something but condom is always advised for anal sex. Infidelity does not discriminate based on sexual orientation. It is a matter of choice.