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How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by infonet247: 2:10am On May 24
A friend of mine rush into my apartment now crying....
He has been married for 7 years now no child yet but went secretly to the village with his people to marry another wife. Now he is asking me how will he face the first wife and tell him he has another wife!
I no dey put mouth for family matter, i just tell am make we sleep first. Tomorow i go ask nairalanders.
Over to una.

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:20am On May 24
hhmm you should let her know WAY BEFORE you marry the other one, so that you let her get used to the idea.... regardless of whether she is childless or not, it says a lot about a man and the respect he has for his wife/marriage, if you dont even have the decency to tell your wife about it beforehand.

its not like it would be difficult anyway:"baby, you aint getting pregnant for so many years so, due to family/peer/religious pressure, i have to marry another wife"

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by Justpassingby45(m): 2:24am On May 24
Are you talking about the first good wife or the first bad wife

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by Kobojunkie: 2:47am On May 24
infonet247:
A friend of mine rush into my apartment now crying....He has been married for 7 years now no child yet but went secretly to the village with his people to marry another wife. Now he is asking me how will he face the first wife and tell him he has another wife!
Your coward of a friend can't face his wife but he comes in to offload on you? Why do you folks sign up to be friends with these kind of folks for Pete's sake? undecided

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by ZIMDRILL(m): 3:50am On May 24
infonet247:
A friend of mine rush into my apartment now crying....
He has been married for 7 years now no child yet but went secretly to the village with his people to marry another wife. Now he is asking me how will he face the first wife and tell him he has another wife!
I no dey put mouth for family matter, i just tell am make we sleep first. Tomorow i go ask nairalanders.
Over to una.

two things will tell his wife his pocket and time

unless he is loaded family budget will change and get noticed

This time cant be in two places at once

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by Karleb(m): 4:14am On May 24
MrBrownJay1:
hhmm you should let her know WAY BEFORE you marry the other one, so that you let her get used to the idea.... regardless of whether she is childless or not, it says a lot about a man and the respect he has for his wife/marriage, if you dont even have the decency to tell your wife about it beforehand.

its not like it would be difficult anyway:"baby, you aint getting pregnant for so many years so, due to family/peer/religious pressure, i have to marry another wife"

Everywhere go catch fire but later on, dem go quench am. It's not safe but it's still a better option.

The man should go ahead with his plans, no woman will stay put with a man that can't conceive for 7 years. You only see them staying when they are the problem.

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by dmostcheerful(f): 4:25am On May 24
When you are childless the first thing you should do is go to the hospital for examination to know who have issues between you both.
My ex neighbor hurriedly married another wife after 5yrs of childlessness, his first wife left cause he married someone else, one yr later she became pregnant, currently baba is still childless after wife number two.
Unfortunately for him everyone now knows he isn't even a man.
What if your friend is infertile?
Back on the issue, he should man up and tell his wife, it's left for her to stay or leave.

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by YOUNGELDER1(m): 5:14am On May 24
We know that friend is you

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by Richy4(m): 6:15am On May 24
Make we sleep first too.. don't rush us.. tomorrow, we will ask our partners.. Good nite buddy. smiley.

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by Musty112: 9:50am On May 24
No be u go talk am, na elderly family members and just so u decide to do that yourself, dont do it where there are sharp things. The fire is very hot as at then

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by Acidosis(m): 10:05am On May 24
dmostcheerful:
When you are childless the first thing you should do is go to the hospital for examination to know who have issues between you both.
My ex neighbor hurriedly married after 5yrs of childlessness, his first wife left cause he married someone else one yr later she became pregnant baba is still childless after wife number too.
Unfortunately for him everyone now knows he isn't even a man.
What if your friend is impotent?
Back on the issue, he should man up and tell his wife, it's left for her to stay or leave.


An impotent man won't have the courage to marry one wife talk more of two.

You mistook impotency for infertility. A man can be potent, have big d**k, extremely strong in bed, and infertile.

To the other things you mentioned, 100% !!

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by dmostcheerful(f): 10:07am On May 24
Acidosis:



An impotent man won't have the courage to marry one wife talk more of two.

You mistook impotency for infertility. A man can be potent, have big d**k, extremely strong in bed, and be infertile.
My bad a misused word.

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by UpInTheSky: 10:16am On May 24
Hmmm

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by OgaTheTop2: 10:21am On May 24
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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by Klass99(f): 10:21am On May 24
dmostcheerful:
When you are childless the first thing you should do is go to the hospital for examination to know who have issues between you both.
My ex neighbor hurriedly married another wife after 5yrs of childlessness, his first wife left cause he married someone else, one yr later she became pregnant, currently baba is still childless after wife number too.
Unfortunately for him everyone now knows he isn't even a man.

This is the best thing I have read on NL today cheesy

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by EmmyDJourno: 10:21am On May 24
I hope to wake up every morning look at my wife and say thank you God
I no like wahala and want no wahala

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by JubrinElSudan: 10:21am On May 24
If people can attribute cheating to mistake, he can as well tell her that it was a mistake cheesy

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by Griffon(m): 10:21am On May 24
Go and ask Yul Edochie.

Post the videos of the traditional marriage on social media and tag your first wife.

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by jhydebaba(m): 10:21am On May 24
You go tell her noni undecided
Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by Candidlady(f): 10:22am On May 24
sad


Fruitless beings

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by AzuNas: 10:22am On May 24
Alright. . . . . . . Aje

D same way wen em secretly go village,make em secretly go wit em village people go met d first wife. Cuz na grave dey call am.

Make e leave d mata,TIME go tell her.

Abeg

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by Emu4life(f): 10:22am On May 24
Marrying another wife before informing your first wife shows how less regards you have for her. It is disrespectful.

Inform your wife even if preparations are in Top Gear.

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by iamyemiakins(m): 10:22am On May 24
Firstly, go and keep all the sharp objects in the house then wake her up in the middle of the night and tell her grin

No matter how big or long a word is na mouth we go use present am, no be knife we go use cut am

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by majamajic(m): 10:22am On May 24
Am still reading to understand the topic grin grin
Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by JovialJune(f): 10:22am On May 24
Why is he scared? I thought men are proud of being polygamous in nature? Except he's scared of the outcome knowing the kind of wife he has,

You deceitfully married another wife when there was no agreement before marrying the first wife that you are a polygamous man, and you think all will be well with you? I pray the first wife finds you out, so that you will face the terrible consequences.

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by Success900(m): 10:22am On May 24
Are you mad or something grin

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by bluefilm: 10:22am On May 24
Simple.

You show her a picture of Yul Edochie

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by nkemoma(m): 10:22am On May 24
2 scenarios are involved:

1. If you have a good dick and enough dough that the first wife is so sure that she alone can't handle, you can calmly but firmly tell her after giving her both. You are safe

2. You are a wretched ekuke with a malfunctioning dick she is managing..

My brethren, leave your main door open, make sure she is taking her bath so she can't run out naked, and scream from the main door your evil intentions.... Then Runnnnn.

You are at her mercy, the day she decides to send you to the great beyond. Accept it in good fate.


Peace!

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Re: How Do You Tell Your First Wife You Married Another Wife? by GENES11S: 10:22am On May 24
Do this to a Russian woman and you will probably die of food poisoning.

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