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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Mariangeles(f): 3:55pm On Jun 04, 2022
Ishilove:

Kobo reads her bible through a haze of the finest Kwale weed.

I taya for Kobo!

That was just too much to be ignored. undecided
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Mariangeles(f): 3:56pm On Jun 04, 2022
Acidosis:


cry cry cry grin grin grin

I need to speak with him ASAP. I don't understand you two

Acid the matchmaker. cheesy

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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Acidosis(m): 4:03pm On Jun 04, 2022
Ishilove:

Hahahahaha!

grin grin
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Acidosis(m): 4:04pm On Jun 04, 2022
Mariangeles:


Acid the matchmaker. cheesy


Permission to perfect the matchmaking?? wink
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 4:09pm On Jun 04, 2022
Acidosis:



Permission to perfect the matchmaking?? wink

It's a her. Not a man. Kobo is a female.

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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Mariangeles(f): 4:13pm On Jun 04, 2022
Acidosis:



Permission to perfect the matchmaking?? wink

Not granted. cheesy
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 4:14pm On Jun 04, 2022
bukatyne:


I can imagine how his marriage is/how his wife really feels.

The thread says: share what advise YOU would give YOUR younger self about marriage from your experience.

Baba wrote a 10 pager advise to women.

What lesson has he learnt for himself in his marriage?

What has he learnt for himself to become a better husband?

I purposely skipped the post. He simply wrote a post on how women should handle men. Perhaps, he didn't understand what the topic meant.

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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Acidosis(m): 4:14pm On Jun 04, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:


It's a her. Not a man. Kobo is a female.


Really?? cheesy Oh well
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 4:15pm On Jun 04, 2022
Acidosis:



Really?? cheesy Oh well

Yes.

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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Acidosis(m): 4:17pm On Jun 04, 2022
Mariangeles:


Not granted. cheesy

angry sad sad Byeeeeeeeeee
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Kobojunkie: 4:22pm On Jun 04, 2022
Mariangeles:
Stop misrepresenting Christianity.
How exactly did I misrepresenting Christianity in that comment there? undecided

Can you point out any falsehood is what was stated by moi? undecided

Avoid all these snide attacks.... it is so unbecoming. lipsrsealed

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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Kobojunkie: 4:23pm On Jun 04, 2022
Ishilove:

Uya, please don't mind Kobo. Completely disregard this post make you no lost
Disregard God's Truth because you are uncomfortable with it? undecided

Doesn't that tell you something about your claimed relationship with God? undecided

And why do you keep deceiving yourself believing that these childish attacks of yours make you right and I wrong in my proclamations?undecided

If you can provide a mature rebuttal, go for it instead or ignore me as I do what I know to do, which is preach God's Truth wherever I can.. undecided

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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Kobojunkie: 4:24pm On Jun 04, 2022
ahnie:

I m still trying hard to find out exactly what your problem is!
The problem isn't mine but yours this since you choose to attack me for clearly stating what is God's Truth, Jesus Christ undecided

Does bullying somehow make the truth disappear? undecided

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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Mariangeles(f): 4:46pm On Jun 04, 2022
Kobojunkie:
How exactly did I misrepresenting Christianity in that comment there? undecided

Can you point out any falsehood is what was stated by moi? undecided

Avoid all these snide attacks.... it is so unbecoming. lipsrsealed

Your whole interpretation is false.
If you have a different understanding of the scriptures, have it to yourself. Stop misleading people.

There's nothing like "snide attacks". I'm being bluntly direct with you.

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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Ishilove: 5:45pm On Jun 04, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Disregard God's Truth because you are uncomfortable with it? undecided

Doesn't that tell you something about your claimed relationship with God? undecided

And why do you keep deceiving yourself believing that these childish attacks of yours make you right and I wrong in my proclamations?undecided

If you can provide a mature rebuttal, go for it instead or ignore me as I do what I know to do, which is preach God's Truth wherever I can.. undecided
Kobo, we have gone through this before and I'm not going to go over it again. You turned the scriptures upsidedown and gave your own interpretation to what is a very straightforward verse.

Wo, Kobojunkie, gerrarahere. Like someone pointed out, you dey talk like anti-Christ so I no fit follow you yarn dust.

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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Kobojunkie: 6:26pm On Jun 04, 2022
Ishilove:

Kobo, we have gone through this before and I'm not going to go over it again. You turned the scriptures upsidedown and gave your own interpretation to what is a very straightforward verse.

Wo, Kobojunkie, gerrarahere. Like someone pointed out, you dey talk like anti-Christ so I no fit follow you yarn dust.
You and I have never gone through anything so stop deluding yourself. undecided

Your tactic has almost always been to attack me rather than the message and that seems to come from a place of denial of God's Truth for you, not me. I simply state what is written, as it is written. undecided

If you have a problem with what is quoted, make it known by presenting facts/evidence. Attacking my person instead makes you seem small-minded at best. undecided

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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Kobojunkie: 6:31pm On Jun 04, 2022
Mariangeles:
Your whole interpretation is false.
If you have a different understanding of the scriptures, have it to yourself. Stop misleading people.

There's nothing like "snide attacks". I'm being bluntly direct with you.
Be specific! What aspect of what I stated is false interpretation? undecided
Kobojunkie:
Submission is born of God's curse on marriage which rendered marriage of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - Genesis 3 vs 16 & Luke 20 vs 34 -36. Therefore, there is nothing Christian about marriage or your formula. undecided
Did God not impose submission as a curse(unholy) on marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16? undecided

Did Jesus Christ not proclaim that marriage is of this world (unholy) and not of the Kingdom of God(Holy) in Luke 20 vs 34 - 36? undecided

Simple yes or no to any the question above will do! Be blunt this time about the topic and not my person. undecided

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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Michelle55: 6:39pm On Jun 04, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Be specific! What aspect of what I stated is false interpretation? undecided
Did God not impose submission as a curse(unholy) on marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16? undecided

Did Jesus Christ not proclaim that marriage is of this world (unholy) and not of the Kingdom of God(Holy) in Luke 20 vs 34 - 36? undecided

Simple yes or no to any the question above will do! Be blunt this time about the topic and not my person. undecided
Sometimes, it's best if you could just let some topics go and learn. It isn't compulsory that you must comment, arguments don't make one sound wise kobo rather it reveals the level of your knowledge in certain topics.
Seat this one out and let's not turn this beautiful thread into arguments.
Danke!

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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by slan87(m): 6:53pm On Jun 04, 2022
Before going into marriage as a woman, be financially dependent. Have something doing
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by poshestmina(f): 6:53pm On Jun 04, 2022
Always so desperate for unnecessary attention with 'upside down 'ideologies undecided undecided undecided.

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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Kobojunkie: 6:57pm On Jun 04, 2022
Michelle55:

Sometimes, it's best if you could just let some topics go and learn. It isn't compulsory that you must comment, arguments don't make one sound wise kobo rather it reveals the level of your knowledge in certain topics.
Seat this one out and let's not turn this beautiful thread into arguments.
Danke!
I am sorry! Who are you and why are you in this? lipsrsealed

If you have answers then please respond appropriately or move on ... again..
Kobojunkie:
Be specific! What aspect of what I stated is false interpretation? undecided
Did God not impose submission as a curse(unholy) on marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16? undecided

Did Jesus Christ not proclaim that marriage is of this world (unholy) and not of the Kingdom of God(Holy) in Luke 20 vs 34 - 36? undecided

Simple yes or no to any the question above will do! Be blunt this time about the topic and not my person. undecided

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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Michelle55: 7:01pm On Jun 04, 2022
Kobojunkie:
I am sorry! Who are you and why are you in this? lipsrsealed

If you have answers then please respond appropriately or move on ... again..
Now, you're being childish.
Consider this my last response to you, it would be great if you keep mute sometimes because you're beginning to sound more like a broken record, no offense though.
Peace!

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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Kobojunkie: 7:05pm On Jun 04, 2022
Michelle55:
Now, you're being childish.
Consider this my last response to you, it would be great if you keep mute sometimes because you're beginning to sound more like a broken record, no offense though.
Peace!
Are you certain I am the childish one here? undecided
From where I sit, you literally jumped in the middle of conversation, ignored the topic and questions asked, all so you can pretend to dictate to me how I should approach or not approach topics on a forum. Who are you? I have no clue. undecided

Look, i posted questions there. If you have answers, go for it, else, there isn't much I can do for you.. undecided

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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by DonroxyII: 9:15pm On Jun 04, 2022
Nebes:
My Christian formula:
Husbands, love your wives as Christ loves you. Wives, submit to your husbands as unto the Lord.

There are alot of Mathematics in Between these "Loves and "Submissions" which we all failed to Address in Present Society. I believe the mathematics in Between are the causes of Marital Failures:

Love involves the one to be loved to attract that Love:

Submissions Don't just Happen, You must be worthy of That Submissions:

Overall, Marriage needs God to Survive in this Dispensations:

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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Kobojunkie: 9:20pm On Jun 04, 2022
DonroxyII:
Overall, Marriage needs God to Survive in this Dispensations:
God washed His hands off of marriage back in Genesis 3 vs 16 when He rendered it unholy and not of His Kingdom. undecided
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by cococandy(f): 10:03pm On Jun 04, 2022
Ishilove:

Kobo, we have gone through this before and I'm not going to go over it again. You turned the scriptures upsidedown and gave your own interpretation to what is a very straightforward verse.

Wo, Kobojunkie, gerrarahere. Like someone pointed out, you dey talk like anti-Christ so I no fit follow you yarn dust.

Ishi It’s literally in the curse of God to Eve when they ate the fruit of the tree. Now, people are free to apply it how they wish by saying Jesus died and lifted the curse (although we still experience pain with child birth). But Kobo is being verbatim about what the Bible says. I don’t know why you guys are attacking her.

Gen 3:16 To the woman he said,

“I will make your pains in childbearing very severe;
with painful labor you will give birth to children.(F)
Your desire will be for your husband,
and he will rule over you.

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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Kobojunkie: 10:31pm On Jun 04, 2022
cococandy:
Ishi It’s literally in the curse of God to Eve when they ate the fruit of the tree. Now, people are free to apply it how they wish by saying Jesus died and lifted the curse (although we still experience pain with child birth). But Kobo is being verbatim about what the Bible says. I don’t know why you guys are attacking her.
Jesus Christ didn't lift the curse by His death. What He did was instead provide a path to salvation from God's curse in Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22, and it is to this He declared that only those who endure till the end will be saved - Matthew 24 vs 13 - not before the end. undecided

As for the curse on childbearing, we'll, every child born into this world is born into a cursed existence, removed from God from birth. Those who decide to find their way back to Him needing to suffer and endure tribulations to make it. undecided

As we know God created some Eunuchs(childless) from birth , made some Eunuchs(childless) in this life, and allowed others to choose to live as Eunuchs(childless) for the sake of His Kingdom, well, it becomes sort of a no brainer for anyone who truly understands God in this. Do you drag a soul into a cursed existence, so it can suffer and endure tribulation and probably fail to reach God in the end? Or do you forego all that? undecided

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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Durabest: 11:22pm On Jun 04, 2022
bukatyne:

Are you male or female?
Male
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Freeeanijor: 11:35pm On Jun 04, 2022
Kobojunkie:
God washed His hands off of marriage back in Genesis 3 vs 16 when He rendered it unholy and not of His Kingdom. undecided
Stop it.

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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Kobojunkie: 11:36pm On Jun 04, 2022
Freeeanijor:
Stop it.
Stop what? Why does God's Truth scare you? undecided

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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Freeeanijor: 11:39pm On Jun 04, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Stop what? Why does the God's Truth scare you? undecided
That teaching sounds demonic.

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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Kobojunkie: 11:59pm On Jun 04, 2022
Freeeanijor:
That teaching sounds demonic.
How can what is written of God right there in scripture be demonic abeg? undecided

God cursed marriage and childbearing in Genesis 3 vs 16. Jesus Christ literally reminded you all of this in Luke 20 vs 34 - 36.

If God's Truth sounds demonic to you, that should be a hint to you as far who you instead worship. Definitely not God! undecided

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