Internet22:
Omo life hasn't be the same, Imaging the the first child being just 22 and already have 7 other siblings behind him, sad


No offense, Omo yur parent dey nack o

Isrealbabs:
Understand that you have destiny to fulfil, I will say again no excuse for failure, [b]Infact things are easier now than my time, [/b]I did all manner of work ranging from farm work in people's farm and a conductor during my university day in Ilorin to survive school. He should be encourage by people like myself who came from nothing and make it.

Ishilove:

And what if the man is financially capable, like the man in my post you quoted?

medropoly:
Damn.. Having plenty siblings is the beginning of your endless suffering as a senior child. Am saying this from experience...
Damn... Just imagine how having plenty children has changed the whole scenario of the family life,.
The mother becomes a ruthless nagging woman and verbally abusing her children
Father tends to shy away from his responsibilities.,
Children fight and disrespect each other constantly..
Verbal and physical abuse becomes the order of the day..
Parent fighting each other in front of kids..

Damn... How I wish when she gave birth to the forth child she stopped giving birth as she promised, but instead she added four more children to the squad.. Giving bullshit stories of "Na God dey give pikin, maybe Na dis one God go use change my story" and bla bla bla

Omo life hasn't be the same, Imaging the the first child being just 22 and already have 7 other siblings behind him,

Cooking and eating of food Na....... , let me don't even go there

Una wey una mama no born plenty pikin no knw Wetin God do for una

VeryWickedGoat:


Shut up

thebosstrevor1:


Yeah, it doesn't work like that.

Starting a business might actually destroy your life. You are alone, depressed and living on the edge

Fact is that, having a job is more stable than having a business.

Raalsalghul:


Another less wicked option is to contaminate the food and water supply with substances that'll make people sterile.

Kaiair:

But you gotta blame multiple births.....my grandfather (my dad's dad) married 12 wives and each wife gave birth to 8 children, who are all married with atleast 3-5 kids, just do the math then figure out how big my fam is....6 of my uncles married 4-6 wives each

Kobojunkie:
If you don't want the pattern to repeat itself in your own life and that of your siblings, it is best you broach the issue in their presence so it registers at the root and with your siblings.

Skyview01:


I can totally relate coming from a family of 7.

Our living room be like Oshodi downtown.

Na so we dey consume one bag of rice in a month and my old man go dey para. lol

Just try your best and leave the rest.!
and, do not enable lazy relatives, It's like pouring water in a basket!

Kaiair:

But you gotta blame multiple births.....my grandfather (my dad's dad) married 12 wives and each wife gave birth to 8 children, who are all married with atleast 3-5 kids, just do the math then figure out how big my fam is....6 of my uncles married 4-6 wives each

uthlaw:
no b rubbish,yes na,u de husstle pass me,watin I de try tell you b say,if u stay there with them...omo e go hard for you....no b fight!

Kobojunkie:
I didn't conclude there were mistakes made by his parents. You did that and I am simply trying to get you to at least state what those mistakes are.

Mariangeles:


I even believe bringing an only child into this world is selfish on the part of the couple and cruelty to the child.
It's better not to have any, than to intentionally have only one child.

Kobojunkie:
Wow... head of family means he controls his wife's womb? His wife, equally equipped with a fully functional brain is nothing but a figure head? Yikes!

jaxxy:


This is a lazy mentality of someone who doesn't want to think and explore his full potentials. Tough situation birth the BEST people. No great person had it so comfortable or was ok with the level they were.

U are attacking the no of kids instead of attacking poverty or poor child planning.

Even If she had 4 children like u prefer will that make u a billionaire? No! u could still be in penury.

Rather it is How u think that changes everything.

saintruky:
@op my mama born 9... I happen to be d 7th... No be say my papa hold it tho, but we no experience wetin u dey experience so... If pman no get to drop for food, momsy go chest am cos she get small kiosk she dey manage then... Overall son come kick bucket when he go work...

I'll advise u to just find wetin to do, best u leave d house so ur pman n him babe fit man up n take responsibility of d house...

Senior at 22, with 7 backups, omo dis one no too make brain o... Ur mama truly fertile...

Smilesvilles21:
The man can control his little man if the woman chooses not to control her womb.
If the man is not a figure head devoid of a fully functional brain then the family shouldn't be in a mess of lack of planning.

VeryWickedMan:
Aha
This was why I killed my parents and 5 of my siblings so that I can have peace of mind.

cayorday89:

Truly, the problems of this world is diverse, many complain of too many siblings and here you are not happy with having only one child, and I can see Michelle55 up there in same situation, and here I am, not entirely happy being an only son amongst 3 daughters and I will see some wishing they were the only son. From the angle of being an only son, I sure can relate with how anyone will feel as an only child.

FireUpNow:
Family planning please. Some of you are saying he should go and double his hustling. My question to you guys who have doubled their hustle how many mouths or persons are you feeding? Let's be factual and face the truth , in this present Nigeria two or four kids are enough.

Mariangeles:


I love my brothers o, but I'm sure I would've been less happier in life without my sisters.
We're best of friends.
I would not have been this confident person without them.
There's no better feeling than having siblings you can talk anything with.

cayorday89:

Yeah, no better feeling for sure, I don't even have issues with my siblings but parents, you know all those male expectations wahala and again from spiritual angle of my parents, the protection was too much like they don't want to lose thier only source of lineage continuity.

My childhood was also hectic, I worked my life off, both male and female chores were all done by me and I am many years older than two younger siblings while my elder sister is small in stature so all hard work and soft work was on my head, if I had a male sibling, it would have been lighter. It's not a status I enjoy.

VeryWickedMan:
Aha
This was why I killed my parents and 5 of my siblings so that I can have peace of mind.

Kobojunkie:
Same can be said of the woman in this. Or is there a legit reason why it is instead OK for the woman to be devoid of a fully functional brain where it concerns the welfare of her own children?

medropoly:
Damn.. Having plenty siblings is the beginning of your endless suffering as a senior child. Am saying this from experience...
Damn... Just imagine how having plenty children has changed the whole scenario of the family life,.
The mother becomes a ruthless nagging woman and verbally abusing her children
Father tends to shy away from his responsibilities.,
Children fight and disrespect each other constantly..
Verbal and physical abuse becomes the order of the day..
Parent fighting each other in front of kids..

Damn... How I wish when she gave birth to the forth child she stopped giving birth as she promised, but instead she added four more children to the squad.. Giving bullshit stories of "Na God dey give pikin, maybe Na dis one God go use change my story" and bla bla bla

Omo life hasn't be the same, Imaging the the first child being just 22 and already have 7 other siblings behind him,

Cooking and eating of food Na....... , let me don't even go there

Una wey una mama no born plenty pikin no knw Wetin God do for una

Dickson178:
What of some mothers wey no born plenty and e con die nkor? Like me the beginning of my suffering is the day I lost my dear lovely Mom

Bruddaly if I could be like you ,just to be seeing my mom everyday, Everytime,I could've been the happiest person on this Earth. Take care, life isn't easy!

APC2:
I stopped my siblings from coming to my house so that I and my wife can have peace and feel like newly married family. My marriage was not up to 4 months when my mother keep on disturbing me that my younger brother should come over and stay.
Imagine my brother, any time he sees my wife, his pen1s will just rise.
I don't even call anybody again since they were angry with me for sending my brother away