isan:
Lost my mum and dad before i turn a year old and yes i don't believe in any spiritual being because all my life has been shape by reality ...l

Interesting!.

I didn't have what you would consider a loving relationship with either my dad or my mum growing up yet I had a yearning for something more than is available and known. I got answers to all those questions that plagued me longest only recently and this all unrelated to my relationship with my parents.

There are many who grew up without a father or mother figure yet with a yearning for that which is beyond human knowledge and understanding. This view that our trust is God is dependent on the bond between father and child is generally unfounded.

Munzy14:

Nnaa eeeh...Truth sha...


Till date my dad still reminisce the first time he set his eyes on me...He travelled on work duty when momsy entered labour..Returned few days after..to meet his first fruit in the hospital..lol

I asked him what was my reaction, he said I smiled and held his hands like his dad does..Nwoke bu detailed memory..

Ka m na akwado for my own turn...E go reach everybody wey dey prepared..

The love is spiritual.

Mariangeles:


The love is spiritual.

I just can't wait too long..

Na pampering sure for them..

Munzy14:

I just can't wait too long..

Na pampering sure for them..

I choro I hu umu nwanne m?

Mariangeles:


I choro I hu umu nwanne m?

Yea..

Munzy14:

Yea..

Okay.

Nuru online o, so that ka m wepu ya when you've seen it.

Munzy14:

Yea..

Ngwa lee na profile m.

Mee ka m mara ma gi hu ya.

Mariangeles:


Ngwa lee na profile m.

Mee ka m mara ma gi hu ya.

Ahu la m ya...Ejima?

Mariangeles:


Okay.

Nuru online o, so that ka m wepu ya when you've seen it.

Seen...Soo cute

Munzy14:

Ahu la m ya...Ejima?

Yes.

Munzy14:

Seen...Soo cute

Right?

My brother loves them so much.

Mariangeles:


Yes.

Chai...my dream...First female or twin.

Ndi nke ozo wuru boys...

Ha mara nma...Kedu onye ha yiri karia? Mummy ha ka o wu Daddy ha?

Mariangeles:


Right?

My brother loves them so much.

He must o...Me na pampering I go pamper sha..

But I will train them in the smartest way with basic needs.

Hangout with them, snap pics without mercy

Anyway I pamper my Parents, ma ya fodukwa my fruit...

Munzy14:

Chai...my dream...First female or twin.

Ndi nke ozo wuru boys...

Ha mara nma...Kedu onye ha yiri karia? Mummy ha ka o wu Daddy ha?

They look like our side of the family. With the hair and skin colour.

Their mum is light skinned.

Munzy14:

He must o...Me na pampering I go pamper sha..

But I will train them in the smartest way with basic needs.

Hangout with them, snap pics without mercy

Anyway I pamper my Parents, ma ya fodukwa my fruit...

They love their dad so much, you have no idea.
My brother used to be this person that loved his space, but they came and changed that.

You remember that story that I told you about one child who always gets her father's slippers to welcome him home whenever she hears the sound of his car? It's one of them.

Mariangeles:


They look like our side of the family. With the hair and skin colour.

Their mum is light skinned.

Wow...The natural beauty is there...

Unu na adi hairy o kwa ya?

Children are bundle of joy..

During NYSC, when I was posted to my PPA. My employer's little daughter came and sat beside me, the woman was like Guy this is first in history for her daughter to come close to a stranger not to talk of touching me.. I told her It's a blessing..

Another scenario, I once stopped at a shop to get something, the woman's little daughter ran and hug my legs...I lifted her up and the woman was shocked for some seconds..Like her daughter doesn't allow anyone touch her..except the her parents...

This two cases made me love Children the more..

They are cute, the innocence in saying their minds..

Their curiosity.

The never ending question and answer..

Generally they are fun.

Munzy14:

Wow...The natural beauty is there...

Unu na adi hairy o kwa ya?

Children are bundle of joy..

Yeah.

During NYSC, when I was posted to my PPA. My employer's little daughter came and sat beside me, the woman was like Guy this is first in history for her daughter to come close to a stranger not to talk of touching me.. I told her It's a blessing..

Another scenario, I once stopped at a shop to get something, the woman's little daughter ran and hug my legs...I lifted her up and the woman was shocked for some seconds..Like her daughter doesn't allow anyone touch her..except the her parents...

This two cases made me love Children the more..

They are cute, the innocence in saying their minds..

Their curiosity.

The never ending question and answer..

Generally they are fun.

If children are drawn to you, it means your aura is good.

Children and animals (dogs in particular) can detect bad aura in a person.

Mariangeles:


They love their dad so much, you have no idea.
My brother used to be this person that loved his space, but they came and changed that.

You remember that story that I told you about one child who always gets her father's slippers to welcome him home whenever she hears the sound of his car? It's one of them.

Surely...Babies changes everything..

You must adjust to accommodate them..When they start coming.
And the girl child learn to love from that very little age.The love she get from her Dad is what she will reciprocate to her man when she grows to have one..And same love she will spread to her offsprings.

Yea..And I noticed, every child recognizes the sound of their parents ride..Car or motorcycle.

The bond between a girl child and her Dad is everlasting.

You know, your brother is in for enjoyment till eternity...Her daughters will always be there..

Just my dream.

Mariangeles:

Yeah.



If children are drawn to you, it means your aura is good.

Children and animals (dogs in particular) can detect bad aura in a person.

Thats cool...Unu ga a ma nma...Umu nwaanyi nwere hairy gene, ji a ma nma naturally without stress.


Yea..Thats true..At first sight one may think otherwise..

E ji m agwa my friends si, I have a dual nature...The funny me,the too serious me..

Munzy14:

Surely...Babies changes everything..

You must adjust to accommodate them..When they start coming.
And the girl child learn to love from that very little age.The love she get from her Dad is what she will reciprocate to her man when she grows to have one..And same love she will spread to her offsprings.

Yea..And I noticed, every child recognizes the sound of their parents ride..Car or motorcycle.

The bond between a girl child and her Dad is everlasting.

You know, your brother is in for enjoyment till eternity...Her daughters will always be there..

Just my dream.

When their arrival was announced, after the whole excitement and all, my mum asked my brother elee 'ke wu Ada n'ime ha abuo?, and my brother was like does it matter? Ha abuo wu Ada.
Then my mum was like otu n'ime ha ga a torila ibe ya. Com'on ga juo doctor.
Thankfully, the doctor clarified and said it was the one with the hospital bracelet. Can you imagine?
And she's the one that always bring the slippers.

Mariangeles:


When their arrival was announced, after the whole excitement and all, my mum asked my brother elee 'ke wu Ada n'ime ha abuo?, and my brother was like does it matter? Ha abuo wu Ada.
Then my mum was like otu n'ime ha ga a torila ibe ya. Com'on ga juo doctor.
Thankfully, the doctor clarified and said it was the one with the hospital bracelet. Can you imagine?
And she's the one that always bring the slippers.

Ndi mama and fighting for seniority..

They are Identical twins..To me ha abuo wu chaa Ada..Even though nature must seperate the senior from junior..


Chai! Imagine nature just affirmed the Ada without stress..

Did you people made them know who is first and second?

Apart from them, unu enwere twin ozo na lineage unu? Either from paternal or maternal side?

Munzy14:

Ndi mama and fighting for seniority..

O kwesiri.
It matters to avoid confusion later on in life.

They are Identical twins..To me ha abuo wu chaa Ada..Even though nature must seperate the senior from junior..


Chai! Imagine nature just affirmed the Ada without stress..

And nature did.
'Ke wu Ada took her place naturally as they're growing.
The things she does prove so.
Anya ruru ya ala karia the other one as little as she is.

Did you people made them know who is first and second?

I don't know if their dad did.
I doubt he did, but trust my mum.

Apart from them, unu enwere twin ozo na lineage unu? Either from paternal or maternal side?

Yeah. From my maternal side.
My mum is a twin. Her twin is a man though.

Mariangeles:


O kwesiri.
It matters to avoid confusion later on in life.



And nature did.
'Ke wu Ada took her place naturally as they're growing.
The things she does prove so.
Anya ruru ya ala karia the other one as little as she is.



I don't know if their dad did.
I doubt he did, but trust my mum.



Yeah. From my maternal side.
My mum is a twin. Her twin is a man though.

True...It is just the length ndi mama goes to uncover a curiosity check... ya suru mma m eeh, anyi ga chigide ya ochi...And her check happens if anyone of us is keeping a babe..Ya a bia juwa onye ahu o wu onye


Chukwu ji eji Aka ya a hoputa Ndi Ada and Opara.

Wow...Likely all of you, I mean you and your siblings will have twin in your respective matrimonial homes ..Possibility is high.

My grandma had twin that didn't survive.

My uncle's wife had twins twice that didn't survive..

Funny enough both women had a baby girl that survived after all the disappointments, before the boys started coming.

I like twins..

Swetest scenario my first two girls.
Second, two boys...I am done...

Two pregnancy 4kids..God abeg o..

Munzy14:

True...It is just the length ndi mama goes to uncover a curiosity check... ya suru mma m eeh, anyi ga chigide ya ochi...And her check happens if anyone of us is keeping a babe..Ya a bia juwa onye ahu o wu onye


Chukwu ji eji Aka ya a hoputa Ndi Ada and Opara.

Wow...Likely all of you, I mean you and your siblings will have twin in your respective matrimonial homes ..Possibility is high.

My grandma had twin that didn't survive.

My uncle's wife had twins twice that didn't survive..

Funny enough both women had a baby girl that survived after all the disappointments, before the boys started coming.

I like twins..

Swetest scenario my first two girls.
Second, two boys...I am done...

Two pregnancy 4kids..God abeg o..

First of all, hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

The last part is so funny ehn
Ihe na a gu gi ni a nahu a gba na shop! Onye anya ukwu!

Chukwu ji eji Aka ya a hoputa Ndi Ada and Opara.

As for this part, Chineke choro I kpo onye ruru aruru-ala n'uwa ya mbo oku, ya e nye ya opara okuko.

Mariangeles:


First of all, hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

The last part is so funny ehn
Ihe na a gu gi ni a nahu a gba na shop! Onye anya ukwu!



As for this part, Chineke choro I kpo onye ruru aruru-ala n'uwa ya mbo oku, ya e nye ya opara okuko.

Hahahahaha

I aim and hope for the best na...Even I don't get it, I will still cherish nke mu ji.

Noro kwa nga ahu..I ga noro nga chukwu emere m ya express for my wife...One pregnancy 4kids(Quadruplet)..
And that is all...

Onye hu zi nwunye m ya di ka o mu behu ofu sef..

Lmao...kedu nke wu Opara okuko kwa?...

Munzy14:

Hahahahaha

I aim and hope for the best na...Even I don't get it, I will still cherish nke mu ji.

Noro kwa nga ahu..I ga noro nga chukwu emere m ya express for my wife...One pregnancy 4kids(Quadruplet)..
And that is all...

Onye hu zi nwunye m ya di ka o mu behu ofu sef..

Lmao...kedu nke wu Opara okuko kwa?...

So, I hubeghi Opara kposhi-kposhi that can't
take his place as the first son?
They're usually unreliable.

Remember one guy that "officially" relinquished his place as the first son one time here on nairaland, that's an Opara okuko.

Mariangeles:


So, I hubeghi Opara kposhi-kposhi that can't
take his place as the first son?
They're usually unreliable.

Remember one guy that "officially" relinquished his place as the first son one time here on nairaland, that's an Opara okuko.

Lmao...Opara kposhi-kposhi...

How did you learn all this deep Igbo language?
I am forced to ask?

You normally say when you were in the village..O nwere mgbe I no turu na ulo?

Munzy14:

Lmao...Opara kposhi-kposhi...

How did you learn all this deep Igbo language?
I am forced to ask?

From my mum.

You normally say when you were in the village..O nwere mgbe I no turu na ulo?

Yes.

Mariangeles:


From my mum.



Yes.

Wow...Your mom wu eeeh deeply rooted Igbo woman...

At what age ka i no turu ihe a? Did you stay upto 1yr na ulo?

Munzy14:

Wow...Your mom wu eeeh deeply rooted Igbo woman...

At what age ka i no turu ihe a? Did you stay upto 1yr na ulo?

She is.
We communicate mostly in Igbo.

Mgbe m ka wu nwata. I didn't stay up to a year straight.

Mariangeles:


She is.
We communicate mostly in Igbo.

Mgbe m ka wu nwata. I didn't stay up to a year straight.

Good...

No wonder..Mgbe ufodu you hardly give vibe of onye toro na mba..I taa ga Igbo language ka biscuit..

Far better than ndi toro na ulo sef.

O foro i nu olu gi na Igbo...

Munzy14:

Good...

No wonder..Mgbe ufodu you hardly give vibe of onye toro na mba..I taa ga Igbo language ka biscuit..

Far better than ndi toro na ulo sef.

O foro i nu olu gi na Igbo...

I really appreciate that cultural side of me, and I'm thankful to my parents (my dad especially) for that.
Embracing one's root sets one apart. It's like an accessory.