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Y she dey vex now, na so one of my guy take land federal job by just servicing and doing errand boy during political meeting.

One big shot observed and spotted him a gave him job in federal ministry of transport. My guy dey headquarters for abj now

Disobident feminist how's, always wanting the benefits but avoiding the labors.
After the will come fighting for wrapper and puff puff, if the asked her to stuff the puff puff in her hand bag and head tie and take to her house, she won't complain.

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bepositive11:
You've really got me thinking. It's true that there is a double standard among women who call themselves feminists, but why is serving random men seen as insulting?

More often than not, Nigerian men treat women with so much disrespect. They are seen as inferior and not worthy of respect. Of course, there are exceptions, but most Nigerian men are like that

When you were carrying that bag of rice, did you feel less than? Did you feel insulted? Didn't you feel proud to show off your strength?

When we think of servants and maids, do we think of them with respect? I think it's about how they were asked to share the puff puff, like how we would ask a servant to

In every social gathering (at least in Nigeria), women do the lesser work and men do the harder work. Men don't complain, why should women?

A lot of men actually respect women who respect themselves.

Anyways, when I carried the bag, honestly, I felt used but I had to suck it up and do it anyways because she's good to me and she might hurt herself if she decides to carry it.

Karleb:


Why didn't women complain when men from age 18 to 60 where forced to stay back to fight Ukrainian war?

A lot of these men have no military training whatsoever.

Before you attack feminists, don't forget the fact that men made that announcement not women. 99% of the people involved in taking that decision are men.

Those stupid marriage and divorce laws in the west were created by men too, not women. The question you should be asking is, why are some stupid and simple(simps) men making life hard for other males?

I didn't hear any male rights complain about the order.. Why do you expect women to fight for male rights?

Karleb:


In every social gathering (at least in Nigeria), women do the lesser work and men do the harder work. Men don't complain, why should women?

A lot of men actually respect women who respect themselves.

Anyways, when I carried the bag, honestly, I felt used but I had to suck it up and do it anyways because she's good to me and she might hurt herself if she decides to carry it.

The fact that you're not complaining doesn't mean they can't or shouldn't complain. This is just like saying because you were maltreated by your boss but you didn't quit or complain, another person shouldn't quit or complain when he or she is maltreated.

As for your last part. Wtf.
You felt used and yet you carried the bag for her? Lmao. Bruv, you carried the bag despite not meaning to just to impress or please her. I don't know why you're trying to shift blame.

I can't count how many times some of my female neighbours have begged me to help them turn on their gen or get stuff for them but I refuse to help 95% of the times. No need doing something that'll inconvenience you or make you feel used later.
Learn to say no.

Elder0001:


The fact that you're not complaining doesn't mean they can't or shouldn't complain. This is just like saying because you were maltreated by your boss but you didn't quit or complain, another person shouldn't quit or complain when he or she is maltreated.

As for your last part. Wtf.
You felt used and yet you carried the bag for her? Lmao. Bruv, you carried the bag despite not meaning to just to impress or please her. I don't know why you're trying to shift blame.

I can't count how many times some of my female neighbours have begged me to help them turn on their gen or get stuff for them but I refuse to help 95% of the times. No need doing something that'll inconvenience you or make you feel used later.
Learn to say no.

Omo! Feminists can argue sha.

I did it because it's my responsibility. I may need her help to share puff puff for my birthday tomorrow and she has to do it because by then it will be her responsibility.

Karleb:


Omo! Feminists can argue sha.

I did it because it's my responsibility. I may need her help to share puff puff for my birthday tomorrow and she has to do it because by then it will be her responsibility.

She has to? See force.
What if she doesn't want to?

She didn't force you to carry bag of rice for her. That you carried the bag for her doesn't mean she's obligated to help you share snacks in your party tomorrow.

Anyways I'm out from here.

You felt used... but did it anyway so that she won't get hurt... that's interesting. I didn't think about that

It's true that there are men who respect women who respect themselves but the default tends to be disrespect until the woman has proven herself. Some men feel threatened by women who are worthy of respect and shame her instead

I think the difference is in a social gathering, men do work but don't directly serve women, whereas women are expected to do work that directly serves men as a servant or maid would

Karleb:


In every social gathering (at least in Nigeria), women do the lesser work and men do the harder work. Men don't complain, why should women?

A lot of men actually respect women who respect themselves.

Anyways, when I carried the bag, honestly, I felt used but I had to suck it up and do it anyways because she's good to me and she might hurt herself if she decides to carry it.

shigishege:
Eyahh and thier papa dey Egypt

Young should grow.

bepositive11:
You felt used... but did it anyway so that she won't get hurt... that's interesting. I didn't think about that

It's true that there are men who respect women who respect themselves but the default tends to be disrespect until the woman has proven herself. Some men feel threatened by women who are worthy of respect and shame her instead

I think the difference is in a social gathering, men do work but don't directly serve women, whereas women are expected to do work that directly serves men as a servant or maid would

@bold:

The work that men do, who does it serve?

When they get chairs with canopies, hustle to buy drinks, offload rice and other dirty jobs, who are they serving?

If the women served the puff puff, would they serve only men?

Nobody can make you inferior without your permission.