You r gf will leave just forget it

I really don’t care about other things but on d issues of sending your gf to school u go chop breakfast last last

Okay

Okay

Follow your instincts

elimsun:
Good day great people of nairaland. I'll make this as short as possible and forgive my typo errors.
I've been working in this construction firm for the past five years together with taking care of my family and my girlfriend who has been in school but due to ASUU strike, now at home.
I'm usually busy and spend less time at home except on weekends - Sundays.
Recently, my girlfriend has been talking me into changing the nature of my work to another job that will afford me the opportunity to give more time to my family and her. I insisted that I'll need more time to be able to find another job but she will not have it that way.
Seems to spoke to my mother about it and it's now hell in the home with my mother threatening she will kill herself if I don't quit the job. This job is something I have used in completing my house and paying the fees of my girlfriend.
Lest I forget, I got the hint that my manager is considering me for a promotion and my quitting the job might just spell doom on me!

I'll appreciate all your suggestions, advice and criticism. I'm really in a fix!

Get another girlfriend. There are plenty of unemployed guys out there who can give her the attention she craves.

You better because if she lacks the maturity to face reality she will be enjoying the attention of others while you are busy working

elimsun:
Good day great people of nairaland. I'll make this as short as possible and forgive my typo errors.
I've been working in this construction firm for the past five years together with taking care of my family and my girlfriend who has been in school but due to ASUU strike, now at home.
I'm usually busy and spend less time at home except on weekends - Sundays.
Recently, my girlfriend has been talking me into changing the nature of my work to another job that will afford me the opportunity to give more time to my family and her. I insisted that I'll need more time to be able to find another job but she will not have it that way.
Seems to spoke to my mother about it and it's now hell in the home with my mother threatening she will kill herself if I don't quit the job. This job is something I have used in completing my house and paying the fees of my girlfriend.
Lest I forget, I got the hint that my manager is considering me for a promotion and my quitting the job might just spell doom on me!

I'll appreciate all your suggestions, advice and criticism. I'm really in a fix!

You are sponsoring your girlfriend in school? Haven't you learnt from the experiences and stories of other men who have come before you?
The minute she's done with school,she will dispose of you. Keep that at the back of your mind.

Abfinest007:
Never consider quitting bcuz if u do ,she will be d first to mock u and if u try to remind her , she's the one that push u. her response will be"I told u something and u couldn't use ur her

Op listen to this advice ooo. This happened to me, now nobody talks to me.
Never learn the hard way

The last thing I will do is to quit my source of livelihood to please anyone. My wife cannot even take up such subject with me not to talk of girlfriend cos no be sand them dey use take care of family.

Lose your source of livelihood and see the real meaning of disloyalty from same girl friend.

If you see the need to get another job that avails you the chance to create a good work - life balance, fine but do not ever quit your current job for "no job"

U must be a joker quiting a job because of people dat don't add anything to ur life.tell them to get u a better job so u can quit d one u are doing.maybe u ain't living in Nigeria dat makes u not to understand d situation of jobless dudes in nigeria.dat same family will frustrate ur life wen u av nothing bringing to d table.family ko girlfriend ni

You no even get problem. When You broke only Your Mama go send You. If You want to leave it should be your choice. You should save considering You earn alot then plan an investment. Then stop paying school fees of Girlfriend she is not your Wife anything can happen. They should find You another Job before forcing You to quit

Follow the majority here you will be on the winning side

Cerebellum:
Village people shaking you after you start sleeping every morning and your dear wife starts to nag because of your uselessness and mumuness

Not even wife, OP said girlfriend o.

Don't try to quit your job, my wife also complained some months ago, I told her to relocate to where I m or she should manage it for a while. She agreed to relocate.

I rebuke them for you.
Please don't quit until you find something better.

There is something missing in this write up.

I would have said quit the relationship and face your work but another side of the story needs to be told.

CleanInAll:
Lol. Quit the job and become instrument of ridicule to the same people.

No long talk, that's fact

Comrade, don't quit the job!

ashewoboy:
Ubunja.

Don't you have a mind of your own? Use it!

Bro please leave your job so that your girlfriend will equally abandon you

any woman that wants u to quit your without providing another doesnt mean well.. What u should quit here is the relationship u have with her. Shes a leech. Does she not have her own parents that can take care of her?

2, dont listen to your mom. Shes only acting from an emotional angle. Your job isnt killing u, the relationship u have with the girl is.. Let her go and get a lady dat also have a job. I think she's already cheating sef, and shes trying to use your not always being around as excuse. Be wise.

elimsun:
Good day great people of nairaland. I'll make this as short as possible and forgive my typo errors.
I've been working in this construction firm for the past five years together with taking care of my family and my girlfriend who has been in school but due to ASUU strike, now at home.
I'm usually busy and spend less time at home except on weekends - Sundays.
Recently, my girlfriend has been talking me into changing the nature of my work to another job that will afford me the opportunity to give more time to my family and her. I insisted that I'll need more time to be able to find another job but she will not have it that way.
Seems to spoke to my mother about it and it's now hell in the home with my mother threatening she will kill herself if I don't quit the job. This job is something I have used in completing my house and paying the fees of my girlfriend.
Lest I forget, I got the hint that my manager is considering me for a promotion and my quitting the job might just spell doom on me!

I'll appreciate all your suggestions, advice and criticism. I'm really in a fix!

Don’t quit please,try and be kinder to her ,she will pray for you if you give her money instead of complaining,be kind to your girlfriend too and give her attention as much as you can,I hope the job is not affecting you medically sha

elimsun:
Good day great people of nairaland. I'll make this as short as possible and forgive my typo errors.
I've been working in this construction firm for the past five years together with taking care of my family and my girlfriend who has been in school but due to ASUU strike, now at home.
I'm usually busy and spend less time at home except on weekends - Sundays.
Recently, my girlfriend has been talking me into changing the nature of my work to another job that will afford me the opportunity to give more time to my family and her. I insisted that I'll need more time to be able to find another job but she will not have it that way.
Seems to spoke to my mother about it and it's now hell in the home with my mother threatening she will kill herself if I don't quit the job. This job is something I have used in completing my house and paying the fees of my girlfriend.
Lest I forget, I got the hint that my manager is considering me for a promotion and my quitting the job might just spell doom on me!

I'll appreciate all your suggestions, advice and criticism. I'm really in a fix!

if you quit that job, they will finish you completely. Its then they will tell you you are a lazy man. you will be shocked.

CleanInAll:
Lol. Quit the job and become an instrument of ridicule to the same people.

That guy never sees anything.

He will learn the hard way if he heeds their advice.

Cerebellum:
Village people shaking you after you start sleeping every morning and your dear wife starts to nag because of your uselessness and mumuness

Lol @ the meme.

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Permit me to advice you as a friend and possibly brother, quitting your job will do you no good even if no promotion is coming but what the situation of the environment is saying does not give chance to drop your current job while you haven't gotten any replacement yet, and I want to also let you know that sometimes when good thing wants to approach some hiding will want to disrupt it be strong and fight off whatever that is planning on giving you distraction, The Lord is your strength

Legendarytonyy:
.. when you quit and become jobless, your girlfriend will leave you, your family will ridicule you.
My Guy think oh. Think before you act.
There's actually nothing to think of, tell them "NO".

in fact, the mother will accused the girlfriend of witchcraft, she deceived her in convincing her son to quite the job .

Omo...they should die o.. Lmao.. See jobless people dey get choice.. Chai. Madness

elimsun:
Good day great people of nairaland. I'll make this as short as possible and forgive my typo errors.
I've been working in this construction firm for the past five years together with taking care of my family and my girlfriend who has been in school but due to ASUU strike, now at home.
I'm usually busy and spend less time at home except on weekends - Sundays.
Recently, my girlfriend has been talking me into changing the nature of my work to another job that will afford me the opportunity to give more time to my family and her. I insisted that I'll need more time to be able to find another job but she will not have it that way.
Seems to spoke to my mother about it and it's now hell in the home with my mother threatening she will kill herself if I don't quit the job. This job is something I have used in completing my house and paying the fees of my girlfriend.
Lest I forget, I got the hint that my manager is considering me for a promotion and my quitting the job might just spell doom on me!

I'll appreciate all your suggestions, advice and criticism. I'm really in a fix!

ur gf is right, please quit immediately.

elimsun:
Good day great people of nairaland. I'll make this as short as possible and forgive my typo errors.
I've been working in this construction firm for the past five years together with taking care of my family and my girlfriend who has been in school but due to ASUU strike, now at home.
I'm usually busy and spend less time at home except on weekends - Sundays.
Recently, my girlfriend has been talking me into changing the nature of my work to another job that will afford me the opportunity to give more time to my family and her. I insisted that I'll need more time to be able to find another job but she will not have it that way.
Seems to spoke to my mother about it and it's now hell in the home with my mother threatening she will kill herself if I don't quit the job. This job is something I have used in completing my house and paying the fees of my girlfriend.
Lest I forget, I got the hint that my manager is considering me for a promotion and my quitting the job might just spell doom on me!

I'll appreciate all your suggestions, advice and criticism. I'm really in a fix!

If you quit that job make thunder faya you! I mean am.
Quit and watch how these same people will turn around and mock you indirectly.

The only person that can give me this kind of advice and I will listen is my father. Sadly, he is no more.

What of people wey dey work offshore nko. Their families don die?

Rubbish. Girlfriend wey go dump tour ar*se once you go broke