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Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by Parachoko: 12:32pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
boyfwend:Leave girl matter for now guy and face hustle. See eh, you're still struggling and is not even sure you will graduate in a year time. Nah like this poverty dey start o man. Best of luck. 1 Like |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by osazsky(m): 12:32pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
Goat u don't have money to service ur carry over but u are servicing a girl...I have seen 17 year old children raise their families..ok we all came from poor background ,wat are u doing abt it..if u want to drink sniper drink plenty oga. U can't be thinking of your girls yanchh and thinking of suicide at the same time chose one but chose wisely..no one is bothered abt those who ended their lives tufiakwa |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by Sukkyy2010: 12:32pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
boyfwend:hear the way you sound, it's seems you prioritize your relationship with the girl much than your life goal and career. Continue mr lover lover. 6 Likes |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by jaxxy(m): 12:32pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
boyfwend: We become ungrateful when we think we are the worst bt there are many is worse positions than us if u open our eyes. Ur dad sent u to school till uni 300lrvel some people didn't even have a parent talkless of anyone to send them to school. Look beyond urself. When u are grateful for little more will come to you. complaining and cursing urself like this attracts nothing good to u bt more darkness and confusion. Read books u will see people who's parents cudnt send them to school and some had no home and lived on the street yet outcome sheer determination and belief made it and became people of recognition. U are here being ungrateful and even contemplating suicide over nothing as bad as some other people? U better pray for understanding and open ur eyes. social media and peer pressure make u think u are the worst when thus is same struggle 40/50% of Nigerians face. |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by onuman: 12:33pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
boyfwend: Amnesty payoffs is like a lazy man accepting crumbs from colonial masters who take away the larger booty to develop their region. Niger Delta area would have been like Dubai today if the elders of the now SS had not gone to plead with Hassan Katsina in 1967 to beg HoS, Yakubu Gowon, to carve the non Igbo speaking areas of the old Eastern region out of Biafra. Gowon did, and that helped to scuttle Biafra independence. Sorry for your plight. |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by iHart(m): 12:33pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
You brought woman home and came her to bother us. 1 Like |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by Jamesayo: 12:34pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
Mine is a family of four and seems we share similar story in just dad paying school fees. See my beloved, you need to keep working on yourself. Let's start from there. From what I read, you ain't helping your situation, not even your dad is the problem. Your words are hurting your future. You need a change of mindset. It worked for me. Say positive words to yourself, sweet things in difficult situations. The more negative, the worse things will become. The family you are born has effect on you, and needs to break out from there. After real work on that, then focus on relocation. What I did was to find a small apartment outside school and plan real life with myself and God. Going back home was no option, so dad hitch is no more my concern. Lazy or not, I grind myself harder where I was. I learnt video editing, trained in Project Management Professional, got certified globally, learnt baking, coding, graphics, working on fiverr, bulk messaging, etc. Those days are never funny as I learnt the art of saving and investing. I kept my mouth shut while grinding, I've got the plan. I'm not there yet, but I can tell you poverty is out of my way, blessed with 2 babies, and can keep telling the goodness of God all round. It all started in my Part 2 days in the University. Sit down, ask yourself what skill can you learn. Shift your mindset from working to training or business. Speak positively today for a brighter future; "I am unique", "my background has no hold over me", "I am a blessing to my family", "I am great", "I move in the wisdom of the Almighty", "I pay my dues and do the needful", "Heaven favors me, men favor me",... There are free online courses you can take with google, learn, earn and repeat. Always keep learning, forever learning... Peace!!! 5 Likes |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by Voiceofthestree: 12:34pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
Omo ale jatijati your mate sold there soul to devil just to fix up there family many young guy go into yahoo yahoo to rescue their family you no get money you deh carry girl person wah no get money him prick deh stand?... yhe man does absolutely good for paying up your school fee how many father can avoid you send there children to uni this days you have a good father you self struggle hard so you can send your child to University bastard son of a bitch were 2 Likes |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by chukwuoke(m): 12:34pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
boyfwend: Bros shut up and thank God your dad could afford from primary to secondary level. Work others for yourself dummy. Imagine you came back with a girl so you went to school busy flexing your life the next stage will be so many carry overs. Well the stuff has been done just concentrate for you to be great. They are stories you will tell you offspring,if only you want to tell good stories. |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by Injustice001(m): 12:35pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
you don't have any problem since you brought woman home, your dad will be thinking you are man already so why are complaining. Take up your responsibility young man 4 Likes |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by AFONAMARO: 12:35pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
boyfwend: You said he is a lazy man? You are the biggest lazy man. He pays your fees, yet you have the guts to bring back a girl under his roof and expect him to take care of the two of you. Really? Since you are old enough to bring in a girl, you should be old enough to sort your bills. People like us did not see shishi, yet we went to school by hustling and doing some jobs. Ungrateful element! 5 Likes |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by Sukkyy2010: 12:35pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
boyfwend:I'm interested in knowing your Age before saying anything. 1 Like |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by Nobody: 12:35pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
forget about him |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by ABANGWABOI(m): 12:36pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
In as Much as I feel pity for you.. I must still say. One.. your dad is prolly an ex militant meaning he is among those good for nothing Nigerians that sucks the country dry off resources meant for every citizen.. You should be ashamed that such useless fellow is your dad.. Secondly, you have issues with many courses and no money to fix it?? Monies are now used to fix courses in tertiary institution shows how bad the system is and how a horrible graduate you would turn out to be... In a sane clime,you would only need to register for those courses and rewrite them and with hard work you will pass them but corruption is the other of the day . Finally . I have no advice to give |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by amazingspiderma: 12:36pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
I am sure you are having s*x I hope you don't become a family man as a student. 2 Likes |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by Abokilongthing: 12:36pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
Family problems nor da finish.. try and be happy you done enter enjoy the moment a time will come that you will wish to give more and there will be no one to give to.. prioritize your spending all will be well |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by chypotenti(m): 12:37pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
I wanted to comment on this but some comments above don do justice to this your predicament..... YOU NOR NEED ANY GF FOR NOW PERIOD!!!!! YOU come still nor get respect for your Papa...you carry woman dey under same roof with your Palee...nawa oooo children of nowadays.... 1 Like |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by Juicy001: 12:37pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
Learn to say No (Also applicable to both friends and family) |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by MtDave55: 12:38pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
Hmmmmmmm You're Struggling in school, to feed and meet up with other stuff. You brought a girl home. Your father (in your words who is very lazy) is threatening to withdraw his support for your education. You're are at what you do, I mean your folktale is impressive 2 Likes |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by Meteng: 12:38pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
You sef came back home with a liability, aka, girl, and you’re complaining about your father. That you came back with a girl means you’re so well to do to the extent that you’re taking care of a girl 2 Likes |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by rajiedreez: 12:41pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
Did u say u brought a girl home 1 Like |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by nedekid: 12:42pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
Samakus:Hmm, I was waiting for someone else to talk. You said it all. What about those that don't have fathers? I know a very very pretty girl that became an ophan at the age of 23 with 2 siblings to take care of here in Lagos. Rent, feeding, medical bills, school fees everything feel on her shoulders. You know what, she did not have a job when it happened. She was looking for admission and so were her siblings. |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by Jaisman26(m): 12:42pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
I cry every night, laying curses on myself and that angel that made me become a first child. My brother you never cry yet if you refused to sit up and focus well....... Let me encourage you with my own little story. I lost my father when I was in my National diploma year 2 and i tell myself that I don't have anyone else to help me except only me. I do away with girlfriends, study hard and engage in all manner of menial jobs to sustain my life in school. As at today see my achievements : ND Accountancy, BSc Accounting, MSc Business administration, MSc forensic Accounting and Auditing, just finished my Anan final exam. And i will never rest until i got my PhD. Please admit it that if your father is not good financially that doesn't mean you too can't help yourself since you are sound and in good health condition, my brother you need to hustling and forget women matter for now. Make money na women go run after you. Cheer up � you have a wonderful family and never you regret why you are in that family or why are you the first son. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by Nobody: 12:42pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
boyfwend: Amnesty.. this is what free money has caused. bro go back to school and continue your hustle. once you need him for school fees stuff, resurface again.. but mean while try to make him understand. does he drink and smoke and by the way how old is he? |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by saintruky(m): 12:43pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
Baba in all u said, u never hammered on d one u spend on d girl u brought home... U know d condition of ur house/papa, u still get mind bring girl come d house... Who takes care of her when u are away working? Ur dad? 2 Likes |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by Nobody: 12:43pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
All of ona nor well If I get papa wey lazy like this, I go happy. Do you know how painful It is to loose a father? Let my father be alive and be lazy... I will feed him till obese 1 Like |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by DATAPLUG247(m): 12:46pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
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Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by alizma: 12:46pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
boyfwend:I stopped reading when I got to the part of you bringing home a girl. Please explain that part clearly, do you mean you have built a house that you brought the girl into or you brought her into your father's house, are you married, are you gainfully employed? Kindly explain because I don't understand that part. If your answers are no to the above, and the girl in question is your girlfriend, then be careful because it seems you are actually walking the path of your dad 2 Likes |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by redcliff: 12:48pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
Emma2Seconds: omo the matter weak me. The bros no get bar but he thought the next best thing to do is to get a GF...i weak 1 Like
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Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by Henix(m): 12:51pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
Samakus: A father is allegedly lazy, while a son at 300L is already bringing a girl home. Meanwhile, the 300L son who is complaining of his father being lazy doesn't even know that some of his mates are the ones training themselves in school 3 Likes |
Re: My Father Is A Very Lazy Person by Rickmann: 12:54pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
EmiDon11: Lol |
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