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Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by Itzurboi(m): 1:38pm On Jun 27, 2022
Chiraq77:

This is the Truth
Truth can be subjective.

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Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by TheGift: 1:42pm On Jun 27, 2022
Most brides? Do you have data to back your claim that it is “most brides”?

If no! You might want to use “some brides”, instead; to avoid the fallacy of hasty generalizations or exaggeration.
Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by aujile(m): 1:46pm On Jun 27, 2022
Juliet751:
Because they still consider you a good friend and want you to be there for the most important moments in their life.
This is your peraonal view, believe me not many ladies see it this way
Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by Itzurboi(m): 1:50pm On Jun 27, 2022
Typicool8:

This comment wowed me
Ambulance is here..
Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by CSTRR: 1:53pm On Jun 27, 2022
I will not tolerate that nonsense.

Grooms that tolerate that crap are jonzing, or they probably didn't Know.
Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by EaglesEyes1(m): 1:53pm On Jun 27, 2022
franchasofficia:
Because of their stupidity.



I am sorry to say this, most young ladies act foolishly to be honest.



Why invite your useless ex to your wedding?


If your so called ex thought you are worth it, why didn't he marry you? Someone used you and dumped your ass for another lady he believed is better than you yet your foolish self can't delete him in your life? Are you ladies okay at all?



This is why I don't blame guys that insist on marrying only pure virgins honestly angry




Your ex is your vomit, don't go back to eat what you vomitted, its foolishness and very disgusting, only dogs eat their vomit!



Once he dumps you or you guys break up and you find someone else please delete him and move on. Stop giving these silly boys reasons to mock you ladies angry
This sounds like a Lady in so much pains from her ex.
Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by CSTRR: 1:55pm On Jun 27, 2022
Juliet751:
Because they still consider you a good friend and want you to be there for the most important moments in their life.
So the men can invite the ex-girlfriends to their weddings?

Ex-girlfriends that probably even Know the groom more than his current wife does.

Ex-girlfriends that can draw his manhood from memory.

Would that be okay with you?

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Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by charleoj(m): 1:58pm On Jun 27, 2022
Because they always want to do "to your face" attitude. This can make or break. Women sha. Fuuny beings
Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by Babaken(m): 2:02pm On Jun 27, 2022
The same way my Ex back then in Benin want me to attend her wedding even when I give excuse that don't I have Tfair to her village she ask her lil sis to send me transport still I didn't go.

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Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by Gentlesoul2021(m): 2:08pm On Jun 27, 2022
Babaken:
The same way my Ex back then in Benin want me to attend her wedding even when I give excuse that don't I have Tfair to her village she ask her lil sis to send me transport still I didn't go.


Lol. This one won spite u oo bro… u dodged a bullet…

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Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by Awesome01(m): 2:12pm On Jun 27, 2022
Juliet751:
Because they still consider you a good friend and want you to be there for the most important moments in their life.

This I agree with because it happened to me. I had a crush on a classmate back in school, she told me about her boyfriend who happens to be a childhood friend and her mom's friend's son. I didn't care and we had a fling .

After school, we separated and i went to Abuja for business but kept in touch. One day she called me asking for my advice. She got pregnant for that her boyfriend and the 2 mothers insisted they must marry especially since it will cement the mom's friendship, but she wanted to abort it because she love me and not him . I advised her against abortion .

I told her, I had moved on and gotten engaged to my present wife. I only liked her but she mistook it for love. Anyway, I convinced her to marry him and she did. She forced me to attend the wedding in Lagos, which I did. We remain platonic friends till date. Fortunately for her, they are now living in the US while I'm stuck in this hellhole called Naija.

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Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by chaseblack(m): 2:12pm On Jun 27, 2022
KimFab:
No, she doesn't love you.

She moved on and upgraded, and she wants to show you.
If you were richer or finer than the current man, she would not invite you.

My thoughts, anyway.

Not true, you being richer will even increase the chance of you been invited.

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Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by CCC2(m): 2:18pm On Jun 27, 2022
I really dont think so. Mine invited me too and was very angry that i didnt show up. I was married before her and doing far much better that who she got married to. Even contributed to the wedding.
KimFab:
No, she doesn't love you.

She moved on and upgraded, and she wants to show you.
If you were richer or finer than the current man, she would not invite you.

My thoughts, anyway.
Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by Yankee101: 2:21pm On Jun 27, 2022
Please why?
Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by ceejay80s(m): 2:29pm On Jun 27, 2022
Kollins11:
You should have attended her wedding, who knows whether she was ready to give you hot quickie at the reception toilet.
ode lol
Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by Sukkyy2010: 2:31pm On Jun 27, 2022
Uptheante:
Because she wanna spite u & rub it on ur face that she's gotten a new man.

U can beat her to her game bro by doing this:
1. Arrive the reception venue in a benz or any other exotic car if possible with security escorts while u are holding 2 beautifully sexy big booty babes that are far above her league.
2. Make sure she notices ur presence & see how u are enjoying ur life to the fullest with prettier babes & money & influence.
3. U & ur crew should not eat anything they offer u there.
4. Send ur babes to spray her & her husband some wads of cash.
5. Finally, fake a call & pretend u have a very important event or activity to attend, then u & ur crew should leave the venue (dont spend up to 30 mins there) with ur full dignity
Make sure she notices u doing this & make it look real.
.
I bet u, she will be dazed, jealous, shocked, wet & flabbergasted at once. She will try to call u to soonest to know how e dey be.
She will even try to seduce u to prove that she's still better than ur babes.
All these will play to ur advantage.

At times when u want to defeat a woman at her game, use another woman that is superior to her.

If, however u can't do any of these, then simply boycot the wedding.
Ur absence more dignifying in this case
Why acting all this drama, that's denote you've not get over her be that now.
Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by Falconsaint(m): 2:33pm On Jun 27, 2022
Vinnie2000:

Today in Church, I Just saw one of my Ex Babe who just got married.
She was like 'Why did you NOT show up@my Wedding? She seemed seriously angry! sad

Another of my Pretty Ex, before her Wedding Day was constantly reminding me of the D day.
Even on her Traditional marriage day, i still got a text from her 'Hope you will come Tomorrow'? shocked sad

Guys dont want their Exes to attend their weddings!
So why do Ladies want them?

*Could it be they still love the Guy?
*Or could it be they want to show off to the Guy that they have Moved to Bigger things?
*Could it be they just want his presence?

WHY WOULD A LADY INVITE HER EX TO HER WEDDING?
Mind you nah Ex boyfriend wey Sabi spend them dey call to come ooo no be Sapa ex
Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by AwesomeGod10(m): 2:34pm On Jun 27, 2022
You self too get plenty ex.

Vinnie2000:

Today in Church, I Just saw one of my Ex Babe who just got married.
She was like 'Why did you NOT show up@my Wedding? She seemed seriously angry! sad

Another of my Pretty Ex, before her Wedding Day was constantly reminding me of the D day.
Even on her Traditional marriage day, i still got a text from her 'Hope you will come Tomorrow'? shocked sad

Guys dont want their Exes to attend their weddings!
So why do Ladies want them?

*Could it be they still love the Guy?
*Or could it be they want to show off to the Guy that they have Moved to Bigger things?
*Could it be they just want his presence?

WHY WOULD A LADY INVITE HER EX TO HER WEDDING?

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Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by vickydevoka(m): 2:36pm On Jun 27, 2022
Vinnie2000:

Today in Church, I Just saw one of my Ex Babe who just got married.
She was like 'Why did you NOT show up@my Wedding? She seemed seriously angry! sad

Another of my Pretty Ex, before her Wedding Day was constantly reminding me of the D day.
Even on her Traditional marriage day, i still got a text from her 'Hope you will come Tomorrow'? shocked sad

Guys dont want their Exes to attend their weddings!
So why do Ladies want them?

*Could it be they still love the Guy?
*Or could it be they want to show off to the Guy that they have Moved to Bigger things?
*Could it be they just want his presence?

WHY WOULD A LADY INVITE HER EX TO HER WEDDING?
Ladies suffer from okafors law. I pity them mostly on this. Believe u in me most ladies don't marry who de love buh who is ready. When a lady breaks up with you, she expects you to understand buh when you break up with her, she doesn't want to understand infact she will swear for u. Very narcissistic people

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Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by fmonigent(m): 2:44pm On Jun 27, 2022
Deborah98:
I have a family friend who once told me he sleeps with all his exes on the eve of their wedding. Like the girls will shamelessly ask him to come over in a private place and that's it. I was really angry and disturbed as well. I asked him why he doesn't turn down those offers,he said even if he does, they'll come to look for him themselves inukwa. Na so dey thing sweet reach. Some girls if not useless are senseless and shameless. Guys be careful of "what" you marry not even who.

Good advice, but that includes you too, cos na your gender bi dat
Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by Uptheante(m): 2:46pm On Jun 27, 2022
Dksmile:


With all this actoins who is now deceiving him self you or your ex ,pls I need answer Oga nollywood director . grin grin
That is why I said if u dont have the courage to do this, simply boycot the wedding.
Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by Tonnyray: 2:48pm On Jun 27, 2022
Uptheante:
Because she wanna spite u & rub it on ur face that she's gotten a new man.

U can beat her to her game bro by doing this:
1. Arrive the reception venue in a benz or any other exotic car if possible with security escorts while u are holding 2 beautifully sexy big booty babes that are far above her league.
2. Make sure she notices ur presence & see how u are enjoying ur life to the fullest with prettier babes & money & influence.
3. U & ur crew should not eat anything they offer u there.
4. Send ur babes to spray her & her husband some wads of cash.
5. Finally, fake a call & pretend u have a very important event or activity to attend, then u & ur crew should leave the venue (dont spend up to 30 mins there) with ur full dignity
Make sure she notices u doing this & make it look real.
.
I bet u, she will be dazed, jealous, shocked, wet & flabbergasted at once. She will try to call u to soonest to know how e dey be.
She will even try to seduce u to prove that she's still better than ur babes.
All these will play to ur advantage.

At times when u want to defeat a woman at her game, use another woman that is superior to her.
Wrong move.
Never form what you are not to impress a female.
1. No woman is worth it and the worthy ones you never have to fake it to impress.
2. More importantly it's a gross disservice to your person.

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Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by luizpippo(m): 2:53pm On Jun 27, 2022
Hassanmaye:

Oh my God did you keep her?



I don't understand what you meant by keep?
Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by bibianna(f): 3:02pm On Jun 27, 2022
wonderr:
but that doesn't mean she won't give quickie if needed

Well I don't know about that!
Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by Eagba(m): 3:03pm On Jun 27, 2022
Awesome01:


This I agree with because it happened to me. I had a crush on a classmate back in school, she told me about her boyfriend who happens to be a childhood friend and her mom's friend's son. I didn't care and we had a fling .

After school, we separated and i went to Abuja for business but kept in touch. One day she called me asking for my advice. She got pregnant for that her boyfriend and the 2 mothers insisted they must marry especially since it will cement the mom's friendship, but she wanted to abort it because she love me and not him . I advised her against abortion .

I told her, I had moved on and gotten engaged to my present wife. I only liked her but she mistook it for love. Anyway, I convinced her to marry him and she did. She forced me to attend the wedding in Lagos, which I did. We remain platonic friends till date. Fortunately for her, they are now living in the US while I'm stuck in this hellhole called Naija.
bro I like your honesty. people like me have got things easy, cos I'm introvert and I hardly attend such. it's settled.
Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by bibianna(f): 3:06pm On Jun 27, 2022
SmartyPants:


Only a person who is desperately into you needs to show you that they are over you.

Sorry, I disagree!
Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by Samiking(m): 3:07pm On Jun 27, 2022
[color=#770077][/color] I attended two of my exs wedding &I have not seen anything wrong with it
Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by Justiceleague1: 3:07pm On Jun 27, 2022
Kollins11:
You should have attended her wedding, who knows whether she was ready to give you hot quickie at the reception toilet.

Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by Kdon2: 3:08pm On Jun 27, 2022
Vinnie2000:

Today in Church, I Just saw one of my Ex Babe who just got married.
She was like 'Why did you NOT show up@my Wedding? She seemed seriously angry! sad

Another of my Pretty Ex, before her Wedding Day was constantly reminding me of the D day.
Even on her Traditional marriage day, i still got a text from her 'Hope you will come Tomorrow'? shocked sad

Guys dont want their Exes to attend their weddings!
So why do Ladies want them?

*Could it be they still love the Guy?
*Or could it be they want to show off to the Guy that they have Moved to Bigger things?
*Could it be they just want his presence?

WHY WOULD A LADY INVITE HER EX TO HER WEDDING?

It gives them validity. Pure and simple
Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by OutOnBail(m): 3:15pm On Jun 27, 2022
LMAO, Nollywood don mess you up cheesy

Uptheante:
Because she wanna spite u & rub it on ur face that she's gotten a new man.

U can beat her to her game bro by doing this:
1. Arrive the reception venue in a benz or any other exotic car if possible with security escorts while u are holding 2 beautifully sexy big booty babes that are far above her league.
2. Make sure she notices ur presence & see how u are enjoying ur life to the fullest with prettier babes & money & influence.
3. U & ur crew should not eat anything they offer u there.
4. Send ur babes to spray her & her husband some wads of cash.
5. Finally, fake a call & pretend u have a very important event or activity to attend, then u & ur crew should leave the venue (dont spend up to 30 mins there) with ur full dignity
Make sure she notices u doing this & make it look real.
.
I bet u, she will be dazed, jealous, shocked, wet & flabbergasted at once. She will try to call u to soonest to know how e dey be.
She will even try to seduce u to prove that she's still better than ur babes.
All these will play to ur advantage.

At times when u want to defeat a woman at her game, use another woman that is superior to her.

If, however u can't do any of these, then simply boycot the wedding.
Ur absence more dignifying in this case
Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by Blaqputin(m): 3:16pm On Jun 27, 2022
Juliet751:
Because they still consider you a good friend and want you to be there for the most important moments in their life.
grin grin grin
Funny and kind of foolish to say the least....

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