Juliet751:
Because they still consider you a good friend and want you to be there for the most important moments in their life.

That's correct

luizpippo:




I don't understand what you meant by keep?

Lol I was asking you about your ex. My ex did the same to me, she came back to me after they have a kid with her husband, unfortunately I sent her away.

OutOnBail:
LMAO, Nollywood don mess you up

No be nollywood matter bros.
This is u trying to show her who's the boss in a game she's trying to play on u.
She invited u to come watch how a man she thinks is better than u, is going to make her his own.
Hence, u have to be ruthless in ur response.

Like I said finally, if u lack the courage to that act like this, simply boycot the wedding instead of coming there to disgrace ur entire lineage by cheering her on to another man & sitting there shamelessly eating food & licking plate.
I swear, she fit even get mind mock u (sooner or later) either overtly or covertly since u have agreed to lower urself under the guise of trying to act so nice & gentlemanly.
She would even remind u of the reason why she chose her husband over u & torture u emotionally.

If u can't be ruthless in situations like this, then do not even play the game

Tonnyray:
Wrong move.
Never form what you are not to impress a female.
1. No woman is worth it and the worthy ones you never have to fake it to impress.
2. More importantly it's a gross disservice to your person.

U are not trying to impress her bro.
She started a game to torture u emotionally, u have to be ruthless

Sukkyy2010:

Why acting all this drama, that's denote you've not get over her be that now.

She wanted to see u jealous (if she is the one who dumped u) & maybe full of regret (if u are the one who dumped u).
U either play the game to win or u simply boycot it.

BlueAir:
This can only work for hungry women without class and moral training. I know some women I can bet my scrotum,if u try this for their wedding, e go come be like say u make mistake come

U seem to overrate these women.
See, no matter her class & moral training, this will get to her even if she pretends at the moment.

If she wan start violence, na her wedding she go spoil, u have security escorts for protection & na she even invite u come her wedding. No be u invite urself.
In this kind of situation, ruthlessness is key

She wan take you shine.



I won't invite any of my ex girlfriends to my marriage ceremony. If I see any of them there I might even throw them out, they became an ex for a reason.

Itzurboi:
Ambulance is here..

Hmmm u wan collect abi

it cool sha buh sounds some ow sha

bibianna:
To show you they have totally gotten over you!

Nope. They are doing it to show off.

bibianna:
To show you they have totally gotten over you!

Gotten over who, like say the guy no get another girl that is way beautiful and intelligent. I will even attend with my new hot babe so she will know that she's nothing. I only honor her invitation.

franchasofficia:
Because of their stupidity.



I am sorry to say this, most young ladies act foolishly to be honest.



Why invite your useless ex to your wedding?


If your so called ex thought you are worth it, why didn't he marry you? Someone used you and dumped your ass for another lady he believed is better than you yet your foolish self can't delete him in your life? Are you ladies okay at all?



This is why I don't blame guys that insist on marrying only pure virgins honestly




Your ex is your vomit, don't go back to eat what you vomitted, its foolishness and very disgusting, only dogs eat their vomit!



Once he dumps you or you guys break up and you find someone else please delete him and move on. Stop giving these silly boys reasons to mock you ladies

You delete him, you no delete him, no one give a Bleep.

Change ur circle bruh. Forget,I know women u can't buy with money anyhow.

Uptheante:

U seem to overrate these women.
See, no matter her class & moral training, this will get to her even if she pretends at the moment.

[/b]If she wan start violence, na her wedding she go spoil, u have security escorts for protection & na she even invite u come her wedding. No be u invite urself.
In this kind of situation, ruthlessness is key[b]

Uptheante:
U are not trying to impress her bro.
She started a game to torture u emotionally, u have to be ruthless

Never go out of your way to prove anything to a female. It reeks of innate insecurity.

KimFab:
No, she doesn't love you.

She moved on and upgraded, and she wants to show you.
If you were richer or finer than the current man, she would not invite you.

My thoughts, anyway.

You just said the obvious truth

Only a simp will take an ex serious

Not all relationships have their foundations laid in sex . Some are genuine friendships that broke up because of circumstances beyond the control of the partners . In such cases , friendship continues afterwards so it is not unusual that the ex gets invited to the wedding. However if Una breakup on some serious wahala like cheating , violence , bad manners etc why would you honour such invitation ?

Deborah98:
I have a family friend who once told me he sleeps with all his exes on the eve of their wedding. Like the girls will shamelessly ask him to come over in a private place and that's it. I was really angry and disturbed as well. I asked him why he doesn't turn down those offers,he said even if he does, they'll come to look for him themselves inukwa. Na so dey thing sweet reach. Some girls if not useless are senseless and shameless. Guys be careful of "what" you marry not even who.

To be very honest, na only very few of your gender get sense

Kollins11:
You should have attended her wedding, who knows whether she was ready to give you hot quickie at the reception toilet.

how do you ppl feel after lashing another man's wife?? do you feel any remorse??

It's their one last way of making you regret your decision to break off the relationship.
And making you do all you can to win them back.
I know no lady who invites someone whom they don't love or poor to their wedding.
It's a final plea for you to win them over and if not- as ta la vista babe.

She wan pepper you.

Vinnie2000:

Today in Church, I Just saw one of my Ex Babe who just got married.
She was like 'Why did you NOT show up@my Wedding? She seemed seriously angry!

Another of my Pretty Ex, before her Wedding Day was constantly reminding me of the D day.
Even on her Traditional marriage day, i still got a text from her 'Hope you will come Tomorrow'?

Guys dont want their Exes to attend their weddings!
So why do Ladies want them?

*Could it be they still love the Guy?
*Or could it be they want to show off to the Guy that they have Moved to Bigger things?
*Could it be they just want his presence?

WHY WOULD A LADY INVITE HER EX TO HER WEDDING?

Hope you’re married? If not, why is it that all your exes are getting married and inviting you? I think you should ask yourself that question. Maybe they see you as “unserious”. Just saying though

wethebest:


False. Two of my ex have invited me to their wedding despite they knw that i am married . I have only attended one and during dat wedding week, i still nack d babe. The guy no fine reach me or even get half of my assets. Babe jst wanna settle down cox age no dey her side again. I went with my goons nd blv me, we sprayed her nothing less than 200k. I guess that ws why she needed me at the party.

The same scenario might have played out against you too. Your wife probably invited her ex during your wedding and she got a quickie at the toilet or somewhere conducive. Just thinking out loud..no offense

Vinnie2000:

Today in Church, I Just saw one of my Ex Babe who just got married.
She was like 'Why did you NOT show up@my Wedding? She seemed seriously angry!

Another of my Pretty Ex, before her Wedding Day was constantly reminding me of the D day.
Even on her Traditional marriage day, i still got a text from her 'Hope you will come Tomorrow'?

Guys dont want their Exes to attend their weddings!
So why do Ladies want them?

*Could it be they still love the Guy?
*Or could it be they want to show off to the Guy that they have Moved to Bigger things?
*Could it be they just want his presence?

WHY WOULD A LADY INVITE HER EX TO HER WEDDING?

Only hoes do this

Juliet751:
Because they still consider you a good friend and want you to be there for the most important moments in their life.

Only hoes do this.
The hypocrisy here is that, you wouldn't like your husband to be to invite his ex to your wedding.

It will never be well with all these hoes.
May they not all enjoy their marriage by the grace of God.

You're OBIdient

KimFab:
No, she doesn't love you.

She moved on and upgraded, and she wants to show you.
If you were richer or finer than the current man, she would not invite you.

My thoughts, anyway.

That affection can never leave

Zelenskyy:
Because she is still under the Influence of Okafor's Law of KPEKUS Dynamics..

The Groom should get ready to father the child of the Real Husband. ..... (The Ex)

Lol so true ��

Tonnyray:
Wrong move.
Never form what you are not to impress a female.
1. No woman is worth it and the worthy ones you never have to fake it to impress.
2. More importantly it's a gross disservice to your person.

Leave those kids to their imagination .All that negative energy just to prove a pointless point for an ex.Both of you parted amicably and she wanted her ex to be part of her Joy because you were once her joy.

Cc:Uptheante

sweetman2022:

The same scenario might have played out against you too. Your wife probably invited her ex during your wedding and she got a quickie at the toilet or somewhere conducive. Just thinking out loud..no offense

Lol. Nothing of such cox she jst came bk frm UK nd she won’t even let me hv a breathing space, even bridal shower nd bachelor eve ws done in same hotel. She doesn’t even knw anybody in my state aside my siblings. No offense taken. Cheers

Deborah98:
I have a family friend who once told me he sleeps with all his exes on the eve of their wedding. Like the girls will shamelessly ask him to come over in a private place and that's it. I was really angry and disturbed as well. I asked him why he doesn't turn down those offers,he said even if he does, they'll come to look for him themselves inukwa. Na so dey thing sweet reach. Some girls if not useless are senseless and shameless. Guys be careful of "what" you marry not even who.

That's the impression he wants you to get of him; the bad boy. He would'nt tell you how many of them spat in his face for being a "reasonable" gentleman, who shows off an awesome ambition of taking down women's undies on their Wedding eve.
Your comments already sold off his exes probably as women of low virtue. Truth is they likely appreciate his bedmatics ability, not his overall image and capacity as a potential husband. If a lady sees you as the ideal man she couldn't get, especially if the relationship ended on your terms, her sight of you at her wedding will stir up pains. She most likely wouldn't notify or invite you.

Uptheante:
Because she wanna spite u & rub it on ur face that she's gotten a new man.

U can beat her to her game bro by doing this:
1. Arrive the reception venue in a benz or any other exotic car if possible with security escorts while u are holding 2 beautifully sexy big booty babes that are far above her league.
2. Make sure she notices ur presence & see how u are enjoying ur life to the fullest with prettier babes & money & influence.
3. U & ur crew should not eat anything they offer u there.
4. Send ur babes to spray her & her husband some wads of cash.
5. Finally, fake a call & pretend u have a very important event or activity to attend, then u & ur crew should leave the venue (dont spend up to 30 mins there) with ur full dignity
Make sure she notices u doing this & make it look real.
.
I bet u, she will be dazed, jealous, shocked, wet & flabbergasted at once. She will try to call u to soonest to know how e dey be.
She will even try to seduce u to prove that she's still better than ur babes.
All these will play to ur advantage.

At times when u want to defeat a woman at her game, use another woman that is superior to her.

If, however u can't do any of these, then simply boycot the wedding.
Ur absence more dignifying in this case

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