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Redpillers Is This True. by Itohanmiwa: 10:51am On Jul 06, 2022
Your ex thinks of you. All exs think of exs. I love this question because it opens up something people rarely talk about. Perhaps it is the darkest side of all this hooking up and breaking up. This darkness has to do with the process of moving on after it is over with someone.

Maybe this is me being too much of a poet, but there was love (maybe just on one side) and now there is a pretend game. We pretend that the love was not important; now that the relationship is over, we pretend that the love is not still alive in every cell of our bodies; we pretend we are machines that can program out something that once made us feel loved comforted, and full of peace. The most cruel thing we do to our exs is pretend that they never mattered.

You, and all your exs, can find someone else, but you can never find what you had. It could only exist with the two of you. Go ahead and try, you'll have someone else, and it may be great or even better. But in your unguarded moments you will still remember something beautiful that you'll never have again.

I think we believe that it is better to remain silent about our past relationships. Maybe it is polite, and maybe it helps us “move on.” I have never objected if a girlfriend of mine wanted, or needed to speak to their ex. I know the pain of love lost and I'd prefer her honesty over her being polite to me. If she was the one who broke it off with him, I’d prefer she not treat him like he never mattered.

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Re: Redpillers Is This True. by Djsasa: 10:53am On Jul 06, 2022
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Re: Redpillers Is This True. by Drillminded: 11:03am On Jul 06, 2022
Love is self deciet. If you every fall out of love then you never fell in to start with.
Love has no comma or full stop.

Agape love is freedom


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