1. Be Direct: People love boldness. You will be respected when you become a straight talker. Example: If you can’t provide a favor, say no instead of trying to please them.

2. Love yourself: If you don’t like yourself, no one else will. You must change what you don’t like about yourself and accept what you can’t change. Example: You can change your weight but you can only accept your background.

3. Enjoy yourself: You don’t always need to be around people. People will want to be with you when you are happy by yourself.

4. Admit your mistakes: Swallow your pride and always accept your mistake. Deflecting blame is always seen as a weakness.

5. Listen more: When you listen more instead of talking people feel special. In return, they will make you feel special. Example: If let someone vent by being a good listener, they will return the favor.

6. Reveal some insecurities: When you share a few uncomfortable truths about yourself, people will feel comfortable and reciprocate. Example: When talking to someone new, share the truth about your nervousness.

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That number one is largely slept on but then there's a middle ground where compromise is needed, no matter how blunt you can't be with words there are occasion where you'd learn to say less than necessary.

It's a tough one but I'm learning to choose my words carefully.

NamelessOGBENI:
That number one is largely slept on but then there's a middle ground where compromise is needed, no matter how blunt you can't be with words there are occasion where you'd learn to say less than necessary.

It's a tough one but I'm learning to choose my words carefully.

You are absolutely correct. Diplomacy needs be applied in some instances. I find it to be a tough one too and i clearly understand your perspective. Being blunt really be a tight corner in some situations, especially in the world we live in now.

NUMBER.1 IS NOT APPLICABLE to the poor, USE ya HEAD!