gassbee:
hope u were not attacked by those she called on you

Some cult guys came intimidated me to go and apologize to her and reconcile with her, but the police arrested me in behest of her father, so when I was released school security had my time, those days spent in guardroom kept the bad boys away from me.

Dizzyyish:

Did she get tired and give up? Because these individuals would much rather lay in wait than give up.

She wasn't tired, I went through hell in her hands, thank God it was my last semester so when I graduated, I didn't even spend extra day in school. Since I left school, she made efforts to chat me up on Facebook or Whatsapp, I will block her and she will still buy another sim, but somehow everything gradually fades away, it's been years though.

Take this advice seriously.
It is obvious you both have sex: this is the basis of her mistrust,
It is not her fault she must have been with a cheating boyfriend.
You stop having sex with her and make your relationship clean, she would see you as a trust worthy man.
Sex before marriage destroys relationship and breeds heavy mistrust either on one or both parties,
So if you want to end it good luck but pls stop sex and make her understand you want to wait till marriage I bet trust would return else it would continue even after marriage it won't stop.

Brightw278:
Who else is having issues with a clingy girl. I have been in a relationship with my girl for sometime, everything has been going on fine a good girl and all you can desire in a lady.

The issue here is she is so clingy, I mean it’s good to be clingy but I think this one is extreme. The nature of my job make me leave house very early and come back late at night. Before I wake up she is calling me, at work she is calling, when I’m back she would have given me 10 missed calls.

We talk everyday, but sometimes a man just want sometime to himself, and if I miss just a call I will have to Dey/dx the reason for missing that call, not to talk of the explanations. Every missed calls is always a potential cheating scenario to her. She monitors my movement as Bleep, I have to tell her where I’m going, when I’m coming, even if I’m going to the rest room and I did not tell her she flare up.

I don’t think of settling with anybody else as this is only her flaw but how do I reduce this, it’s affecting me a lot, if I’m out with freinds she wants to know them, can’t even speak to femal colleagues at work anymore. How do I go about this m, she is a sweet person.

For the records I have never cheated on her before, she checks my phone from time to time too any chat with a female colleague and she is already suspecting me not until I open up the chats for her to read the contents and see we have nothing together. How do you all handle clingy girls it should not look like I’m overreacting

This is d Real Prison of Love...Enjoy ur Fancy. Give her Needed Confidence and Trust...both of U will Rest.

See u, see grave

Slynation:
Interesting...!! You have a lot of work to do, leaving such a relationship ain't gonna be an easy task I must tell you, I remembered vividly a friend of mine had a chronic clingy GF like this and she's the type that always threatened to injure/kill herself whenever anything wants to go south, it was so bad to the extent my guy became weak and depressed...

He has stylishly introduced the girl to different guys to date but she only wants him, he purposely cheated on her just to end the ship, but babe forgived him without him begging he just had to leave the state entirely for her, but she followed him oO after managing to get his new address from his sister Baba ran back to Kaduna and without telling anybody, not even me his tight man, he left Nigeria for Ghana...He only dropped a message that he's fine, nobody should look for him and that was how the girl managed to move on after her tears must have filled a Geepee tank for months...

To be very honest, I felt for her because her only crime was madly obsessed with my niggi...but there was absolutely no breathing space for my guy and Baba just had to do the needful

Wow, what a story! Very comprehensible. But dat your guy see o. To the extent of leaving Naija. I thought these kind of things usually happen in movies. It reminds me of, Swim fan, a Hollywood movie.

Talk sense into her on how she is chocking you with constant monitoring. Tell her strictly if you are busy you won't pick call but as soon as you see it you will get back. She calling 10 times twenty times is shocking.

Let her get angry if she feels

After telling her what you want act on it.

Tell her call once or twice that's all. She should stop the monitoring.

Then if she continues ignore gradually she will start to adjust.

Remind her you love her but she if continues this way she won't like your reaction .
Simple

You are the woman in this relationship o, na she dey control you. A word is enough for the wise

She not get job?

She will CERTAINLY burn you like a sacrificial lamb someday, then she will drink poison & die!
Case close, next simp!

EmzyT:



Good advice my G

Why are you trolling him though? Did he troll you?

@Brightw278 Grow a set and strengthen your backbone and tell this girl to chill and not call you so much. If she can't handle that then dump her and find one with a calm peaceful spirit.
Also, she may be cheating herself, that's dem MO when they try to keep close tabs on a guy.

Hey bro, u better control it now...if not if u get married ur marriage won't last! I pick when I Wana pick,I tell her when I Wana talk...I am the Man! don't be a vegetable in your own house fa!..

RedChiefPriest:
Awww you've gotten yourself an obsessive Ogbanje,so romantic .
Brother flee from people that are too obsessive or jealous, they are ticking bomb waiting to go off any minute.
People like that reeks of low self esteem,insecurity and trust issue.
Flee like that dude that slapped our igwe while he was sleeping inside the Palace, run as far as your legs can carry you.
But you can also try and talk to her also maybe she will listen,
Na your choice.

Dj! 2 kegs of palmwine with peak milk for me
Barman! Play me "na so e dey start" by Kelvin Hart and Pasuma.

doggedfighter:
Isn't she busy?


Is she jobless?





Why so much time on her hands?

Exactly what i thought!

Slynation:
Interesting...!! You have a lot of work to do, leaving such a relationship ain't gonna be an easy task I must tell you, I remembered vividly a friend of mine had a chronic clingy GF like this and she's the type that always threatened to injure/kill herself whenever anything wants to go south, it was so bad to the extent my guy became weak and depressed...

He has stylishly introduced the girl to different guys to date but she only wants him, he purposely cheated on her just to end the ship, but babe forgived him without him begging he just had to leave the state entirely for her, but she followed him oO after managing to get his new address from his sister Baba ran back to Kaduna and without telling anybody, not even me his tight man, he left Nigeria for Ghana...He only dropped a message that he's fine, nobody should look for him and that was how the girl managed to move on after her tears must have filled a Geepee tank for months...

To be very honest, I felt for her because her only crime was madly obsessed with my niggi...but there was absolutely no breathing space for my guy and Baba just had to do the needful

Papichulostunne:
End it while you still have your sanity is a good way of permanently reducing it without you looking like you are overreacting.

While you may love her, she isnt inlove with you. The word is "OBSESSED".

Obsession seem sweet when it starts and as a man your head will swell that the girl love you die. Before you know one day she go bath you acid cause of false suspicions.
Or threaten to kill herself that is when you will know you're in a ronaldo "DELIMA".. GET IT.. DELIMA - RONALDO .

DELIMA-Ronaldo chai!
Nairalanders, where Una Dey always carry punchline?
I salute you, chair chair.

Harrykn:

DELIMA-Ronaldo chai!
Nairalanders, where Una Dey always carry punchline?
I salute you, chair chair.

Greetings to a Double chief...!!!

Divay22:
I'm i missing something here

This is what you wrote " I am I missing something here"
Next time write " Am I missing something here".
I have made same mistake severally too. Now I know better. One love

Was she up to 25?

Op i forbid arsonist for you.


Yes she is

as I dey here so na clingy babe i dey find so.. una get am come dey cry for here...

Ppp1p:
You mean a real man still have time for girlfriend in this economy

na only jew men no get time for their woman

Girls who behave this way are almost always the ones doing the cheating.
Her constant checking on you is just a smokescreen to cover her own tracks.

My ex was the same way and she was always talking some bullshit about me and her being together forever
Most times they're the ones who can go the extra extra mile to get at you when things go wrong.
Run oooo

Scary memory...very scary....


I had to quit it...good I did it early. Would have been disastrous... It already was affecting my reasoning process.

Freedom gives you sanity, relationships without freedom is an emotional and a mental prison.

She is crazy, toxic and obsessed!

Not healthy man. I can't stand that.

Had this experience once and it was not funny.
He also sent messages to my family members that he would kill me and himself as the love is forever. Omo, i nearly went crazy and was scared. I had to move out of the area and blocked him as it was becoming a threat to my life. Do or die

It's almost 10years and he still calls every single day, but the good thing is that I block every single number he calls with. Psycho!

It is a bad experience and you don't wanna know.

If she's cute nice and shes working i dont mind