I have been thinking and asking of late, Is it ever possible to meet a woman as a virgin before the oath of the alter? Our society is degenerating fast, the rate at which lustful desire has weaken the credibility of what most people call marriages is so alarming.
Growing up, some of the stories that caught my interest were one told of a woman who married as a Virgin, I was so fascinated that I admired the woman and her decision to remain chaste before her wedding. Such women are treated with so much respect by the husband that eventually married her.
She can raise her head and even boast before her husband and tell younger people to follow her footsteps, only a foolish man dares to disrespect such women; that for me is the greatest honor a woman can have in marriage apart from knowing also how to take charge of her marriage and make it work with wisdom.

For a woman to be married as a virgin is better than buying a new car, never driven, with any faults.
Those days, men seat with friends to discuss their wives and their chastity and boast of seeing the first blood of the marriage, I even heard that there is cultures in the (then) Nigeria where the families of the woman will spread a white clothe to confirm their daughter’s virginity and wait with trepidation to hear good news from the man after the first sex.

Unfortunately those are over, Let me blame (us) the men first for our uncontrollable lust, foolishness has become so rampant in our society, some of us cannot take away our eyes from the backside of a woman where they discharge number two, we look at the breast, we look at the hips and sometimes driving we forget that the traffic light has turned green and we keep looking. There are even men who though married will still hunt for young girls who are young enough to be their daughters and will go into unprintable foolishness because the control of such men is in their zip and not on their brains.
There are fathers who would kill a young man for visiting his daughter, yet he will go to places where his kids will not see him to mess up with ladies as young as his own daughter.

I have been too worried for ladies who after messing up their youthful age will become desperate to marry at 30 and also, concerned for innocent men who end up in the hands of professional prostitutes who just changed their address, so many have damaged their wombs with several abortions, some have lived so carelessly in the Universities or even out there and they are now willing to settle in the arms of a ready to marry careless man.

This is however, not to say that some ladies are not married (Not Because) they messed up but because they are not at the right Location to meet their spouse, I imagine a woman who is supposed to be in Nigeria to met her husband, sitting in UK or the one who is meant to be in Asaba, to meet the right man and she is in Abuja waiting to hook up a senator until her time is past marriage.

Now for women, ahhh! how cheap they have suddenly become that you can have two girls for five naira. (two for five naira) imagine the drive in women these days is no longer about reputation, it is Food, Money and Sex, I have never found a woman who is discipline with food, they eat like chickens and are ready for any other thing you throw at them after the food.

The Mr. Biggs of this world, the Tantalizers of these worlds, the Chicken republic of this world and all such names are business set as answer to tickle a woman into immoral “yesmanship” the moment you satisfy her by flaunting some vanities, she is willing to go all the way. They are easily lured with all these even if you rented a car for this exercise,
When a woman ask what do you do for a living, she is only trying to find out psychologically if she will be secured, and that is after you have flaunted the pomp and pageantry of papal Rome in the name of avarice, she does not care what happens after the marriage, she is too eager to get in for the excitement of temporal gain. That is why so many are in deep shit after wedding

So we have “Meat Pie girls, Suya girls, Chicken and Chips girls name it, they fall for anything in the name of temporal comfort,

A friend once told me that this fear of getting a wrong girl made him to pretend to be poor although he worked as a boss in a Telecoms company and is comfortable, he rented an apartment in a project and search for a wife until he luckily met a True Christian, he did not take her to be one, so they continued for years in the project, my friend had completed his house and finished it but he kept that away from the woman, after the marriage, the lady hoping to go to his house in the project, they just drove straight in a ready car, thought to be borrowed into his new apartment, the Lady was shocked that she wept like a baby on discovering the wealth kept away from her. That is a classic example but it does not happen anymore.

Women have made themselves so cheap that you can see it in what they wear; they thought unclothedness is impressive, only foolish men will admire your breast in public, I am not against being Trendy and modern but this modern nudity that expose the Breast of a woman and her pants from the backside is disgusting, the annoying thing is the fact that this desperation is a foolish way of catching a man

Truth is only foolish men are caught by your nudity; Ladies do not know that, they cannot marry a real man by flaunting their nude parts to impress him.
Sometimes, I ask if ladies who visit club houses and red light districts wants to marry too. It is a great wickedness to mess up oneself with men who are not willing to marry you and afterwards deceiving a man who do not know you wired lifestyle.
Some barrenness are caused by this wickedness’


It is so shocking that even Married women expose their unclothedness, some wear skirts that is afraid of touching their knees, they pass it on to their children and now the generation of children has learned it the wrong way and they have gone the extra mile, You cannot walk freely on Yaba or Oshodi or Ojota and not see disgusting pictures of nudity. Some these ladies have been dis-flowered many times that you do not need to worry about seeing any blood when you marry them, some will even lie, that they lost their virginity when they played football with some guys, they say things like “I just saw that I was dripping blood and I had to leave the playing ground”



Today, it was funny when I heard how ladies can pretend to be tight by using “alum” solution to clean their private body to deceive undiscerning men
I pity the men who never met their wives as a virgin, The thing she did before you met her, she can do it again, and for men who are beating their chest that they met their wives as virgin, your case is worse if you do not satisfy her sexually, she will seek solution outside your home.
Have you heard of sex in the office?
Have you heard of sex before job?
You must have heard of several infidelity, the news are many, how do you feel if you marry a woman who was promiscuous before you met her, and after marriage her rudeness is suggestive of her insatiable appetite

What about the woman who has learned to be nude, showing all part of her private bodies and yet she is not married? How do you expect to tame her when you eventually marry her?
Please tell me, if the guys who dis-flowered your wife were present on the day of your marriage and they are laughing you to scorn for not knowing how bad your wife has lived?
How will you feel, if she still keeps contacts with them? Don’t forget, you did not meet her a Virgin.
Does it concern a woman that she married after she has been dis-flowered by another man, I am not talking about a rape case that one is an exception, because it was a force by a fool
I hear some ladies say, , “ I am a Virgin” Let me tell you who is not a virgin ,If a man has fumbled with your breast at any time, you are not a virgin, If a man has caressed you to the point of discharge (you know what I meant) it is even better if you go all the way, the far you have gone has dis-virgin you, and let me say that is my own definition,
Some ladies say I don’t want to lose my virginity; I did not go all the way, the Far you went, has turned you into a sex cannibal,

Are there virgin who are still proud about their virginity?
Are there decent ladies who are not given to the foolish trend of nudity?
Are there men who still desire to meet a descent girl who is not greedy, avaricious and vain as we see all around?
Just before you go, don’t be offended at ever thing I said, I am just expressing the Lamentation of some men who are unwilling to marry because of the cheap worth of women these days, their greed, the promiscuity, their plastic lifestyle, their insatiable appetite, the unreal lifestyle, the nudity called fashion, the pretense and all that you know.
Don’t think I am better to say some of these things, I wish I were not messed up in my own way too, sometime, it is best to say we are in it together.

What is your take?


Please your opinion, Ladies. Feel free to “Yab” the poster. I have develop a deep skin.

Can someone please read this dissertation and do me a 4 line abstract, cheerz.

claremont:

Can someone please read this dissertation and do me a 4 line abstract, cheerz.

Something about how women these days are cheap and are sending real men away from marriage 



Jettage! Dude! A virgin doesn't always bleed! That's probably why after some extensive biological research we don't use that anymore to judge the girls.

I think you seem to be very stuck in a past way of thinking.

Chill out a bit and try to see people for more than just their sexual past. The world has many idiots but I believe there are more 'good' people than 'bad'

Smile!! You look better when you smile 

^^^^
Oh, so it's just another "virginity is moral" thread, I have had my fill of these sanctimonious threads!

Poster. . . . . . enough of your blah blah blah blah . . . . . quit yappin bout women dis women dat, jeeez you're doin ma ears in with your whinin!! Kini big deal. . . . . . yes really! Before you point your finger make sure your hands are clean!! *Yawn* Ok you are forgiven, I've just been told you're from the Victorian era . . . . *Yawn*. . . .again!

sexkillz:

Just Managed to read thru this Article! . . . . . . I commend you for the time and effort you took to write this! But this is actually a TRUCKLOAD of BULLS.H.I.T! I'm ALLERGIC to THIS CRAP! You directed all your energy in BASHING the FEMALE GENDER, and that's a NO NO for me! LEARN HOW TO QUIT GENERALIZING!!! This is an INSULT to WOMEN in GENERAL and an ASSAULT to MY SENSES! There are better ways to pass a message than resorting to outright RIDICULE!!!. . . . TRY AGAIN!

lol!! Nicely said Mr.Sexkillz 

sexkillz:

Just Managed to read thru this Article! . . . . . . I commend you for the time and effort you took to write this! But this is actually a TRUCKLOAD of BULLS.H.I.T! I'm ALLERGIC to THIS CRAP! You directed all your energy in BASHING the FEMALE GENDER, and that's a NO NO for me! LEARN HOW TO QUIT GENERALIZING!!! This is an INSULT to WOMEN in GENERAL and an ASSAULT to MY SENSES! There are better ways to pass a message than resorting to outright RIDICULE!!!. . . . TRY AGAIN!

100% of your replies are always I'm allergic to crap/bulls[i]h[/i]it etc

seems its a new found word on your vocabulary

^^ maybe you should develop the same allergy ^^

^haha
stopped reading when i smelt double standard,
cant believe someone is still holding such views in this century, 

Jettage:

Those days, men seat with friends to discuss their wives and their chastity and boast of seeing the first blood of the marriage

for some reasons, this statement kinda creeped me out!! cant even imagine my husband selling me out like dat. 

Jettage
You got some points there though some lol.

Why are you carrying the world! Smbody did that already . You will collapse.
did you read that that thread titled 'virginity is not the thing'?
The dude that married a virgin becz of this same mentality you are harbouring.
Now hes contemplating divorce cz the wife is too hot to handle.
Well you will definately find a virgin but that precious jewel called wife?

Come out of that cocoon of fear and live your life.
stop allowing life's issues/peoples failures to determine your destiny.
learn to set yourself apart from filth and make your life and marriage one to behold afterall everything in life has consequences  and we reap what we sow so dont fret cz theres always a remnant.

Its only Gomorrha that was 'entirely' filthy not nigeria am sure.
I sure hate some things but I dont let them interfere with my life or way of thinking at all.

[b]

For a woman to be married as a virgin is better than buying a new car, never driven, with any faults.
Those days, men seat with friends to discuss their wives and their chastity and boast of seeing the first blood of the marriage, I even heard that there is cultures in the (then) Nigeria where the families of the woman will spread a white clothe to confirm their daughter’s virginity and wait with trepidation to hear good news from the man after the first sex.

TRUE!!

Unfortunately those are over, Let me blame (us) the men first for our uncontrollable lust, foolishness has become so rampant in our society, some of us cannot take away our eyes from the backside of a woman where they discharge number two, we look at the bosom, we look at the hips and sometimes driving we forget that the traffic light has turned green and we keep looking. There are even men who though married will still hunt for young girls who are young enough to be their daughters and will go into unprintable foolishness because the control of such men is in their zip and not on their brains.
There are fathers who would kill a young man for visiting his daughter, yet he will go to places where his kids will not see him to mess up with ladies as young as his own daughter.

TRUEE!!

Now for women, ahhh! how cheap they have suddenly become that you can have two girls for five naira. (two for five naira) imagine the drive in women these days is no longer about reputation, it is Food, Money and Sex, I have never found a woman who is discipline with food, they eat like chickens and are ready for any other thing you throw at them after the food.

VERY TRUEEE!!

Today, it was funny when I heard how ladies can pretend to be tight by using “alum” solution to clean their private body to deceive undiscerning men
I pity the men who never met their wives as a virgin, The thing she did before you met her, she can do it again, and for men who are beating their chest that they met their wives as virgin, your case is worse if you do not satisfy her sexually, she will seek solution outside your home.
Have you heard of sex in the office?
Have you heard of sex before job?
You must have heard of several infidelity, the news are many, how do you feel if you marry a woman who was promiscuous before you met her, and after marriage her rudeness is suggestive of her insatiable appetite

SO TRUEE!!


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Yawnnnnnnnnnn

@ 190. . . . . . . . o ya come enter the time machine and let me zap you and the poster back to the Victorian era!!

Whats with all these virginity threads?

Please don't throw away the baby with the bad water, There seem to be some sense in what the writer has said, I have seen these decay too, How Ladies sell themselves cheaply, I have noticed their greed, their beggarly behaviors, sometimes they do not know that intelligent guys like the Poster are watching them and they just mess themselves up and miss a good guy

Some men who are married are truly regretting who they married (although you can add also that some women too are regretting marrying their husbands)

But i think, these is the fear of most unmarried men. It is disastrous to marry a lady who according to the poster has wasted his life in immoral behaviors

I feel bad for the young People both guys and girls, who have not been on this path before and are undiscerning.


Most people are enduring their choice of partner, they ceased enjoying her after they heard some terrible things or notice some lifestyle enumerated by the poster


Thank you zealous poster, I see your grief, But honestly, ARE you married?

where will you get your wife?

If you hold on to this and refuse to close your eyes to the evil of this "Jettage" You will remain single at hundred

Life is too short to make it dull

why bother?

Hmmm

Summary anybody please

sista-jay:

@ 190. . . . . . . . o ya come enter the time machine and let me zap you and the poster back to the[b] Victorian era!![/b]

I've seen a lot of reference to Victorian era here.
Hellooo!
the OP name is Jett-Age for mosquito sake

^^^^
What an irony!

@ poster ARE YOU A VIRGIN?

if not (which is most likely the case) cut the crap because frankly you haven't done anything to make 'virginity' stay.

I couldn't even read the whole thing its so damn long

This is too long. I fell asleep after three lines

Hi thanks moderator for bringing it 2 the front page.thanks poster for a good analysis like 190 am behind you. yes i had a past but not speaking about it is still very bad

Somebody should please summarise this,i left my glasses at the train station last night.

claremont:

Can someone please read this dissertation and do me a 4 line abstract, cheerz.

does post have to be a dissertation to u?

@ op, u're on point jor

He who fineth a wife, fineth a gud thing and obtaineth favour from God . Not al virgins re wife materials and nt al wife material ladies re virgins, pls give women some credit cos u dont know wat made some of them do wat they re doing and pls change your mentality abt women and enjoy ur wife @ home .