Nothing with clear specification,every living soul be you male or female is absolutely born to succeed,but it all depends on who wishes to win or not.Failure is easily acquired because it is a choice while he that chooses to win does what it takes to earn it cuz success is what you need to work out for.Now the question is 'what do you normally do when ever you experience failure'.Do you surrender thinking all hope is gone when you know that once their is life,opportunities are still guaranteed,Do you degrade you self thinking you are not good enough when you seriously need to work on your self,Do you relax hoping that help will come from some body when you are the one to make it happen.
Life is all about falling and raising cuz nothing comes easy,and when ever you start raising,at a spot you start noticing failure from any angle just know that there is some thing you need to fix in your part for it to perfect back to your expectations .Further more,you allowing your self to be failing all the time makes you to keep seeing your self as a loser and it also covers you from achieving the necessary things you deserve to get,in the sense that where you suppose to fit in can't be discovered again because your humor is already filled with this thoughts of not always giving out the best when needed,which is why you need to aspire to be successful at all times.
Any time you set up a goal you desire to acquire,and it happens it didn't work out as planned all because of one thing all the other,try as much as possible to figure out the reason for the show down and tackle it immediately in other for it to not be an obstacle in getting what you wanted.
IN SUMMARY::You must be big enough to admit your mistakes,correct them and be strong enough to learn from them,although it may not be easy but your determination to be perfect will surely see you through.THANK YOU FOR READING

AUTHOR...''Wonderfulderah''

Thanks for this. Not all can admit their sholort comings let alone work on it..

Its a message for all