Hi

I am south african lady and i am having a good job,i am involved with a nigerian men i love him and i respect him a lot we have a child together he also love me he love our child more than anything,the was lady who was involve with him and he didnt tell me about the lady.they were still together with her ex and when i am asking about the lady, he said the lady is threatening his life and his afraid of the lady that is why he is agreeing with whatever the lady is saying,bcs he is threatening to deport him back to nigeria.

The lady is been forcing him to  sleep with him she said as long as he is in south africa he wont have another girlfriend without her and now the lady is pregnant and i thinkmy men is the father but when u talk about it he said he is not the father.

we are not leaving together we r  leaving in different city but we see each other everyday and we spend weekends together.

last time when i was in his place i saw the clothes of that lady. when i asked him about it he said the the lady came with the police to take the key of the house so that she can pack his things in.

when he came to this country he got married to be able to stay in this country but when times goes the lay that he was married to for citizenship he demanded so manythings that he can not be able to do them,the ex girlfriend and the lady who got married to him they are working together to take the father of my child down.

he said i must be pertient but i feel dat things are not getting better he disvorcing paper are taking time to come.i realy love this man.