Bradford111:
She recently also told me about a cute guy that asked her out I don't know if she was just kidding but I'm sensing a deeper meaning to that story that she told the guy she is single because the guy is a friend to her friend who doesn't know she is in a relationship she even told me she is crushing on him

yyba:
she told you she is crushing on him and you are here asking questions. Just watch out you gonna be her EX very soon

Bradford111:


I can see it too what do you advice I do bro

yyba:
start preparing for heart break as soon as possible

kelspinall:
things like this reminds me of nonsense convos with my ex,when a gal is fed up with you and wants to leave,she starts misbehaving and to make it worst you are a cry cry baby, you take whatever thing she said serious..they know what they want, they know who loves them and who they love but they derive happiness and bossy attitude when they know they have a guy's 100% attention..

set task,set goals and start focusing on them, you see this relationship thing is all waste of time, you are being played and you will feel the pain more because you are pushing something that is no longer working and already crashing slowly,watch out very soon she will start finding faults....no say you know hearam

kelspinall:
things like this reminds me of nonsense convos with my ex,when a gal is fed up with you and wants to leave,she starts misbehaving and to make it worst you are a cry cry baby, you take whatever thing she said serious..they know what they want, they know who loves them and who they love but they derive happiness and bossy attitude when they know they have a guy's 100% attention..

set task,set goals and start focusing on them, you see this relationship thing is all waste of time, you are being played and you will feel the pain more because you are pushing something that is no longer working and already crashing slowly,watch out very soon she will start finding faults....no say you know hearam

kelspinall:
things like this reminds me of nonsense convos with my ex,when a gal is fed up with you and wants to leave,she starts misbehaving and to make it worst you are a cry cry baby, you take whatever thing she said serious..they know what they want, they know who loves them and who they love but they derive happiness and bossy attitude when they know they have a guy's 100% attention..

set task,set goals and start focusing on them, you see this relationship thing is all waste of time, you are being played and you will feel the pain more because you are pushing something that is no longer working and already crashing slowly,watch out very soon she will start finding faults....no say you know hearam

Bradford111:


Or is she just fvcking with my emotions with this crush bs

Bradford111:


She is saying I'm the one bringing up issues what do you advice I do bro

Seeker3:
you're absolutely right. The Op should stop showing this needy attitude and focus on himself. The girl is obviously shit testing him. Believe me, she probably might have accepted the said crush's proposal but subtly wants to tell you that. Playing such stupid game and showing insecure attitude would only validate her decision of leaving you for the crush. To her, you adore her thus you don't deserve a wonderful person like her, but the crush that gives no Bleep about her is golden dude to scramble for. In order words, the Op should lessen the attention he gives her. Whenever she brings up any topic about her crush or anything that gets you jealous act indifferent and like you don't care. Just don't even show any feeling of insecurities. Always maintain frame

Bradford111:


She is saying I'm the one bringing up issues what do you advice I do bro

kelspinall:


you are bringing issue and she is bringing another guy into ya(you and her) convo..thats disrespect and it won't solve anything..is time you start preparing your life without her...this thing called love according to experts they say"it doesn't stress ones is real"
if she truly loves you she won't be stressing you up coming up with another guy in your convos..

be careful not to lose ya heart

iamyungkhalifa:
u dey ask wetin you do as if you be small pikin. Shebbi she dey come your place 2moro . Just make sure u gave her one last hot fvck that will destroy her pussy then u break up with her. Thats the reason why i dont have a personal girlfriend all the girls around me are just taking as friends and anytime i wan fvck , i go just scope them

Seeker3:
you're absolutely right. The Op should stop showing this needy attitude and focus on himself. The girl is obviously shit testing him. Believe me, she probably might have accepted the said crush's proposal but subtly wants to tell you that. Playing such stupid game and showing insecure attitude would only validate her decision of leaving you for the crush. To her, you adore her thus you don't deserve a wonderful person like her, but the crush that gives no Bleep about her is golden dude to scramble for. In order words, the Op should lessen the attention he gives her. Whenever she brings up any topic about her crush or anything that gets you jealous act indifferent and like you don't care. Just don't even show any feeling of insecurities. Always maintain frame

Abfinest007:
Those that doesn't have girlfriend pls stay off this thread

Bradford111:
She recently also told me about a cute guy that asked her out I don't know if she was just kidding but I'm sensing a deeper meaning to that story that she told the guy she is single because the guy is a friend to her friend who doesn't know she is in a relationship she even told me she is crushing on him

2ndchildhood:
.when we recommend Ubunja sermons to Una, Una go dey blast like say we no get sense. Now see as this small girl the turn your sense like black amala.. Baba, your babe is gone, unless you start acting accordingly.

Bradford111:
She recently also told me about a cute guy that asked her out I don't know if she was just kidding but I'm sensing a deeper meaning to that story that she told the guy she is single because the guy is a friend to her friend who doesn't know she is in a relationship she even told me she is crushing on him

Bradford111:
Like seriously I have been having this feel that my girl is cheating on me like 30 minutes ago she ended my call abruptly while on the phone with her that she is busy I just decided to call back after 2 minutes she was on the phone with someone else is she cheating on me or I'm I just overreacting? Your thoughts are welcomed and this is the second time she is doing this same thing secondly,tomorrow she will be visiting me and she is telling me she would me coming by 3 pm while her church closes by 10 am I asked her what she would be doing all those while.... she didn't give me any valid reason I'm just having the feeling she would go and meet the other dude before coming to my place. I need advice on how to go about this to catch her if she is really cheating on me... The last text below is what I sent her after I confirmed she was on call with another person after ending mine

BigDawsNet:
Man up dude

Never show any deep love signs to your babe... only your wife I recommend