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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Juanmike(m): 6:07pm On Sep 15, 2022
Onucs:
16 years, Jesus is Lord
What's the big deal
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by MarveworldG: 6:07pm On Sep 15, 2022
laluski:
Isn't it better she does that than to have an unplanned and unwanted pregnancy?
16 years?
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by MarveworldG: 6:07pm On Sep 15, 2022
gshsj:

Can u tell us the danger?
Some family planning is reversible so what are u talking abt.
In developed country, most pornn stars do temporary family planning...pls the gal did the right thing to not fall pregnant if its a temporary one she did.... that's smart of her in my opinion
16 years?
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by MarveworldG: 6:08pm On Sep 15, 2022
cry
Juanmike:
What's the big deal
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by OmaleJnr: 6:09pm On Sep 15, 2022
The person who did it for her should be sanctioned.
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by dettolgel: 6:09pm On Sep 15, 2022
Wisfem:







[b] This is public forum Mind the words you ascribe to your self!!! let me give you a hint Dangers of what she did are


1. A potential risk of STDs e.g RVD, HCV , Syphilis and others as there will be consistent sex since the so called danger( Pregnancy)she is worried of, has been blocked, 2. A potential Risk of hormonal imbalance leading to changes in her period,, cramps, dysmenorrhea Endomentriosis not left out..
3. Some other bigger Issues like
Possibility of cancers e.g breast cancer and Cervical cancer, HPV which I can not specifically say they are caused by contraceptives but there is evidence that some of these contraceptives are linked with cancerous cells Although studies are not making absolute conclusions about this,
Other high risks like cardiovascular disease, block clots which can lead to stock and Arteriosclerosis are still in consideration, all of these are not to say once a woman takes contraceptive the following disease will start manifesting, there are Numerous persons on contraceptives who will not experience the above mentioned, The stats will be around one out of 200 persons with contraceptives will suffer something related to the risks above, But what she did is not justifiable she is damaging her future...I belief by now her physical look could be Non fascinating due to weight gain and change in body physic
[/b]

Don't you think that if she goes for family planning that she would have to talk to a professional who would give her more insights?

You know that there is protocol in the hospital on how to deal with different patients seeking for care depending on their age?
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Bimpe29: 6:17pm On Sep 15, 2022
Wallahi the rate of immortality among toddlers aren't only alarming but extremely disheartening.
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kdon2: 6:20pm On Sep 15, 2022
gshsj:

Can u tell us the danger?
Some family planning is reversible so what are u talking abt.
In developed country, most pornn stars do temporary family planning...pls the gal did the right thing to not fall pregnant if its a temporary one she did.... that's smart of her in my opinion

Hmmmm.... This one weak me. I wonder the kind of parent this one will be. Very low morals I guess!
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by miazadavid(m): 6:20pm On Sep 15, 2022
OP please do some research before you post somethings, side effects of irregular menstruation happen in some individuals and it happens during the 1st year of use.
Don't you ever say it disturbs future fertility because it doesn't do that at all except it is the one of tubal ligation.
So you would prefer the 16yr old having unprotected sex and doing series of unsafe abortions to having a family planning method?
Who do us this thing sef
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kdon2: 6:21pm On Sep 15, 2022
Southernigbo:
Are u sure? Here in the south, our girls in teenage yrs don't do sex, marital or illicit, na 4 only north dem dey do catch them young by doing under age marriage

Dey decieve yourself there! angry
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kdon2: 6:25pm On Sep 15, 2022
worksmart:
Sounds like that she is trying to be responsible

Trying to be responsible or irresponsible. Yeye dey smell. She is still underage pure and simple. Any hospital that did that for her is liable for prosecution!
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by khadaffi(m): 6:27pm On Sep 15, 2022
Mhykel217:


Do u know how foolish u sound rn

The guy you quoted asked a very potent question and I'm shocked you can't answer something you claim to know. Tell us the danger in family planning. There is no need to start shifting the goal post as to if it was my daughter or not. Tell us the danger cause from what I know there is no danger. Of there is let us know
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kdon2: 6:30pm On Sep 15, 2022
ghettochild:
It's a normal thing in the western world n here in South Africa.
Nigeria still dey behind

Sorry
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kdon2: 6:35pm On Sep 15, 2022
Wittyglam:
thank you for getting my point cause a lot of people are praising the act.

Most of them are half educated to downright illiterates!

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Much2do: 6:37pm On Sep 15, 2022
Are you surprised?
We're not in normal times. Teenagers these days do family planning or take all sorts of pills more than married women living with their husbands.
To me I think it's better,preventive measures as long as she's wise enough to also protect herself from sexually transmitted diseases and infections.
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Wisfem: 6:38pm On Sep 15, 2022
dettolgel:


Don't you think that if she goes for family planning that she would have to talk to a professional who would give her more insights?

You know that there is protocol in the hospital on how to deal with different patients seeking for care depending on their age?




Am not ignorant of that said protocols, but the thing is this!! The country she did this kind of thing should be in question, are they advanced in health care practice?? 2. The physician in quote! did he consult to his best abilities before this action?? 3. Is there possibility of compromise by the said physician may be on monetary inducement or by sympathy or Negligence??

4. The girl is she up to 18 years so that she can be considered as one who can make critical decisions on her own??

5. Are you also aware of the suppression of some health Related hazards to some certain countries even By who?? Due to the personalities in health sectors, and political gain!!
6. Do you also believe that all the health practices championed by experts are the best to humanity and does not need further Improvement world wide??
7. Practitioner who did this!! did not act to his or her best knowledge or interest of humanity and the girl in quote because,if complications occur he can vindicate him self, there are public knowledge out there on the risks of what she did!! Which were possibly revealed to her and she choose to sign for the procedure, so the physician will win the case.
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kobojunkie: 6:40pm On Sep 15, 2022
Kdon2:
Trying to be responsible or irresponsible. Yeye dey smell. She is still underage pure and simple. Any hospital that did that for her is liable for prosecution!
Did what exactly? undecided
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kdon2: 6:42pm On Sep 15, 2022
laluski:


My sister am not supporting her actions don't get me wrong...for her to want to go a hospital at that age for that kind of thing shows laxity carelessness or the part of the parents..but somehow, she's still being sensible. What if she gets pregnant and in the course of abortion, she dies.. which would you have preferred...
Even of she decides to drop the parents strict rules with reckless abandon, and decides to start sneaking outside to have sex...nothing the parents can do my sister

A lot of moronic response here! Imagine the fear of pregnancy is more than fear for std! Don't you know she is stupidly having sex without using condom and the idiots priority is not to get pregnant not to protect her life and her future. Some std are death sentence you know. Hmmmm... People are no longer thinking like human, we now think like robot that is dictated to. Haba!
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kdon2: 6:43pm On Sep 15, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Did what exactly? undecided

Family planing for underage girl. Are you clear now?
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kobojunkie: 6:46pm On Sep 15, 2022
Kdon2:
Family planing for underage girl. Are you clear now?
Birthcontrol pills are also listed as family planning. So is that what you mean? Condoms are also family planning.
undecided
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kdon2: 6:46pm On Sep 15, 2022
ukaface:
what's wrong?
At least she knows not to get pregnant and she went through the right way. Would you have loved her to get pregnant and be a single teenage mum Nope.
What danger is she putting herself in?

Parents should teach sex education to their children, and everything in-between, if you keep hiding these things from them they will go out and bring it back to you in a way you wont like.

You should be ashamed of yourself if you are truly a woman!
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Kdon2: 6:50pm On Sep 15, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Birthcontrol pills are also listed as family planning. So is that what you mean? Condoms are also family planning.
undecided

You don't sound reasonable
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Immanuelsnr: 6:52pm On Sep 15, 2022
Wittyglam:
Parents it’s time you start monitoring your wards, I know it’s not easy but you have to try. Make your kids your best friend, visit them on campus.

Be friends with their friends.
A 16years old girl went to do family planning just to please her boyfriend, so they can have sex the way they want. She doesn’t understand the danger she is putting herself in.

Stop trying to do the wrong things all in the name of love, stop trying to please people.
No one self wey done dey stay man house since February, I come dey wonder which kind parents leave there daughter since the beginning of strike and doesn't ask for her or care to know her whereabout, cause I know very well she get parents, nawa for some parents Sha
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by OJODEL10(m): 6:53pm On Sep 15, 2022
Realmi:
only the mother....what about the father

mother!
yes mother, they are usually aware of changes in their children
only a fail mother would not
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by membranus: 6:58pm On Sep 15, 2022
gshsj:

Can u tell us the danger?
Some family planning is reversible so what are u talking abt.
In developed country, most pornn stars do temporary family planning...pls the gal did the right thing to not fall pregnant if its a temporary one she did.... that's smart of her in my opinion

Are you advocating or supporting fornication for this under age girl?
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by sgtponzihater1(m): 7:04pm On Sep 15, 2022
Angelfrost:


Who has reported our men in the North?!!

I have no men in the North. Boyfriend and marriage are different.

All the best
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Mabco: 7:15pm On Sep 15, 2022
Its so shameful that many comments about this issue no matter how spiritually lawless we are does not come out with the fear of God. Hmm we have to be careful because God is real!!!
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by Edusouls(m): 7:16pm On Sep 15, 2022
May ur daughter do the same at that age claim it by saying amen? Generation of lost souls everywhere
laluski:
Isn't it better she does that than to have an unplanned and unwanted pregnancy?
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by dontrulee: 7:21pm On Sep 15, 2022
Wittyglam:
thank you for seeing the wrong in it cause a lot of plate praising the act. Someone that was sent to school to study.

When did you loose your virginity?
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by dontrulee: 7:26pm On Sep 15, 2022
I don't know why some people are finding fault with this.
Majority of people here lost their virginity by age 13/14. It is normal that as one reaches puberty, hormones are on the high side and one may become sexually active. Going for family planning is a good thing, having good sexual education is a good thing, also knowing how to protect oneself from STD and STI is also a good thing. These are the things men should teach their daughters. Teach them good sex education, teach them how to protect and hold on to their virginity and if they can't, teach them ways to protect themselves. We focus on the wrong things in Nigeria, that's why we are still backward. Sad!!

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Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by dontrulee: 7:27pm On Sep 15, 2022
Kdon2:


A lot of moronic response here! Imagine the fear of pregnancy is more than fear for std! Don't you know she is stupidly having sex without using condom and the idiots priority is not to get pregnant not to protect her life and her future. Some std are death sentence you know. Hmmmm... People are no longer thinking like human, we now think like robot that is dictated to. Haba!

Condom use is also part of family planning. grin
Re: A 16-Year-Old Girl Went For Family Planning Because Of Her Boyfriend by dontrulee: 7:29pm On Sep 15, 2022
MarveworldG:

16 years?

So people don't get pregnant before the age of 16??

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