Go find money open store.. Even if its barbing shop in a busy area,add pos join.
You can add bolt.. Avoid being sack next time.. Set up ur own business, so that you go fit dey sack people .. Don't tell me you don't have capital o.. Capital dey everywhere..

Sirseedorf:
I feel weak, terrible and hopeless. I lost my job today due to management change of system, I never saw it coming, in fact it came as a shock to me. Am just confused on what to do next, I have huge responsibility ahead of me, even now, I have to find something doing or else negative thought and depression will kill me faster than gunshots. I can't cry out physically but inside I feel pain as if a knife as pierce my heart, my self esteem is weak, my life is heading on a rock, I don't bet, never drink nor womanize, I just want a better life for myself, but it seems better life might never be achieved while still leaving with joblessness and failure status.
Help me nairalander, I don't know what might become of me in the next few days or weeks.

I hope you have some savings.

This is the time to fall back on it but you should scale down your expenses in the meantime until you secure another job or start a viable business

Sirseedorf:
I feel weak, terrible and hopeless. I lost my job today due to management change of system, I never saw it coming, in fact it came as a shock to me. Am just confused on what to do next, I have huge responsibility ahead of me, even now, I have to find something doing or else negative thought and depression will kill me faster than gunshots. I can't cry out physically but inside I feel pain as if a knife as pierce my heart, my self esteem is weak, my life is heading on a rock, I don't bet, never drink nor womanize, I just want a better life for myself, but it seems better life might never be achieved while still leaving with joblessness and failure status.
Help me nairalander, I don't know what might become of me in the next few days or weeks.

You’ve just been given an opportunity to write the biggest Cheque for yourself, and you’re just going to throw it away big time❓

Mbenny:
GROWING UP TO BE AN ADULT IS A BIG TRAP.

A very big trap and some people even as a child were adults and still struggling as adults that they are now.

All these and more are bound to happen. But why are u A man? RISE WHENEVER U FALL.

lereinter:


Maybe it's high time you started your own job


Even if you have another job, you go still lose it one day

Maybe but
Not everyone 'lose' their jobs. Some work until retirement. Which isn't a job loss.

It is well,blacks are terrible.

I am so sorry about what just happened to you.

As I empathize with you, please do know for real that, the greatest transformation comes from our darkest moments. One of your greatest coping mechanism now should be seeing the opportunities in this crisis.

Know that what just happened is not your fault neither do you possess the power to stop the crisis. However, you have absolutely the power to decide how you'd respond to the whole situation around you right now.

Let's start this way:

1. Time heals every wounds, including your current predicament.

2. Can you start meditating by looking inward to discover inner, but hidden voices and coping choices.

3. Consider your location, can you start a laundry business as it requires little or no capital to start.

4. Should you need support to discover your hidden potentials and transform your ideas into reality, do not hesitate to reach out to me.

I am holding you up in prayers, and sending well wishes your way to receive enough strengths and encouragements to make it victoriously through this storm. I see you coming out even stronger than you could have ever imagined!

You lost only job, but every part of you are still intact, but what about someone rushing to work that had an accident that lost his both legs due to spanner cord injury? Better start thanking God for what he has done for you does far, and thank him to another higher place his taken you. Peace. Sometimes our promotion to higher level come in disguised.

cayorday89:

A very tricky situation, hang on Bro and keep searching, was in same situation just few months ago, left a job for another only to lose it after two months, my own saving grace was that I always saved about 60% of my salary and like you I don't drink, bet, womanise or spend recklessly and while searching for another job I was thinking of what to do with my savings and when job was not forthcoming I proceed with my plans of starting a business, mistakes will be made but I am learning, infact since morning wey I sit down here only two people don patronize me. Your time will come soonest...

What business are you into if I may ask?

Sorry about that bro

You are rumbling without giving details on how it happened.
Are you sure, you didn't cook this up

When I was swindled back in 2017, it was a horrible experience. I thought everything was over but my gf at that time encouraged me, persuaded me to go look for something else. I started with a security work that pays me 13k every month. 5 years on, things are moving slowly and smoothly and I believe I will be back on my feet and higher than I was 5 years ago.please my bro, pick up your pieces and get busy immediately no matter how small it is... Don't stay at home, I repeat don't stay at home..... it is better to be shamed for the little you have at hand than to be shamed for stealing or kidnapping ..

djseanjohn77:




When one door closes, another opens, but unfortunately, we are too busy ranting and depressed over the lost one that we don't see or miss out completely on the open doors. leverage on the little experience, pray, and fast, better things around the corner. Face your fear, and be courageous, only a thin line separates failure and success. Something permanent will come. I am talking from experience..... believe. Mine happened as a family man, even now, as blessed and comfortable as i am, any month where i go broke, the fear still hunts me, cos nothing is guaranteed. That's why you have to plan a life outside your 8-5pm job....that is your only guarantee, and that too is not assured.

Truly, nothing is guaranteed... Even the life that we have is borrowed cos we are not promised tomorrow but we still have to strive for that tomorrow that is not promised.

Sirseedorf:
I feel weak, terrible and hopeless. I lost my job today due to management change of system, I never saw it coming, in fact it came as a shock to me. Am just confused on what to do next, I have huge responsibility ahead of me, even now, I have to find something doing or else negative thought and depression will kill me faster than gunshots. I can't cry out physically but inside I feel pain as if a knife as pierce my heart, my self esteem is weak, my life is heading on a rock, I don't bet, never drink nor womanize, I just want a better life for myself, but it seems better life might never be achieved while still leaving with joblessness and failure status.
Help me nairalander, I don't know what might become of me in the next few days or weeks.

Don't loose hope bro. You can start with POS business. I was once in your shoes and I think God for who I am now. You should not give up. It's not over until it's over. It might be hard at the beginning, your victory is closer than you think.


If you are sacked by an employer, they are asking you to use your brain too.

Bro,I passed through similar situation for 2 years with family where my wife is unemployed.Imagine my life then.There is nothing prayer can't do.Pray and put your trust in God,He will remember you for good.

this one just dey cap anyhow, do you know what am passing through, at 30 still staying with my brother to mention but few, try calm down, we are more on this.

Raalsalghul:


What business are you into if I may ask?

Foodstuffs both raw and processed.

Viccur:
Be hopeful bro. Better days ahead. In your shoes at the moment. Really a terrible period.

Very very terrible situation to find oneself

Sirseedorf:
I feel weak, terrible and hopeless. I lost my job today due to management change of system, I never saw it coming, in fact it came as a shock to me. Am just confused on what to do next, I have huge responsibility ahead of me, even now, I have to find something doing or else negative thought and depression will kill me faster than gunshots. I can't cry out physically but inside I feel pain as if a knife as pierce my heart, my self esteem is weak, my life is heading on a rock, I don't bet, never drink nor womanize, I just want a better life for myself, but it seems better life might never be achieved while still leaving with joblessness and failure status.
Help me nairalander, I don't know what might become of me in the next few days or weeks.

Did you campaign vote for Buhari's Government in 2015 or 2019? Vote peter Obi for better future.

cayorday89:

Foodstuffs both raw and processed.

Okay, I'll send you a P.M.

BBetter Job awaits Insha Allah. Have faith!!!!

Most job seekers only want to earn and erk out a living, very few are concerned about what the company is passing through.

Sirseedorf:
I feel weak, terrible and hopeless. I lost my job today due to management change of system, I never saw it coming, in fact it came as a shock to me. Am just confused on what to do next, I have huge responsibility ahead of me, even now, I have to find something doing or else negative thought and depression will kill me faster than gunshots. I can't cry out physically but inside I feel pain as if a knife as pierce my heart, my self esteem is weak, my life is heading on a rock, I don't bet, never drink nor womanize, I just want a better life for myself, but it seems better life might never be achieved while still leaving with joblessness and failure status.
Help me nairalander, I don't know what might become of me in the next few days or weeks.

Getting another job is not difficult but you have to believe in yourself. Once you are unable to find your values, no one will see it. My advice to everyone out there is to build your value and character beyond 99%. I'm sure you can get another job in 2 weeks if you decide. Never let your interviewer know that you are so desperate to get a job even if you don't have anything left to survive. Always believe in hope, but you have to make the first move and believe in yourself. I wish you the best.

See, I was once in your shoe. Got a job, still learning on the job in just few weeks. The boss wife had her own candidate and I was finger out to be replaced. It hurts, but I made promise to better myself and improve my wellbeing. God be the glory, things improved but slowly. I would advise you to let go and see the horizon of hope. You're better than that place of work. Engage yourself now to a skill that you can also be a consultant in less month.

Sirseedorf:
I feel weak, terrible and hopeless. I lost my job today due to management change of system, I never saw it coming, in fact it came as a shock to me. Am just confused on what to do next, I have huge responsibility ahead of me, even now, I have to find something doing or else negative thought and depression will kill me faster than gunshots. I can't cry out physically but inside I feel pain as if a knife as pierce my heart, my self esteem is weak, my life is heading on a rock, I don't bet, never drink nor womanize, I just want a better life for myself, but it seems better life might never be achieved while still leaving with joblessness and failure status.
Help me nairalander, I don't know what might become of me in the next few days or weeks.

Don't lose heart or focus right now. Everything will be okay

abuchilag:
Sir, do not wear this garment of defeat. Brace up and give it all it takes. The battle is in your mind....unfortunately the way you sounded simply buttresses the fact that you have already lost the battle.

Say NO to that voice of failure. You are much stronger than you think. Roll up your sleeves and get to work....winners don't quit.

Keep submitting applications, you never can tell where your next breakthrough will come from. You can also think of entrepreneurship. Once you meet a need in the market place, the cashflow will start rolling in. Think of a need to meet in your environment or space....and see people paying for such, massively.

Be strong.

Story for the gods.

After much is said, after all these unnecessary motivational ramblings, he is still where he is.

He doesn't need any more motivation.

He needs a JOB.

Hi guy,

It not over yet until its finally over

I really feel your pains as a responsible and hard working person

Life is such an imaginary things that can never be understood! Please calm your self down and brace up again it is still possible

Don't just keep applying for jobs, keep reaching out to family and friends too for possible referrers

I wish you success.

Sirseedorf:
I want to have my own business, my own innovation but the capital is the issue, at least I need to earn before actualizing my goals in doing something for myself.
Am not planning on doing job for people forever but the capital to raise is not there, the is no more, no source of income. I don't really understand life, most we go through hell already in life.

Don't look at the capital, first step is to attach yourself with someone in that field, let the person not pay but always try and be there, by so doing, you have started already. Please don't stay ideal nor alone, take a step now, today, thank you.

Sirseedorf:


I want to have my own business, my own innovation but the capital is the issue, at least I need to earn before actualizing my goals in doing something for myself.
Am not planning on doing job for people forever but the capital to raise is not there, the is no more, no source of income. I don't really understand life, most we go through hell already in life.

Bro... you need to be positive.... where there is a will there is a way. These are the people that succeed in life. When you trip and fall ... do you remain on the ground and blame the rock you tripped over? ... or do you get up.. dust yourself and resume moving forward? Same here... you fell ... unexpectedly... get up ... dust yourself off .... money must flow... the money trail you were on is shut off .. NO ENTRY.... wouldn't you try to find a way around it? Ask yourself... what is it you can do with the savings you have to maintain the cash flow? You wanted to open a high class restaurant but you don't have the capital .... put that on the back burner. Do you have a car?... sign up with Uber or whoever .... go buy things cheap from another area and bring them to market ... have motor cycle... okada..Okada... all the while applying for jobs. Stuff your pride in the closet and do something .... no hope no life.... be a man.... face life like a man.... laying do2n and rolling over should never be an option... don't be a weakling and embarrass your fellow men.

If you are hopeless find a place they do ritual
Kill one of your girlfriend and get Peace

My brother life is give and take..if I were you ,at that moment I won't even brood over anything...life can't be positive all the time..but one lesson you should learn is that..try and learn skills,get small business..Think of when you get older