Newman001:
I met her through facebook few months ago, we chatted and the rest is history. I wanted something serious with her and i told her severally because I wasn't too comfortable with the numerous calls she receives from guys.

One day a friend of mine told me that someone he knows collected her number and my so call girlfriend slept over at the guys place after just two days of knowing the guy. I confronted her, she denied initially but later owned up and apologized. I forgave her because I know no one is perfect.

Few days ago i put on auto record on her phone and this night she is at my place sleeping so i open the records and there is this particular conversation where she travel to a near by state to see another guy.
Im just confused right now. I have invested so much emotions on this gal and don't know what to do.

Despite that she is working and the little time she has, she spent it at my place she still got time to be meeting and sleeping with random men for money. I'm thinking of confronting and breaking up with her right now or just codedly place her on the level she deserves and let this slide.

I fit Sabi this girl o... kindly drop her name or pic.........

The best advice I'll give u is to leave her.....drop her like an album.....

Childish advice from grown boys could spoil your relationship with your future partner. Most of these loudmouths have girlfriends who even date their own friends. They are here forming macho men.

The advice from an elder statesman is this:
Groom her and make her realise that you intend to marry her and that if she continues with the hookup thing, you may be forced to dump her!

She would change with time.

Meanwhile, knack her toto with condom oh!

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zeuss:
Nobody is a saint especially in our society....if the girl is ur soulmate then cut her slack and change her.

Good boi,Olosho changer.......abeg which course u study��

@OP
I understand how U feel
Once U pass this phase
U are have completed that love circle ritual
I no fit advise U cos I have walked in ur shoes
Keep being a f00l
Life will be good to U
I only fear U might never be able to fall in love again after this experience
Stay blessed

libertyfather:
Forgive her cause she dont knw what she's doing

Op no be Jesus na...why he go forgive?

dMetalist:



O is for otilo
V is for vawulence

M...is for mind your business

At least you made front page. Mission accomplished. Next!

Newman001:
I met her through facebook few months ago, we chatted and the rest is history. I wanted something serious with her and i told her severally because I wasn't too comfortable with the numerous calls she receives from guys.

One day a friend of mine told me that someone he knows collected her number and my so call girlfriend slept over at the guys place after just two days of knowing the guy. I confronted her, she denied initially but later owned up and apologized. I forgave her because I know no one is perfect.

Few days ago i put on auto record on her phone and this night she is at my place sleeping so i open the records and there is this particular conversation where she travel to a near by state to see another guy.
Im just confused right now. I have invested so much emotions on this gal and don't know what to do.

Despite that she is working and the little time she has, she spent it at my place she still got time to be meeting and sleeping with random men for money. I'm thinking of confronting and breaking up with her right now or just codedly place her on the level she deserves and let this slide.

I repeat,drop her like an album.......I dropped one Album this evening...she travelled with a male frnd to a resort,and they lodged....buh she told me it's a different room o...but I no believe...I had to drop her as my 3rd album this year....I don smoke....I'm okay......

Newman001:
I met her through facebook few months ago, we chatted and the rest is history. I wanted something serious with her and i told her severally because I wasn't too comfortable with the numerous calls she receives from guys.

One day a friend of mine told me that someone he knows collected her number and my so call girlfriend slept over at the guys place after just two days of knowing the guy. I confronted her, she denied initially but later owned up and apologized. I forgave her because I know no one is perfect.

Few days ago i put on auto record on her phone and this night she is at my place sleeping so i open the records and there is this particular conversation where she travel to a near by state to see another guy.
Im just confused right now. I have invested so much emotions on this gal and don't know what to do.

Despite that she is working and the little time she has, she spent it at my place she still got time to be meeting and sleeping with random men for money. I'm thinking of confronting and breaking up with her right now or just codedly place her on the level she deserves and let this slide.

U nova still run? Run ooo before she kill u

LyfeJennings:
@OP
I understand how U feel
Once U pass this phase
U are have completed that love circle ritual
I no fit advise U cos I have walked in ur shoes
Keep being a f00l
Life will be good to U
I only fear U might never be able to fall in love again after this experience
Stay blessed

You're right,I experienced this shiit too....it hurts....I fell in love with one deadly hook up girl(chinyeaka perpetua ononiwu) , anywhere u see that name run for ur life....she cheats more than a cheeter

You are not a honest person,I spent 28years in Yoruba land don't allow me expose the dirty thing as pussies do over there.
Don't condemn other regions

Babara1994:

A typical Yoruba girl who has a job, won't do hookup. Let me guess, your gf is Igbo? Or perhaps from the SS

If u have invested so much emotions on d girl as u claimed still give her another chance maybe she might change but I doubt it... A word is a enough for a wise, u better jaapa... post=118183464]I met her through facebook few months ago, we chatted and the rest is history. I wanted something serious with her and i told her severally because I wasn't too comfortable with the numerous calls she receives from guys.

One day a friend of mine told me that someone he knows collected her number and my so call girlfriend slept over at the guys place after just two days of knowing the guy. I confronted her, she denied initially but later owned up and apologized. I forgave her because I know no one is perfect.

Few days ago i put on auto record on her phone and this night she is at my place sleeping so i open the records and there is this particular conversation where she travel to a near by state to see another guy.
Im just confused right now. I have invested so much emotions on this gal and don't know what to do.

Despite that she is working and the little time she has, she spent it at my place she still got time to be meeting and sleeping with random men for money. I'm thinking of confronting and breaking up with her right now or just codedly place her on the level she deserves and let this slide.[/quote]

Tunechi112:


You're right,I experienced this shiit too....it hurts....I fell in love with one deadly hook up girl(chinyeaka perpetua ononiwu) , anywhere u see that name run for ur life....she cheats more than a cheeter

Bro na this girl?

You invested in her emotionally . Sharp guy!
You no smart enough .
You are a player too.
You too dey play game
You are not ready . Jare!!!

pansophist:
You don't just date someone you met online, and assume she is virtous. Lots of problem people face can be avoided if they just do things the right way. There is a reason why in the past, parents pick daughters they knew from young for their sons.

You don't know this girl. Everything she told you about herself is what she wanted you to know. Before you get serious with a lady, you should know her down to her home, siblings, etc. And if a lady prevent you from knowing her to the cradle, never get serious with her. Let her waste her time.

The past of any woman you'll ever be with should be a concern to you. Lots of demonic women are out there looking for good men to use, and your defense against that is your sense, and to do the right thing.

Best comment ever!!!

U nailed it........a lady's past is important

Don't let her know,
She's not ready to settle down yet.
just try to manage your withdrawal syndrome, while searching for a new babe.
Never yield to her crocodile tears.

Johel:



Omo...I no go lie, I catch o, but immediately I noticed in 2days after we fukked, Omo I called my nurse straight and paid for all necessary treatments till I was perfec

I called the babe face to face,I told her about it and blasted hell out of her life, she left and didn't communicate with me again,me sef deleted her number immediately..

but she came back late last month and we fukked again , she spent 4days with me,..I really like the girl,she so fine and cool,she had a rough life experience due to family negligence and bad peers...Na just that hook up life I no gbadun.

Give this man an AWARD

imagrg:
Childish advice from grown boys could spoil your relationship with your future partner. Most of these loudmouths have girlfriends who even date their own friends. They are here forming macho men.

The advice from an elder statesman is this:
Groom her and make her realise that you intend to marry her and that if she continues with the hookup thing, you may be forced to dump her!

She would change with time.

Meanwhile, knack her toto with condom oh!

See the next mumu to write nairaland stories that touch

Bros, go pick beans. Girl they fool u nd u dey here dey yarn durst. U done invest in emotions. U done lash her wetin u still dey wait? Free her. Abi u wan carry STD?

libertyfather:
Forgive her cause she dont knw what she's doing

Newman001:
I met her through facebook few months ago, we chatted and the rest is history. I wanted something serious with her and i told her severally because I wasn't too comfortable with the numerous calls she receives from guys.

One day a friend of mine told me that someone he knows collected her number and my so call girlfriend slept over at the guys place after just two days of knowing the guy. I confronted her, she denied initially but later owned up and apologized. I forgave her because I know no one is perfect.

Few days ago i put on auto record on her phone and this night she is at my place sleeping so i open the records and there is this particular conversation where she travel to a near by state to see another guy.
Im just confused right now. I have invested so much emotions on this gal and don't know what to do.

Despite that she is working and the little time she has, she spent it at my place she still got time to be meeting and sleeping with random men for money. I'm thinking of confronting and breaking up with her right now or just codedly place her on the level she deserves and let this slide.

Lies by moonlight.

puremaker7:
Becareful not to get hiv...

Yes o...thank you...Na just main chic for now o.

I don marry, but not Naija girl.

bisqit:
you no go marry?

OP
"If u can't change the girl, change the girl".

...I hope this statement makes sense 2u tho.

luizpippo:


You know this is not true.

u get time to reply dat werey

Babara1994:

A typical Yoruba girl who has a job, won't do hookup. Let me guess, your gf is Igbo? Or perhaps from the SS

This is cancerous and inciteful. Bad idea.

Divoc19:
Un-invest your emotions now to avoid more stories that touches the heart in future.

Over a decade ago I was in his shoes. I can assure you that he won’t listen to any good advice on this forum or anywhere else.

Greystone:


Over a decade ago I was in his shoes. I can assure you that he won’t listen to any good advice on this forum or anywhere else.

mumu people your stories doesn't add, what exactly do you people want? if you have nothing doing you too might be better off in a local church. it is easy to reach out to people with the information you have.

zeuss:
Nobody is a saint especially in our society....if the girl is ur soulmate then cut her slack and change her.

Ashawo don drop quote