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Authoreety:
Marriage ceremonies in Africa has always been a big deal and calls for celebration with pomp nd peagantry....

We only added the culture of the whites with the same momentum

And they never added yours to theirs, inferiority complex of the Africans

Odward:
Leave us alone that’s what makes us Africans

Your inferiority complex is awesome

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Not all black.black Christian see the insults you brought to black race . that's why bleaching and artificial hair remain haram.every time you goes against God you will be disgraced even before human.mane in African drees code during balloon d'or ceremony instead of White suit

Ohislee:
1- White wedding came with Christianity. As a Christian, one feels fulfilled been joined in the church.

2- Ladies always insist even when men are not interested thereby increasing the wedding budget.

1 is true

White wedding is a Christian wedding/ church wedding

The real reason to me is that, these weddings (traditional and white) are done once in a lifetime and so should be done in such a way that it will be a memorable experience

And some do it for show offs
Why traditional marriage is not done in a bigger way just like the white is because of village people, u get?
When I have a gf and ready to do white wedding, e go loud o

Both traditional and church wedding go loud

I no wan see anything white clothing there, na native(isi agu for me and my wife)

siofra:
That's church wedding not white wedding.

You can also do your church/christian wedding in african tradition. Christian/church wedding in the white man's tradition is a white wedding. See the difference? Where did you see white wedding in the bible?

Authoreety:
Marriage ceremonies in Africa has always been a big deal and calls for celebration with pomp nd peagantry....

We only added the culture of the whites with the same momentum

When are the whites going to add your own culture to theirs?
Abi una don give up say una dey lesser than them.

RestructureNig1:
Africans have their own wedding but spend a lot doing European weddings and wearing fake hair. Africans are shameless have low self esteem. Tụfịakwa

It is nothing more than stupidity and low self esteem.
Nothing more!!!

RestructureNig1:
Africans have their own wedding but spend a lot doing European weddings and wearing fake hair. Africans are shameless have low self esteem. Tụfịakwa

The problem is compounded by the Christian religious bodies that says if you have not perform the rites in churches that it is not yet right or approved by God whereas what God demand from us is that we give to our inlaw whatever that they ask us to bring. Muslims marriage and Indian marriage ceremonies were typically made to tailor there own and not borrowed system.

You with the b!t¢h,because she lit....she gettin' passed around

It has become like a burden on our necks. My advice to guys getting married: Yours can't be the worse, and it can't be the best.

The usual stupid question on Nairaland.

It has been a long time since we had one.

Because we black people lack sense.

Same way only our women reach abroad and abandon our marriage culture and become oyinbo wife immediately.

anyone can spend his or her own money any way they like. just face your own life and be a success and stop poking your nose into other people's lifestyles, as long as they are not begging you for the money to spend, just mind your own business.
some people will never get it in life because they keep looking for the mistakes of other people, the rich don't think about the poor or envious people, it is the poor that envy the rich and always talk about them

RestructureNig1:
Africans have their own wedding but spend a lot doing European weddings and wearing fake hair. Africans are shameless have low self esteem. Tụfịakwa

Mild5:
That's very unnecessary, but I don't understand why we do that

You know why we do so.....

Mental slavery

We just like to copy. We want to copy everything.
They don't even give a bleep about ours funny enough.

charlesedu777:
Is called church wedding not White wedding.
Why so much hate on White people.,(Racism against the white man.)

So asking why you abandoned your culture is racism?

Emancipate yourself from mental slavery

siofra:
That's church wedding not white wedding.

That's hook up, not prostitution.

I don’t know why I dislike this type of wedding and court own too. It doesn’t look real to me.

Men might not even like loud wedding,but u see ladies ehn

Inferiority complex and low self esteem have derogated some of our so-called educated people to the extent that they have abandoned themselves

kingthreat:
Nigerian women insist you must do 4 kinds of weddings with them.
The engagement, the traditional wedding, the white wedding and the court wedding.
All financed by the man. At the end, una go dey claim feminist for house.
Too much pressure on the Nigerian man

Probably the lady even get up to 200 body counts

kingthreat:
Nigerian women insist you must do 4 kinds of weddings with them.
The engagement, the traditional wedding, the white wedding and the court wedding.
All financed by the man. At the end, una go dey claim feminist for house.
Too much pressure on the Nigerian man

Yet most of those pussiesssss have been fucccccked by others.

My own opinion, it is show off...

And some of the clegymen will mak it mandatory they If you dont do white wedding no heaven. . EUROPEAN' really dealth with Africa's.

RestructureNig1:
Africans have their own wedding but spend a lot doing European weddings and wearing fake hair. Africans are shameless have low self esteem. Tụfịakwa

Nothing remotely European about the weddings.

Abi Europeans dey do owambe?

Den dey pay bride price?

Den dey buy Aso Ebi?

Europeans wey fit do wedding for one garden with no chairs, all man dey on standing with one glass of wine?

onatisi:
anyone can spend his or her own money any way they like. just face your own life and be a success and stop poking your nose into other people's lifestyles, as long as they are not begging you for the money to spend, just mind your own business.
some people will never get it in life because they keep looking for the mistakes of other people, the rich don't think about the poor or envi ous people, it is the poor that envy the rich and always talk about them

Point of correction, he used inclusive in his submission, so he is not exonarating himself.

Ohislee:
1- White wedding came with Christianity. As a Christian, one feels fulfilled been joined in the church.

2- Ladies always insist even when men are not interested thereby increasing the wedding budget.

It's a good feeling to be married in the church as a Christian.
What I have always preached against is the idea of a "Christian" getting married twice.
They'll have their traditional marriage aka trad., then go ahead to have a church marriage aka white wedding.
A Christian doesn't need a trad.
Traditional marriages are for people who aren't Christians.

RestructureNig1:
Africans have their own wedding but spend a lot doing European weddings and wearing fake hair. Africans are shameless have low self esteem. Tụfịakwa

They are not shameless

Its the way they want it

You can do yours in the shrine, no one will question you

If any of y'all commenting here is a Christian then that person is a stupid hypocrite!!!