I'm a young man of 21. Currently studying to become a medical doctor at a private uni
I'm young and I'm broke. I don't know what to do. Girls aren't looking my way. And 99.9999% of the time when they actually ask me for something, it's usually to solve problems for them. I'm tired of solving problems.
When they get their solutions, they forget all about me till next time they need problem solver.
I am a virgin too.
I'm also a nofap person. But I broke my 3 month streak on Friday. The urges was too much.

And I've been back to nofap mode since.
Please what is the way out. What do I do with these urges.
Fasting and prayer no help. I don try am.

This is a genuine question. Not cruise or anything

Lol..

Fasting and prayer no help. I don try am.

Fasting and praying is not suppose to come first in this mattrr. Because na flesh and blood you be. Sex urge na normal things, but when it's too much, then "kasala fit bust" The solution na deliberate decision wey you need to take by yourself. Before fastin and praying. I want to believe the reason why your sex urge is too much is as a result of what you occupied your mind with and the kind of films you watch too.
If you can take care of the bold sentence above, that's the first step and others can follow.
I don't know for others, but trust me, sex is over rated. After the fist round, nothing dey there again.

If to sey you get money, I would have advice you to marry. But as it stands now, if you marry, it would be very very difficult for you to complete your studies.

If to say op na babe bayi....comment section for don full

It's not a problem bro.
Sex urge is normal. If you have made enough to get married,then go ahead. U suppose dey thank God say u dey have sex urge. Whatever those that don't maybe from infection or inherited disease?

I am a virgin too.

There's nothing like a male virgin.

If you can't get a girl in your Area, visit any close brothel guy....Grow up!!!

No dey listen to black man mouth, every problem get solution, it all depends how you find your self inside the problem..

Damnnn niggar

First of all you having a sexual urge means you are a niggar

But you not able to bang a woman in a tertiary institution means you are not a real niggar

Tertiary institution is the easiest place to get a woman and bang steadily

So be a real niggarrr and off a woman's pant...be bold enough...confidence and work on your self esteem

I think your problem is low self esteem. You have not come to realize your value yet, there by under estimating yourself.

While studying engineering, I know so many mate of mine that use that alone to wow girls from other departments and I know a lot of girls that wanted to date engineering guys.

Same with guys in clinical science, so what are you saying? Hope you are not one of those that believe "all girls want is money?"

Personally I am shy and keep to myself, but I have never stayed in a place for more than 6 months without a lady approaching me (lagos, Ilorin, Benue, Warri, Port Harcourt, Abuja and sokoto state).

And I usually turn them down politely because I don't believe in taking advantage of anyone's emotion.

I think you lack confidence talking to girls becos girls are actively after guys that are studying medicine,

During my undergraduate, the pussy wey our medicine student fvck no be here , once dem girls here medicine, their wall of Jericho go fall yakata broke or not.

Work on your confidence first.

Besides from your write up, you seem like a good guy , good guys are turn off to dem babes, alaye mingle with bad guys I mean womanizers and learn one or two from dem.

Sex urge is one of the physiological need of a man. It is actually your level of knowledge and understanding of what it is that will determine how you handle it. If you see it as something evil, it will also affect the way you are going to handle it.
Let me begins by saying that masturbation is not a bad or evil thing as people portray it, it's just another form of s'x. But if you want to stop it, you can do it. All you need is the knowledge of how habit is formed, reinforced and broken.
Search for this book on Google, download it and read it. It will help you. ATOMIC HABITS by Clear.
So long as you eat and remain healthy, you will definitely have urge.
But wait oh, you said you are a medical student, how come you don't understand this thing?

I support slawomirr

iTroll:
I'm a young man of 21. Currently studying to become a medical doctor at a private uni
I'm young and I'm broke. I don't know what to do. Girls aren't looking my way. And 99.9999% of the time when they actually ask me for something, it's usually to solve problems for them. I'm tired of solving problems.
When they get their solutions, they forget all about me till next time they need problem solver.
I am a virgin too.
I'm also a nofap person. But I broke my 3 month streak on Friday. The urges was too much.

And I've been back to nofap mode since.
Please what is the way out. What do I do with these urges.
Fasting and prayer no help. I don try am.

This is a genuine question. Not cruise or anything

no conflict,just continue masturbation,why worrying yourself over trivall things,take your destiny in your own hands,most married men with side chicks still masturbate,there is nothing wrong with controlling your urges and desires.

iTroll:
I'm a young man of 21. Currently studying to become a medical doctor at a private uni
I'm young and I'm broke. I don't know what to do. Girls aren't looking my way. And 99.9999% of the time when they actually ask me for something, it's usually to solve problems for them. I'm tired of solving problems.
When they get their solutions, they forget all about me till next time they need problem solver.
I am a virgin too.
I'm also a nofap person. But I broke my 3 month streak on Friday. The urges was too much.

And I've been back to nofap mode since.
Please what is the way out. What do I do with these urges.
Fasting and prayer no help. I don try am.

This is a genuine question. Not cruise or anything

It's perfectly normal and ok to have sex urges at your age. Don't worry with time you'll find a nice girl to have a relationship with. Just focus on being happy and then in good time you'll find someone to be part of that happiness.
For now though you can of course try masturbation or watch porn to let out some of your sex urge. But make sure you don't get addicted to either because that can be problematic.

I'd advise you not to stay alone especially when you're feeling the urge and again be occupied with activites.

don't be alone, take a walk, hang out with friends so that urge won't overcome you.

iTroll:
I'm a young man of 21. Currently studying to become a medical doctor at a private uni
I'm young and I'm broke. I don't know what to do. Girls aren't looking my way. And 99.9999% of the time when they actually ask me for something, it's usually to solve problems for them. I'm tired of solving problems.
When they get their solutions, they forget all about me till next time they need problem solver.
I am a virgin too.
I'm also a nofap person. But I broke my 3 month streak on Friday. The urges was too much.

And I've been back to nofap mode since.
Please what is the way out. What do I do with these urges.
Fasting and prayer no help. I don try am.

This is a genuine question. Not cruise or anything

https://www.nairaland.com/7460393/quick-advise-sexually-active-20


Revert to my thread all the answers you need they there.

Shalom

Fear women, flee fornication. God will be with you.

aisha1314:


It's perfectly normal and ok to have sex urges at your age. Don't worry with time you'll find a nice girl to have a relationship with. Just focus on being happy and then in good time you'll find someone to be part of that happiness.
For now though you can of course try masturbation or watch porn to let out some of your sex urge. But make sure you don't get addicted to either because that can be problematic.

Worst advice ever!! Pls ignore this.

Want to hear the truth? There is nothing you can do to stop the urge to have sex unless you castrate yourself or you start taking antidepressants which will decrease your libido.

Pls don't masturbate. Pls don't watch porn. I will recommend you improve your social life. That way you can meet a woman and escalate to a romantic relationship.

But for now, why don't you occupy yourself with some future goals. If you have too much free time, then volunteer or sth.

Good luck.

Does this one have sense, you are having sexual urge and you are complaining, are you aware there are some guys out there that are have sexual problems like difficulty to maintain an erection. Why do you think sexual drugs sells crazy in this country.

There is nothing to control, just drink water and chilax, don't patronize prostitutes. You will regret it. Till you have a proper girlfriend.

It's normal to have sexual urges and no man has ever died by not giving in to such cravings but many have died and messed up their lives in trying to satisfy their sexual cravings the wrong way. Try to occupy your mind with productive thoughts and lastly ask God for grace for sexual purity (if you are determined to). Over time, you get better at handling these urges

I get one brothel for back of my street

I fit show you/ Bleep ashanti till you get friends with benefits

I won't advice you to visit a brothel, because once you start going there, it takes the grace of God to stop it, the best thing is try and work on your self esteem, and don't always act as a good boy, girls prefer bad guys.

Cut the prick.... become a eunuch

Dreadlock69:
I get one brothel for back of my street

I fit show you/ Bleep ashanti till you get friends with benefits

i swear....

naso i bleep 1 ashanti sotey,we bcum friends with benefit...

omoh dis banny spoil me with flexing and goodies...

At 21,I already 800k. Wayback..when bold 2 and bold 3 was I vogue. I focused on basement cafe,with vilboz and sabbotech. Bombing steady,tho I wasn't in class most times but come on Man,2.1 was like pure water. Okomah was my boy
Uniben

Cut the prick


Damn... nasty... I'm out of here

Go meet ashawo,

Private uni guys are mostly introvert or shy.
Govt uni guys are bae,a guy with zero balance get like 2-3 ladies on control.How they do it mostly na mystery.
But one thing is for sure,street smart can’t be taught in class

Mmaduise:
It's not a problem bro.
Sex urge is normal. If you have made enough to get married,then go ahead. U suppose dey thank God say u dey have sex urge. Whatever those that don't maybe from infection or inherited disease?

you no read the write up??