Pweety4me:

^^^But don't you get to know her first?or u just go for it?i mean this background info your talking about how reliable is it?

moonraker:

The background info in question would be gotten from her or from her peers.

When i get her contact info and we talk extensively for like 5times, then i did make

up my mind whether or not i did go further.

Pweety4me:

^^That makes sense, but what if she ends up seeing you just as a 'friend' and nothing beyond that?

I don't get it bro, what exactly r u looking 4?and what really can u get from a 5mins convo when it's some1 u barely know?

Kelvinj:

well it goes like this, first we're friends then we be came lovers. u have 2 be friends before u take anything 2 the next level, so no specific time frame

Pweety4me:

^^That makes sense, but what if she ends up seeing you just as a 'friend' and nothing beyond that?

moonraker:


Actually, if you take a look at my last sentence, you did discover that i said something like 5 times (Extentively). those five times in question can come randomly

but the earlier, the better, Makes sense??

Pweety4me:

I mean i got engaged in a very interesting and eye-opening convo with a friend last nite and he told me that he needed to LOVE a girl before taking things to another level, he believes when you love someone that you will tolerate a lot of things from them and that he doesn't see the point of asking a girl out if he just 'likes' or 'fancys' her he thinks those are just based on vanity like their looks and it wouldn't last.

He made some other points that i really benefited from, they actually made a lot of sense to me and i thought it was very insightful.It just made me think of so-call 'relationships' of nowadays and how people ave created their own defintions crazy. Well i also discussed my points about his perspective of things but i think all in all he made a lot of sense.


So what is your opinion guys?

What would drive you to ask a girl out?

Girls what would you make you accept a guys proposal to be his partner?as in a RELATIONSHIP in the sense of the word.

Pweety4me. Sweeery i ask a chick out only when i need punnny. By the way, can I date you?

Tosinville:

your friendship shouldn't be more than 2weeks o! before u ask her out cos if u delay things she'll end up seeing you as friend.

toba:

Within ten minutes conversation

Pweety4me:

^^Yes boss!

Really?why so?

LesbianBoy:

Toba, bro was that meant to be a joke, i didnt find that funny and am sure other Nl members reading this didnt as well

ismaeel86:

It depends on the chemistry.

Orikinla:

It depends on what I want in the babe.

If I want a fling, I will not waste time at all to ask her out and have her and close the chapter.
But if she has more to offer to me intellectually and professionally, I will be patient with her since I want a long term relationship.

The first physical contact with a Nairalander was the same evening we made love.

It depends on what the guy wants in a babe.

A short sentence or a life sentence.