My elder bro just got married and today he sat me down and lectured me that it is time I make move and get married.

Personally I'm a freak for sex with ladies
I'm a natural playboy and the thought of getting married is doing me somehow.
My big bro senior me with 2 years and now he has married and me I'm still waiting for the "Right One"

I don't have a high salary to maintain a family
But my big bro has sworn to support me only if i take marriage serious.

What should I do?
Should I go ahead and find a decent girl to marry since my big bro said he will sponsor everything for me?

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Don't let him convince or force you into marrying



I give your brother up to 2 years in his marriage after that ask him his experience so far


How many time we gonna let u know that marriage only favours ladies, while it nothing than hindrance to men

Please don't get in anything that is related to marriage.

Jeon:
Please don't get in anything that is related to marriage.

I'm so confused

Lol

Tell him u will marry at his own age.

Rush in I pray u don rush out

He has no right to tell you to get married just because he himself got married, you will get married at your own time when you're ready even if you'd be 40 years old.

I really don't get why some people like pressuring others to do the same thing as them, next thing when you end up getting married to the wrong woman out of pressure, he won't be there to share the stress with you.

He should mind his marriage and let you do you, and marriage is not for everyone.

Do by your wishes, not someone else own

JackDaAlienz:
My elder bro just got married and today he sat me down and lectured me that it is time I make move and get married.

Personally I'm a freak for sex with ladies
I'm a natural playboy and the thought of getting married is doing me somehow.
My big bro senior me with 2 years and now he has married and me I'm still waiting for the "Right One"

I don't have a high salary to maintain a family
But my big bro has sworn to support me only if i take marriage serious.

What should I do?
Should I go ahead and find a decent girl to marry since my big bro said he will sponsor everything for me?

@ bolded

If you're not financially buyouant for now, it's best you remain single. I've seen people who the church paid every penny for them to get married, from the girls bride price to the refreshments at the reception.

But reality dawned on them when they got home, obviously the church wouldn't feed you and your wife, neither would they take care of your kids. Most of them have become wife beaters due to frustration and depression.

I know your brother means well for you, but if things aren't level discard his advice for now.

There's more to marriage than a sponsored wedding.

JackDaAlienz:
My elder bro just got married and today he sat me down and lectured me that it is time I make move and get married.

Personally I'm a freak for sex with ladies
I'm a natural playboy and the thought of getting married is doing me somehow.
My big bro senior me with 2 years and now he has married and me I'm still waiting for the "Right One"

I don't have a high salary to maintain a family
But my big bro has sworn to support me only if i take marriage serious.

What should I do?
Should I go ahead and find a decent girl to marry since my big bro said he will sponsor everything for me?

If your finances are not in shape, wait and improve it to the point you're sure you can support another adult and baby. Just forget what your brother said. And for 30, you're still young, you're not a woman, I'm older than your elder brother by far. I'm not even disturbed because I won't destroy my current lifestyle to have kids.

Marriage alone is not an easy thing, without sufficient money, it will quickly become hell and premature death is not far away unless you want to bail.

Samantha123:
He has no right to tell you to get married just because he himself got married, you will get married at your own time when you're ready even if you'd be 40 years old.

I really don't get why some people like pressuring others to do the same thing as them, next thing when you end up getting married to the wrong woman out of pressure, he won't be there to share the stress with you.

He should mind his marriage and let you do you, and marriage is not for everyone.

Are.you alright at all , even if his 40.

Guy you better listen to your bro, and look for a decent girl and get married, don't marry a girl, with body counts more than 3 maximum.

Dude, marriage is not a must. A man must focus more on money and achievements.

What if marriage is not for him?

Even if he gets married to the so called decent woman, as long as he'll be doing it out of pressure, the whole thing may end up in tears and the unfortunate part is that you won't be there to console him.

toujurs:
Are.you alright at all , even if his 40.

Guy you better listen to your bro, and look for a decent girl and get married, don't marry a girl, with body counts more than 3 maximum.

That your brother that is rushing you to get married doesn’t love you. He doesn’t mean well for you.

JackDaAlienz:
My elder bro just got married and today he sat me down and lectured me that it is time I make move and get married.

Personally I'm a freak for sex with ladies
I'm a natural playboy and the thought of getting married is doing me somehow.
My big bro senior me with 2 years and now he has married and me I'm still waiting for the "Right One"

I don't have a high salary to maintain a family
But my big bro has sworn to support me only if i take marriage serious.

What should I do?
Should I go ahead and find a decent girl to marry since my big bro said he will sponsor everything for me?

The bolded is my problem here, not even the marriage. So he will sponsor your wedding, will he sponsor the marriage and your home as well? When you start having children, will he sponsor their feeding, school fees and other household expenses? I hate marriage but the part that he promised to sponsor you really got me pissed off. Tomorrow now when his wife doesn't support the idea, everybody will start calling her bad wife not realizing that she is only trying to protect her own home from going bankrupt because her husband is foolish enough to bring in an undeserved expenses into their home.

Samantha123:
What if marriage is not for him?

Even if he gets married to the so called decent woman, as long as he'll be doing it out of pressure, the whole thing may end up in tears and the unfortunate part is that you won't be there to console him.

Haba who gave you guys this horrible orientation, Marriage is for everyone. Most marriages that crash, there was no purpose, it was just a marriage of selfish interest.

You guys should stop being influenced by celebrity marriage.

Define your own marriage, and let it be built on love,respect and discipline.

Marriage is for everyone. And compulsory for everyone, God looked at adam, and said No you deserve eve. You guys should rest with all these your concoction adoption about marriage

toujurs:
Haba who give you guys this horrible orientation, Marriage is for everyone. Most marriages that crash, there was no purpose, it was just a marriage of selfish interest.

You guys should stop being influenced by celebrity marriage.

Define your own marriage, and let it be built on love,respect and discipline.

Marriage is for everyone. And compulsory for everyone, God looked at adam, and said No you deserve eve. You guys should rest with all these your concoction adoption about marriage

Bullshit!

MARRIAGE IS NOT A MUST! Go and preach marriage to your church members.

If u don't have any tangible source of income run away from marriage.


U will regret it bro

Samantha123:
What if marriage is not for him?

Even if he gets married to the so called decent woman, as long as he'll be doing it out of pressure, the whole thing may end up in tears and the unfortunate part is that you won't be there to console him.

Stop having a discourse with that guy. Not everyone is logical.

Marriage is not for everyone, the same way as religion.

You're reasoning based on your own religious belief and you shouldn't expect others to have the same ideology as yours.

If you want to preach, go to church or to the religious section.

toujurs:
Haba who give you guys this horrible orientation, Marriage is for everyone. Most marriages that crash, there was no purpose, it was just a marriage of selfish interest.

You guys should stop being influenced by celebrity marriage.

Define your own marriage, and let it be built on love,respect and discipline.

Marriage is for everyone. And compulsory for everyone, God looked at adam, and said No you deserve eve. You guys should rest with all these your concoction adoption about marriage

JackDaAlienz:
My elder bro just got married and today he sat me down and lectured me that it is time I make move and get married.

Personally I'm a freak for sex with ladies
I'm a natural playboy and the thought of getting married is doing me somehow.
My big bro senior me with 2 years and now he has married and me I'm still waiting for the "Right One"

I don't have a high salary to maintain a family
But my big bro has sworn to support me only if i take marriage serious.

What should I do?
Should I go ahead and find a decent girl to marry since my big bro said he will sponsor everything for me?

Wait a little ,your elder bro will soon be coming to you to complain about one thing or the other about marital life ,at 30 you can try anyway

By the time ur brother go see pepper for that girl hand, him brain go format. Infact in 2years time you will be shocked how she has mess your brother's life up.

9ja girls never love and they will never love.

Infact, they are as useless as used tissue paper. All of them

Samantha123:
Marriage is not for everyone, the same way as religion.

You're reasoning based on your own religious belief and you shouldn't expect others to have the same ideology as yours.

If you want to preach, go to church or to the religious section.

Marriage isn't but fucking is right?

JackDaAlienz:
My elder bro just got married and today he sat me down and lectured me that it is time I make move and get married.

Personally I'm a freak for sex with ladies
I'm a natural playboy and the thought of getting married is doing me somehow.
My big bro senior me with 2 years and now he has married and me I'm still waiting for the "Right One"

I don't have a high salary to maintain a family
But my big bro has sworn to support me only if i take marriage serious.

What should I do?
Should I go ahead and find a decent girl to marry since my big bro said he will sponsor everything for me?

sworn lol goodluck

You were just talking about God, Adam and Eve, but now you're swearing.. is that Godly according to you? A so called Christian that uses swear words?

toujurs:
Marriage isn't but fucking is right?

Samantha123:
You were just talking about God, Adam and Eve, but now you're swearing.. is that Godly according to you? A so called Christian that uses swear words?

When i say fucking, i mean sex, it's not a swear word.

If marriage isn't compulsory, Is having sex same, like copulation . It's a question.

Following like tail...



I'm on the same boat with Op, the different is that, I don't have a big brother.

Though I believe when one is not financially independent, he shouldn't think of bringing woman to the house.
I pray everything work well, so that by this time next year, I will be financially independent and settle down peacefully and happily.

don't let the pressure get to you

Samantha123:
He has no right to tell you to get married just because he himself got married, you will get married at your own time when you're ready even if you'd be 40 years old.

I really don't get why some people like pressuring others to do the same thing as them, next thing when you end up getting married to the wrong woman out of pressure, he won't be there to share the stress with you.

He should mind his marriage and let you do you, and marriage is not for everyone.

See let me tell you something Weda he marries late or early as u said doesnt guarantee having a solid marriage see it by the grace of God na oluwa dey run am

How do u even know the right woman? No Woman is the right woman na till u wife Dem na dah one b d koko

The way the OP is saying is making it look as if he his being forced,it's a normal discussion the OP is looking out on how he will be missing hitting different kpekus na dey him wahala dey now.

You should have just said sex.

Sex is a natural thing for all adults.

toujurs:
When i say fucking, i mean sex, it's not a swear word.

If marriage isn't compulsory, Is having sex same, like copulation . It's a question.

JackDaAlienz:
My elder bro just got married and today he sat me down and lectured me that it is time I make move and get married.

Personally I'm a freak for sex with ladies
I'm a natural playboy and the thought of getting married is doing me somehow.
My big bro senior me with 2 years and now he has married and me I'm still waiting for the "Right One"

I don't have a high salary to maintain a family
But my big bro has sworn to support me only if i take marriage serious.

What should I do?
Should I go ahead and find a decent girl to marry since my big bro said he will sponsor everything for me?

So all these things Guys have been hammering on Nairaland never sink abiiii
To get a Good and respectful Lady now, you need streetlight to search for them in the broad daylight. Better be careful so you don't exhaust the little money you have saved on the wicked one. Don't you want to make more money?

Invest that wedding money on something more rewarding and meaningful