TRUTHaDDICTED:
Assuming I didn't know you're married I would have just proposed

Whoknowsme:
Thanks. To think she's my gender and speaking in that manner is a disgrace too. I hope she hears also.

Whoknowsme:
I'm not married yet but it's a height of insult to the female gender to have these kind of entitled entity.
The painful one is the quote that the boyfriend has the responsibility to take care of her. Where does that happen?

Blessedmercy8:
I don't see anything wrong in what the girl did or said. She already appreciated the 5k and asked for money for shopping, and the guy is busy talking like a chatter box because he sent 5k.

The guy is the one at fault here. Shey because you sent someone a meager 5k that can not even buy a decent sandal, make the girl no talk again or make every body be on standstill? Abeg!

See how he's even talking anyhow because of 5k. No be men dey send ordinary girlfriend 200k commot eyes? How much more someone you want to marry. It's this kid of men that will give their wife 500 naira for pot of soup and be expecting it to last one week with chicken and orisirisi inside soup. Baby girl, leave him. You go see better man.

No matter the pressure, don't marry a stingy or poor man. Abeg I'm out of here.

IMAliyu2:
I don't get it?

So correct me if I'm wrong,
The Guy sent 5k to the girl as a Christmas gift, but the girl is requesting for more to buy clothes and hair.
The Guy is taking offense from this because he perceives this as her being ungrateful, because he doesn't feel obligated to send her the money in the first place, or he feels the exchange in the relationship is one sided and she doesn't do enough for him to justify spending more on her.

This dating wahala.

IMAliyu2:
Ok, now that I've reread the conversation, I'm going to have to side with the guy here, considering he communicated that, that 5k was all he had to give at the time and doesn't have more.

If they intent to get married and share the rest of their lives by each other, the girl should at least be aware of his occupation and financial habits and situation.
If she doesn't like it and wants more, relationships aren't by force, she can leave him and attempt to find someone that has more, is willing to spend more on her.

The girl seems to be in a mind space where she believes she's entitled anything if just asks for it. But as an adult, you should understand there is more to that, and if a person says they don't have, understand their situation, and try and make your own money to not have to be dependent on someone for your needs.

Blessedmercy8:
I don't see anything wrong in what the girl did or said. She already appreciated the 5k and asked for money for shopping, and the guy is busy talking like a chatter box because he sent 5k.

The guy is the one at fault here. Shey because you sent someone a meager 5k that can not even buy a decent sandal, make the girl no talk again or make every body be on standstill? Abeg!

See how he's even talking anyhow because of 5k. No be men dey send ordinary girlfriend 200k commot eyes? How much more someone you want to marry. It's this kid of men that will give their wife 500 naira for pot of soup and be expecting it to last one week with chicken and orisirisi inside soup. Baby girl, leave him. You go see better man.

No matter the pressure, don't marry a stingy or poor man. Abeg I'm out of here.

Neetyboyabram:
The guy really try because nigeria today is already corrupted by president buhari

Blessedmercy8:
I don't see anything wrong in what the girl did or said. She already appreciated the 5k and asked for money for shopping, and the guy is busy talking like a chatter box because he sent 5k.

The guy is the one at fault here. Shey because you sent someone a meager 5k that can not even buy a decent sandal, make the girl no talk again or make every body be on standstill? Abeg!

See how he's even talking anyhow because of 5k. No be men dey send ordinary girlfriend 200k commot eyes? How much more someone you want to marry. It's this kid of men that will give their wife 500 naira for pot of soup and be expecting it to last one week with chicken and orisirisi inside soup. Baby girl, leave him. You go see better man.

No matter the pressure, don't marry a stingy or poor man. Abeg I'm out of here.

Whoknowsme:
You must be her co-mate. It's your type that goes about making other decent and appreciative ladies Look the same like you. That's why you and your kind will continue to be tossed about.
To think you're my gender is an insult too.
No man other tan your father or husband is your responsibility pls.

Blessedmercy8:


The girl was not ungrateful. She said she already appreciated the guy and the guy just kept going on and on like a parrot. Na the girl no get mouth. If na me, the thing wen I for tell the guy eh.... he go cry

GoooodHardDick:


Honestly, You must be a fo0l with an entitlement mentality.

What makes you think you're entitled to a man's money? Are you mad? Is he your father or your husband? Sense fall on you there

Blessedmercy8:

benqo01:
Who is that guy Dat do say nigerian girls are useless?you re absolutely right sorry for doubting u

GoooodHardDick:


This one dey call blessedmercy8 is worst bro. U no see her comment for 1st page?

GoooodHardDick:


Comrade go to any bar, collect anything in my name I'll pay. The Olosho called blessedmercy8 doesn't want to work but depends on a man for survival

benqo01:


I SEE AM I BIN NO EXPECT ANYTHING SENSIBLE

TRUTHaDDICTED:
Ok who knows if my name will be on the list of those Nairalanders who have testified here
Do you have access to the email link of this your Monika?

Whoknowsme:
I'm a lady and it's so saddening and an insult to say that ladies like these are the ones making the good ones look the same with them.

GoooodHardDick:


Honestly, Ladies like blessedmercy8 is the reason why most of us guys always bash ladies on nairaland. Just imagine the daftness and the level of her entitlement mentality.

I sincerely think you should teach and educate her so she can get rid of this her entitlement mentality. Tell her only her parents and her husband is responsible for taking care of her. Let her Stop being a liability and a parasite.

Blessedmercy8:


Stingy man, na Dem. They can't part with more than 5k.
FYI, I don't depend on any man but God and my income from a legit source. I work very hard to avoid men like you talking trash to me because of money I burn at a sitting.

I gift people that amount without flinching. Na God.

Whoknowsme:
I've met some ladies like blessedmercy8 who are not ready to take advice from anyone but only wants to act on their own advice.
I have one as a friend who says she will never marry an average man but a rich man who can take care of her. I've tried to dissuade her from such thoughts but to no avail.
I can't even remember the last year my dad gave me money or the last month my bf gave me money. I have the responsibility of taking care of myself and not relying on any man other than my dad or husband.
As for ladies like blessedmercy8, she'll only learn when she marries a man who lies about his wealth to her. Those kind of ladies are far from repentance.

Silentgroper:
Aunty, xmas don almost near. Mke i drop aza?

TRUTHaDDICTED:
The money in your account, minus all the one you got through men, how much balance do you have that's actually your genuine money? Can you also tell us one thing you have ever given to your man(that's if you have any right now) apart from sxc

GoooodHardDick:


People like that have nothing bro. We know her types very well. Such girls are very quick to call a guy broke while them their selves are depending on men for survival

Blessedmercy8:


Stingy man, na Dem. They can't part with more than 5k.
FYI, I don't depend on any man but God and my income from a legit source. I work very hard to avoid men like you talking trash to me because of money I burn at a sitting.

I gift people that amount without flinching. Na God.

Whoknowsme:
I've met some ladies like blessedmercy8 who are not ready to take advice from anyone but only wants to act on their own advice.
I have one as a friend who says she will never marry an average man but a rich man who can take care of her. I've tried to dissuade her from such thoughts but to no avail.
I can't even remember the last year my dad gave me money or the last month my bf gave me money. I have the responsibility of taking care of myself and not relying on any man other than my dad or husband.
As for ladies like blessedmercy8, she'll only learn when she marries a man who lies about his wealth to her. Those kind of ladies are far from repentance.

imadiyi:

Thank you, jare', how is your day?

Whoknowsme:
My day was good. Hope you had an awesome day?