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Re: My Mother Lie And How It Helped my mental health by Hunter0007: 1:36pm On Jan 03, 2023
Just Thank God for the kind of mother you have, Else you will have end up like the like of Virginprincess, Siofra and the likes.

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Re: My Mother Lie And How It Helped my mental health by diogo23: 1:42pm On Jan 03, 2023
Eyinju112:
Were you told same lie too?
Why are you calling it lie? You want to give a man waste product?
Re: My Mother Lie And How It Helped my mental health by DonroxyII: 8:26pm On Jan 06, 2023
Eyinju112:
Were you told same lie too?
My Mother told me if I have Sexual intercourse I would Contact Obesity and she showed me an Obese Dude in my street that Dude usually Scare Me . . she said I would be like that dude if I have sex

I used to think most Obese are those that have had sex !
Re: My Mother Lie And How It Helped my mental health by Thrombosis: 9:59pm On Jan 06, 2023
Eyinju112:
while I was growing, my mother told me if I allow a man see my private part I’d
get pregnant, and if I get pregnant she’d throw me out to the street to suffer, and during the suffering she’d deny me access to see her, my father and my brother. That was a hell of punishment I thought to myself, knowing fully well my mom is a disciplinary I never questioned her words. I got to secondary school still carrying that mentality until my teacher said a different thing......that you can only get pregnant after sex and if the opposite sex cum inside of you. I wasn’t sure who was lying because I saw my mother as a saint and the way she beats I and my elder brother whenever we told a lie, then I concluded my teacher was the liar until I was 15 and in SS2. A very close friend of mine got disflowered, she narrated how it happened and I told her confidently she was gonna get pregnant, I think I’m out of the box lol...that’s another gist lol
So back to my point, I don’t know if I’m correct with using every ladies but I’d say 90% of ladies were given same orientation my mother gave to me. Our mothers made us see sex as a whole big deal, my mother questions my virginity all the time, we saw it as something precious we could ever give to anyone. That is why a woman feels so bitter and angry towards herself after giving her body in a relationship and getting dumped. Infact some hate the men they once loved and if possible they’d wanna harm the guy because they feel cheated. It’s not our fault we’re like that, our mothers planted that mentality in our head to keep us safe. Perhaps the western mothers didn’t do that to their kiddos, that’s why they’re like that and we’re like this. Ain’t saying you must be a virgin oooo. My point here is not virginity but our mentality towards sex..

I know my gender have messed this whole thing up and have made it look like it’s only the body we have to give, if we women can take sex out of the table and bring same energy the men gives, if he buys you gifts buy him gifts too, if he spends on you please spend back, all of this can be possible if you are set to work, women have a higher chances of getting job than men, women makes it well in every industry than men. The sex thing should be a voluntary thing, when you both are up for it, not because he’s giving you money you must give him sex, that’s a big mess and you won’t stop crying of being used if you don’t stop that nonsense... This is a new year, we can do better.. engage in something that keeps you busy and fetch you money, look for jobs, you have a better Chance of getting a good job, when you work hard for your money without your body being attached to it then you can earn every respect back.


Happy new year fellas

I will not be surprised if you are either married or in a serious relationship.
Every good lady and virgins (very sure) around me are engaged or in a serious relationship. Some guys have 3 eyes sha..

As for me
Non virgin = friends

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Re: My Mother Lie And How It Helped my mental health by Konquest: 5:59pm On Jan 07, 2023
Eyinju112:
while I was growing, my mother told me if I allow a man see my private part I’d
get pregnant, and if I get pregnant she’d throw me out to the street to suffer, and during the suffering she’d deny me access to see her, my father and my brother. That was a hell of punishment I thought to myself, knowing fully well my mom is a disciplinary I never questioned her words. I got to secondary school still carrying that mentality until my teacher said a different thing......that you can only get pregnant after sex and if the opposite sex cum inside of you. I wasn’t sure who was lying because I saw my mother as a saint and the way she beats I and my elder brother whenever we told a lie, then I concluded my teacher was the liar until I was 15 and in SS2. A very close friend of mine got disflowered, she narrated how it happened and I told her confidently she was gonna get pregnant
, I think I’m out of the box lol...that’s another gist lol

So back to my point, I don’t know if I’m correct with using every ladies but I’d say 90% of ladies were given same orientation my mother gave to me. Our mothers made us see sex as a whole big deal, my mother questions my virginity all the time, we saw it as something precious we could ever give to anyone. That is why a woman feels so bitter and angry towards herself after giving her body in a relationship and getting dumped. In fact some hate the men they once loved and if possible they’d wanna harm the guy because they feel cheated. It’s not our fault we’re like that, our mothers planted that mentality in our head to keep us safe. Perhaps the western mothers didn’t do that to their kiddos, that’s why they’re like that and we’re like this. Ain’t saying you must be a virgin oooo. My point here is not virginity but our mentality towards sex..

I know my gender have messed this whole thing up and have made it look like it’s only the body we have to give, if we women can take sex out of the table and bring same energy the men gives, if he buys you gifts buy him gifts too, if he spends on you please spend back, all of this can be possible if you are set to work, women have a higher chances of getting job than men, women makes it well in every industry than men. The sex thing should be a voluntary thing, when you both are up for it, not because he’s giving you money you must give him sex, that’s a big mess and you won’t stop crying of being used if you don’t stop that nonsense... This is a new year, we can do better.. engage in something that keeps you busy and fetch you money, look for jobs, you have a better Chance of getting a good job, when you work hard for your money without your body being attached to it then you can earn every respect back.


Happy new year fellas
Insightful. wink

Most girls who were raised by their mothers like that become experimenters of s3x with the opposite gender on discovering the sudden truth about s3x and pregnancy in high school or college.

It's better for mothers to let their girls know the truth and the real consequencies of random sex and
STDs from ages 11 or 12 instead of speaking in metaphors. Lol.

Females without parental presence come out worse, becoming teenage mothers or unmarried with children in their 20s.

They get burned badly after being ditched and run from one crappy affair to the other.

Taking care of a girl to adulthood can be tough. Few girls get it right though.

Sex is a normal pattern in nature without which our species would be extinct. Period.

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Re: My Mother Lie And How It Helped my mental health by Eyinju112(f): 9:06am On Jan 08, 2023
Hahaha funny though grin
DonroxyII:
My Mother told me if I have Sexual intercourse I would Contact Obesity and she showed me an Obese Dude in my street that Dude usually Scare Me . . she said I would be like that dude if I have sex

I used to think most Obese are those that have had sex !

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