Hmmmm...My long distance bf go clubbing every saturday...even 2day i asked him in d afternoon abt his plans for weekend but he only said everywhere good n neva given me any specific response.
Do u guys tink he will change this lifestyle if we have baby?

Hmm guys,why fightin under my post?I was thinkin ill get some response instead of 419 posts n fights lol,

BabyOku2022:
Hmm guys,why fightin under my post?I was thinkin ill get some response instead of 419 posts n fights lol,

Youth exuberance.

Be the good woman, let him know your plans and if it does not fit into yours for a period of time, don't sleep on it, GBERA.

Your future, joy and happiness belongs to you and don't ever give to know on platter of gold.

The issue is i think I passed dat stage in my life of clubbing every weekend,i already have a pikin But dey Wit dis guy in long distance rship.
Is killin me dat every weekend he go out 2 naija club n yea he drink quite much beer(like 7 bottles every day).cos 4me I only go club Wit him when we meet n i dnt drink at all.
Im afraid if I voice out my feelings he go say i try 2 control am n be jst vex wit me.
On top of dat Im 2000 km away from him...
I cant Stop cryin cos yesterday afternoon when I asked him abt his weekend plans he neva replied me wella,he only said everywhere good n jst dismissed my qst.
Then later at 9t I happened 2 see am n his homeboy in my dream dat they were Wit some girls in d club n when dis mornin I told my guy abt it he say my dreams vex am n i should stop dreamin such dreams.but I cant program ma dreams,can I?
And yea Wat make me also worried is dat he say he wanna tink of future 4 us so I shuldnt come visit him 4 his bday next month.
Yet he will be goin out every weekend 2 club,spend on shayo n do money shower there when is some celebration there.
Wetin dey sup Wit dat boy?
I no dey fine,jst dunno wetin I go do...

Japa

Ok so u mean I shuld 4get am??there aint no luv from his side?

Its a habit, you either learn to leave with it or let him go. you can't change him, unless he sees the need to change by himself

Hmmm ok I hear u