kistehsia:

@cexplorer

I did post earlier on, I am white and I am older then my Man, He pursued me till I agreed to a relationship, never being pushy always being kind. I was a little concerned with the age gap and my being the one that is older, however with his patients and perseverance he won over. He is of the opinion that it is none of any ones business what our relationship is or about. We both feel that no matter what path in life you choose there will always be someone who isn't going to like. You have but one life to live and you need to live it for yourself. It is fine to ask some input on your situation but at the end of the you need to ask yourself what it is that YOU truly want, what makes you happy, above all this there needs to be respect between the two of you regardless of the age gap and her being the older of the two she still needs to respect you as head of the house and relationship. It is the way it has been and should be for many years. And you need to care for her and cherish her like no other if this is to be your choice.

Hope this helps!

kistehsia

Obinoscopy:

Its totally wrong to marry a girl older than you. The reasons are:

1) Women are always very particular about age. They don't respect men that are younger than them. That explains the reason why there is always rivalry between a girl and her younger brothers

2) Women age faster than men. If you marry a girl than is 2 years older than you, as time progresses it will appear as if she is 10 years older than you! There will even be a time when everyone will think she's your mother!

Its totally not OK to marry a woman who is your mate or who is older unless you are ready to bear the consequences. A man ideally should marry a girl that he seniors with not less than 3 - 5 years.

kistehsia:

@cexplorer

Thank you for the good wishes, I hope my story sheds light on the positive side of things, I love my Man dearly and he I!  That is the most important part of a relationship, genuine love, not infatuation, solid love with respect, trust, communication, and care for one another.

kistehsia

@TYM:

Looking @ this issue psychologically, the lady n question hv invested so much n u, i want to admonish u to settle with her amicably cos know u hv deceived her, pls tell her u hv been deceiving her and beg her ,  Take your mum and your siblings and beg her. Because it is unfair for u to dump her after sleeping with her and spending her money. If she curses u Unclad it will work. u know u dont like her bt u r bound by her commitments so go make restitution! I wish u goodluck!

joe4christ:

Man,
Sincerely if u marry this girl your own don finish be that,
That is to say (YOU'RE A GUNNER)

sley4life:

Thank you all for your comments. I feel more relieved. I have tried explaining to her but she fails to understand. I told her not to threaten me with marriage. A man has his time to get married not someone giving him a deadline for marriage because she is older than him

sley4life: Nairalanders, i have been pondering a lot lately. I have a Girl friend two years older than me. She is in her early 30's. She is on my neck I should get married to her else she skins me alive. My question is : Is it right to marry someone older than you? Be it love or whatever. She has promised to go nak.ed & swear if I don't propose to her

Oghalechic: Sweety, trust me, go ahead and marry her if you truelly love her.