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Should Our Partners Gain Our Trust Or Should We Just Trust Them? by VCKY99(m): 5:29pm On Aug 30, 2007
I don't know if this is normal. Are we suppose to just trust people or are they suppose to win our trust? Personally, I get to trust people by their actions, but the last girl I went out with thinks otherwise. She said since she trust me, then I should trust her too. Is that the right thing?
Re: Should Our Partners Gain Our Trust Or Should We Just Trust Them? by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 5:39pm On Aug 30, 2007

I am a very trusting person by nature, because I carry myself in a trustworthy manner,  as well, I try always give the person the benefit of trust before doubt,  until their words or action goes against what they are telling me. Once red flags goes up, they have pretty much lost my trust.  When trust is lost, how can we build love?   You said that you trust people by their actions, and from the tone of your words, has her actions put her in a position to be asking that you trust her?  People can not hide from their true selves,,  so go with your gut instince, either you can trust her or not,  Tho it really is something that is earned ,, you should start building upon it from the beginning ,

love & light.


Re: Should Our Partners Gain Our Trust Or Should We Just Trust Them? by iice(f): 6:02pm On Aug 30, 2007
Trust is earned!
Re: Should Our Partners Gain Our Trust Or Should We Just Trust Them? by pterygott(f): 6:06pm On Aug 30, 2007
relationships are built on trust. and I dont see how 2 people can begin a relationship without first trusting each other by default
Re: Should Our Partners Gain Our Trust Or Should We Just Trust Them? by fizzybaba(m): 3:07pm On Aug 18, 2010
both

contradictory? yeah

u can trust people by letting them know u trust

not neceesarily because you have found a basis to do so, but u 'trust' them still until eventually when you now find a reason to trust them

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