stevups:


Your own is better...I used to beg my own seriously in the middle of the night...to the extent that my neighbor will be laughing.

And you are here opening your mouth wah wah with no iota of shame? A woman you married, prostrated for and paid bride price on, house and feed everyday, dey dribble you on top your entitlement to the extent your neighbour used your night cries as comedy melody or AY live Ojuelegba series and you still no get shame? WTF!!

Haaaaaaa...God of heaven!!! When we say get the red pill to save you, you will say *make money o* as if money makes a woman love you. I won't be surprised that another guy, her ex, dey lash her brutally while you do night vigil of begging.


Men, Wake dafuq UP!!!

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

Only two reasons.

Either you don't know how to do it or she is a coded Lesbian.

Check well, does she like lesbian porn, does she have a female bestie? Investigate carefully because no amount of pre-intimacy from a man can turn a lesbian on.

luminouz:

Kuki tell him to spend 3 hours on top pussy. Instead of you to tell the woman to up her game, na still the man you dey blame....

Abeg, shift

From my post, did you see any blame on the guy? I only asked him question as a guide to my advise.
Anyway, I guess you are still single and do not understand certain things as relating to the issue at hand.

Life is too short for Unnecessary Drama...
Always get your choice from the market, before going home. No let traders influence your choice, some men specifically love and married their wife because of the way she ride them so well...We all were in your shoes and we choosed wisely in that area and discarded the rest...
Just why you hear gossipers say 'this guy a dey follow fine girls too when him single , him wife no even too fine self '
Deep down in you,you know why .lol

kween01:
Based on your description of things, I guess she was cirumcised.
So, you'll really need to study her body language, also, try and play with her clit... Don't try to rush sex. Take it mildly, say sweet things. Follow her love language if you know it. And now that she's pregnant, research on styles that will be comfortable for pregnant women.
It might help.

I've been with circumcised women and saying they don't enjoy sex is fallacy developed by many women to weasel their way out of pleasing men they married for their resources that they absolutely detest.

A woman has more than 5 erogenous zones in her body. Apart from the clitoris, she has the center of gravity and A-spot. Don't let me get started on places like her earlobes, her neck(throat region) and her neck nape. Or the rib region or is it the nipples?

In my experience, women without clitoris have other weak zones that get them up and firing. Their nipples are very sensitive and their earlobes too. And once they get wet, it's now left to you to make sure you reach their G- and A-spots to get them to cum. They are as active as other women.

Mental and psychological trauma are more likely to affect women more than circumcision. And INTEREST.

ONCE A WOMAN DOESNT FIND YOU SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE, A BOTTLE OF COKE WILL FREEZE IN HELL BEFORE SHE ENJOYS SEX WITH YOU

Mindlog:
What do you want to be told?

Ask am oo ask am abeg what do you want to be told Mr man

alizma:

From my post, did you see any blame on the guy? I only asked him question as a guide to my advise.
Anyway, I guess you are still single and do not understand certain things as relating to the issue at hand.

Why ask him if he lasts? Na compliment?

Pele o...marriage counselor because you don marry!!

She's a doctor. Just forget it. God saved me from this very bullet. They are mentally traumatized. Just forget it. They don't feel it. Its part of the profession. Emotionally dead. Go for a nurse next time. Those ones are addicts

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

Hmmm . Seriously u have to endure it ... Nothing can change that

Xturf:
She's a doctor. Just forget it. God saved me from this very bullet. They are mentally traumatized. Just forget it. They don't feel it. Its part of the profession. Emotionally dead. Go for a nurse next time. Those ones are addicts

Wrong again!!

Profession has no role on sexual interests. It's the nurses that should even be celibate based on your reasoning but nope. Those ones are workhorses and then sexhorses. Nothing sexier than a nurse who just covered a dead body at the hospital coming home, washing all that grime,blood and death off her body and snuggling close to you, starting a B.J.and fucking your brains out. They see life as meant to be lived, not endured. That OP wife is a doctor has nothing whatsoever with her sex drive.It is who she is, not about what she does.

EkoErrands:


You are sucking nipple and you are the one thrusting. If u suck her thumb she will be the one thrusting. Try it and see the difference.

Any hand to be sucked specially or any one?

Foodqueen:
That you do pre-intimacy doesn't mean you do it right.

Talk to her about your sex life.

bad female

You will not get it right always...
Learn to live with that.....
She's gonna give you wat she has and vice versa.....

Explore her true beauty and you'll see that sex is sacred and not really wat you need....
You may find that connection.

If all said doesn't come to pass... you're just as human as can be

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

Marriage wahala...

Make her see a sex therapist

luminouz:


Why ask him if he lasts? Na compliment?

Pele o...marriage counselor because you don marry!!

Now I understand you better. People like you pick offence when asked " are you alright" ? A simple question that demand simple yes or no.
Sorry we are not in the same page, please swerve.

Ladies these days marry for different reasons. You might not be her type of guy but because age is not on her side and probably her female siblings are all married she agrees to marry you... she probably don’t find you attractive enough for pleasurable sex... you will never get that from her... you should expect it to worsen after child birth.

Persephone1:
I do not intend to be a bearer of bad news but I have to let you know that all these may still not work on a woman who is or maybe sexually dead.

To some this goes beyond physical but psychological while in some cases it is natural. It is not everyone that will like or enjoy or want to have sex every 5 minutes. The best is for hope to talk to his wife, understand her, visit a sex therapist together and strike a balance. Then she shouldn't treat sex with her husband as a duty but something pleasurable and exciting

corrected the slight error. 👌

My brother no be food we that are single nko! This is over two years I never sleep with woman and I no die! Baba no allow devil enter your marriage.

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

Kobojunkie, speaking of the devil 😂😂..

@Op, I don't understand "as much as i want,". Because, Unless na oloshi you keep for house, I've never seen any marriage where the man gets sex as much as he wants. High libido women are veey rare😁.
Anyway, like somebody has said, your wife puna not not be receiving any stimulus. Continuing to restrain your self will drive you mad one day.. So, better talk to her about alternatives. Hopefully your duties as "provider" are been met?

luminouz:

All this trouble for one round of sex?

Kuki kill him na

Lol bro the fear of cheating and bringing home infection is the beginning of learning massage therapy

Bear with her, remind her of the Church counseling and mentor her

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

I'm afraid there is little you can do. Since you were already aware of your sexual incompatibility why did you go ahead to marry her?

I think the problem is less of a sexual problem and more of a communication problem. You guys should talk about sex, it's frequency, positions, turnoffs, emotion b4 and after etc. The right information will determine the kind of help you need. Sex for a woman doesn't start in the bed room. It starts hours b4 the act, you use her love language and things she likes to build momentum for the act.

Stone03:


Any hand to be sucked specially or any one?

Thumb 👍 only...I don't know about other fingers.

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

Its like you have never heard of "Spanish fly".

You won't have to beg her for sex, infact She will rape you after taking it in a drink

Nazgul:
She's your wife, take her out, tease her, make her smile, talk dirty, understand her body language, talk to her, find out what turns her on...and I can assure you that you'll enjoy your sex life with her.

Don't just dive into bed with an erection and start struggling to shift her pants, she might not even be in the mood.

If his wife falls into the category of women who believes their vj is used only for peeing and having sex only when they try to conceive then not even ur suggestions can make her see sex as an act of pleasure. I'll advise him to dig deeper and find out if the girl truly loves him because that is the only thing that can remedy a situation like this

PPIA:

Its like you have never heard of "Spanish fly".

You won't have to beg her for sex, infact She will rape you after taking it in a drink

Please where can someone find such drink?

Are you just finding out about this.?

Oya

Assignment

Nazgul:
She's your wife, take her out, tease her, make her smile, talk dirty, understand her body language, talk to her, find out what turns her on...and I can assure you that you'll enjoy your sex life with her.

Don't just dive into bed with an erection and start struggling to shift her pants, she might not even be in the mood.

Calicoe:


Please where can someone find such drink?

I will not advice the use of aphrodisiac on your wife.

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

Are you normal? You had sex 10 times in 3 months and you are not okay. At least you got the minimum. Live with it

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

You got it all wrong from the beginning for overlooking the red flag, sex is a serious matter in marriage. Talk to your partner and be little more patients with her, avoid extramarital affairs as that will complicate things.