Hey my story is what people will never dream or even think about but it happened. Well i have been dating this lady for the past 1 year and 5 month to be presice, well she claims to be born againg and so sex was a no go area with both of us.

But as fate will have it way, went out and got a litle bit tipsy with some light champane which we thought will not be of any prblem untill we got home and started playing some romantic, you know what, so i got down to play the game, but there on i got to find the most shocking experience of my life.

I thought at first she was some kind of a witch, and ran away but until i let the story out to my Mum who now explain to me that there are some ladies with such problem. But am telling you all that i still love her and will do anything to help her out. Contact me and ell me what to do. Effi.

i thought at first she was some kind of a witch, and ran away



awwwwww it's sooooooooooo sweet of you to still love her and want to help her out
i think she will need to undertake an operation which is quiet expensive
all the best

This is the more reason why i think sex before marriage is a good thing. Anyway, that is another issue.

Bro, it depends on how rich you are or she is, cos cutting off that wanka is expensive. Plus the doctors have to determine which is dominant. They would not want to cut off the pe pe only to find out that everything else is wired like a man. But since she behaves and looks like a female, chances are the female part is dominant. I don't even know if naija has good enough facilities to perform such surgery.

My point is, surgery would solve the problem. Hope you got the dough.

Try and contact the former Nigerian female football team player that did the operation recently. Iyabo Abade was the name as a female player but she is now James Johnson.

Try and contact the former Nigerian female football team player that did the operation recently. Iyabo Abade was the name as a female player but she is now James Johnson.

what da!!!

What gets me is the deception. When was she planning to tell you? On your wedding night?! Then, Is she a hermaphrodite or a pre-operative transsexual? I don't think pre-marital sex is necessarily the answer but, in this day and age, these are the kind of scenarios that exist. I could deal with a hermaphrodite because she was born that way. But I dont think I would continue a relationship with a transsexual. Kudos to you for wanting to help her. There should be more people like you in the world!

Is your lady a hermaphrodite? If so I would research hospitals that would be able to help her. You might have to travel to a specialist to get it done but it'll be worth the trip. I know doctors in South Africa perform the surgery. But you might be able to find someone in Abuja or Lagos. (I don't really know where the specialist are in Nigeria.)

It's very courageous of you be her true friend!

What gets me is the deception. When was she planning to tell you? On your wedding night?!

You see why i run away from all these London girls that always say they are born again

whitelexi you are not serious! what about London boyz?

u r missing the point oh! london boiz will always be london boiz, look carefully oh, in london, na the girls wey dey desperate to marry oh. cos they know if they dont get it here, e go hard for naija oh, the guyz will always find someone here or at home

whitelexi:

You see why i run away from all these London girls that always say they are born again

People, why do ya'll assume that she was lying? For all we know she was dropping hints along the way that her finance didn't pick up. She might have been trying to build up the courage to tell him before that night. I suppose no one on her has ever kept a secret about their body or sex? Abeg, o, let this girl be. We are not in her position and it is pitiful enough w/ not much help in sight.

@ whitelexi

Who says the London girls don't run from you? And that's say nothing about those "born again". Maybe that's why they never catch you, ya'll are going in opposite directions. Only asking a question w/ no malice of course.

@chinani, u be correct person, u see my people say that they that live by the cutlass never allow it to get behind them, the morale of the story is something i cannot tell u cos the brideprice paid on your mother will turn into a waste

iif u dont believe me, ask any true ibo man

@ whitelexi

I can honestly say that I have no idea what you've just said to me or what you are talking about.

in a nutshell, it means a conman never allows himself turn victim, in the same vein, u cannot con a conman, u cannot cheat a cheat

Sori o,but u didnt tel us the size of her 'KOKO'? It wil go along way in known if she would continue to be a female or would have to change to a male.may God never allow us see such again.amen

Sori o,but u didnt tel us the size of her 'KOKO'(D'bani)? It wil go along way in known if she would continue to be a female or would have to change to a male.may God never allow us see such again.amen

wat can i say, "not everything that glitters is gold" but in ur case though its not everything in skirt is FEMALE

Are you sure she was not a man posing as a woman? There is a difference between a man dressed like a woman and a woman who was born with both male and female Instruments.

A lot of men especially black men are being tricked into loving these types of people who play tricks on them by getting them to fall in love with them first and then blowing the whammy on them. Also usually it happens the way you said it did, they get you drunk or high on some type of drugs because the transgendered or whatever thinks the man will forget about or ignore what he is seeing between he the (shemales) legs.

Beware, that is an illusion set up.

If I were you, I would ask to see all of his or hers private parts to make sure the only thing down there is not just a penis. Don't be duped or tricked into accepting a relationship with a man acting like a woman. A lot of men get tricked into a homosexual life styles this way. You may think you are in love but keep in mind that wolves come in sheep's clothing.

This person should have been honest with you before getting involved with you. If this person does not accept the way he or she is from the beginning, you and he or she will always have problems that can not get solved.

Sista:

Are you sure she was not a man posing as a woman/ There is a difference between a man dressed like a woman and a woman who was born with both male and female Instruments.

my thots exactly

:-x

whats so funny

who asked you,aploco.

@topic

ur fiancee isnt a she she/he/it is a he or an it , .but not she

anyways u have been played , sorry

like the others have said ur fiancee is an it , it is going to need surgery to remove it's d***k. plus take notes that u wont be able to have kids with it.

anyways i guess ur truly in love b/c anyother man would have ______________ that it. not saying that doing so is right ,

anyone got a pic of what a transgendered privates looks like?

really, really, reeeaaalllllllllyyyyyyyyyy serioussssssly

i think it looks like a males

but i dont wanna see it, thats nasty , pls send it to ppl via their email (if anyone wants to post it) so i wont be sick

Wait, lemme try and understand this!, your girl is a man?!

u guys are not funny at all how can u be mocking her, its not fair, is it because u dont know anybody with the problem?u r just being wicked nd heartless making fun of something tht God created, God created her like tht, she didnt make herself she only found herself in that condition so we shuld be considerate cos u dont now wat the future holds in stock for u, she probably has a lot of reason y she didnt open up to the guy, cos she loves him nd was scared of losing him, if u were in her shoes what wuld u av done? jumb to tell him immediately u started dating?maybe she didnt want him to fall in love with her tht was y she told him she was bornagain but men wuldnt listen now he has seen it all instead of keeping his mouth shut he brought her out to be mouthwashed by pple who dont av human pity!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

jesse_ose:

u guys are not funny at all how can u be mocking her, its not fair, is it because u don't know anybody with the problem?you're just being wicked nd heartless making fun of something that God created, God created her like that, she didnt make herself she only found herself in that condition so we shuld be considerate because u don't now what the future holds in stock for u, she probably has a lot of reason y she didnt open up to the guy, because she loves him nd was scared of losing him, if u were in her shoes what wuld u av done? jumb to tell him immediately u started dating?maybe she didnt want him to fall in love with her that was y she told him she was bornagain but men wuldnt listen now he has seen it all instead of keeping his mouth shut he brought her out to be mouthwashed by people who don't av human pity!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i like what u said. but here is my point, she is not a she. i think it is a he that has had a sex change or did something to make itself that way. anyways let me not judge anybody

I still don't get it

me neither!!!