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Please Advice Me by Bigboy2221: 5:13pm On Apr 27, 2023
My girlfriend of 7 months just told me that she now like another guy and is confused between the both of us

That she developed feelings for him when we were having issues he was her emotional support

She said I should give her some space to sort herself out and this girl has been giving me attitude resurrecting old issues we had not knowing is because of this

I thought Nairaland was wrong when they said girl are loyal to their feelings now I have experienced it first hand

Please folks in the house what should I do?

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Re: Please Advice Me by akube34: 5:36pm On Apr 27, 2023
Bigboy2221:
My girlfriend of 7 months just told me that she now like another guy and is confused between the both of us

That she developed feelings for him when we were having issues he was her emotional support

She said I should give her some space to sort herself out and this girl has been giving me attitude resurrecting old issues we had not knowing is because of this

I thought Nairaland was wrong when they said girl are loyal to their feelings now I have experienced it first hand

Please folks in the house what should I do?


she don Dey knack the guy since. She can no longer cope with you na y

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Re: Please Advice Me by Bigboy2221: 5:40pm On Apr 27, 2023
akube34:
she don Dey knack the guy since. She can no longer cope with you na y

What do you advice I do bro?
Re: Please Advice Me by Carcholce: 5:43pm On Apr 27, 2023
Bigboy in the mud.


na your girlfriend nipple I Dey see so?
Re: Please Advice Me by JoeRizzla(m): 5:44pm On Apr 27, 2023
Interesting,

A little misunderstanding your gf don dey knack another guy.
Re: Please Advice Me by Bigboy2221: 5:47pm On Apr 27, 2023
JoeRizzla:
Interesting,

A little misunderstanding your gf don dey knack another guy.

Said they haven't knavked but she likes him
Re: Please Advice Me by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:48pm On Apr 27, 2023
Bro, your babe and all her reverse psychology tricks...

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Re: Please Advice Me by JoeRizzla(m): 5:53pm On Apr 27, 2023
Bigboy2221:


Said they haven't knavked but she likes him

And you believed her ??
Re: Please Advice Me by Bigboy2221: 5:54pm On Apr 27, 2023
MrBrownJay1:
Bro, your babe and all her reverse psychology tricks...


Yes that's what she is doing I'm breaking up with her
Re: Please Advice Me by nicerod(m): 6:07pm On Apr 27, 2023
grin grin


Just dey play


The guy dey chop ur girl well well

Re: Please Advice Me by Jflex07(m): 6:26pm On Apr 27, 2023
She dey use your head. Reverse psychology here.. Dump her fast bfore she comes out plain and dump you
Re: Please Advice Me by akube34: 6:31pm On Apr 27, 2023
Bigboy2221:


What do you advice I do bro?
it鈥檚 gonna be very hard especially if you truly love her. A lot of people will see just move on like say e easy like dat. But the truth is you really av to follow their advice and move on slowly

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Re: Please Advice Me by Bigboy2221: 6:33pm On Apr 27, 2023
Jflex07:
She dey use your head. Reverse psychology here.. Dump her fast bfore she comes out plain and dump you

Okay bro
Re: Please Advice Me by Bigboy2221: 6:34pm On Apr 27, 2023
akube34:
it鈥檚 gonna be very hard especially if you truly love her. A lot of people will see just move on like say e easy like dat. But the truth is you really av to follow their advice and move on slowly

Okay thanks I will even tho is hard
Re: Please Advice Me by Uptheante(m): 6:44pm On Apr 27, 2023
Bigboy2221:


Said they haven't knavked but she likes him
If you believe this, then you can also believe that pigs can fly.
That guy is already drilling your girl's kpekus & she enjoys his di*ck so much, hence, she has already made up her mind to dump you.
Just dump her ass immediately before she frustrates you further.
Fine & decent girls plenty, any quality wey you think say she get, millions of other girls also get am.
After dumping her, make sure she doesn't wiggle herself back into your life after her new guy has finished vandalizing her kpekus. If you do that, you'll be one of the greatest fool of the century.

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Re: Please Advice Me by Bigboy2221: 6:55pm On Apr 27, 2023
Uptheante:

If you believe this, then you can also believe that pigs can fly.
That guy is already drilling your girl's kpekus & she enjoys his di*ck so much, hence, she has already made up her mind to dump you.
Just dump her ass immediately before she frustrates you further.
Fine & decent girls plenty, any quality wey you think say she get, millions of other girls also get am.
After dumping her, make sure she doesn't wiggle herself back into your life after her new guy has finished vandalizing her kpekus. If you do that, you'll be one of the greatest fool of the century.

Thanks boss

Please should I tale the phone I bought for her?
Re: Please Advice Me by Bigboy2221: 7:44pm On Apr 27, 2023
Should I take the phone I bought for her?
Re: Please Advice Me by Houseofglam7(f): 8:33pm On Apr 27, 2023
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Re: Please Advice Me by Bigboy2221: 10:42pm On Apr 27, 2023
Houseofglam7:
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Are you okay bro? If that's your issue okay
Re: Please Advice Me by Nonywendy(m): 10:54am On Apr 28, 2023
Bigboy2221:
Should I take the phone I bought for her?
Take it if that will make u happy.
Re: Please Advice Me by Bigboy2221: 11:16am On Apr 28, 2023
Nonywendy:

Take it if that will make u happy.
Okay
Re: Please Advice Me by advanceDNA: 12:01pm On Apr 28, 2023
Bigboy2221:
Should I take the phone I bought for her?

U buy phone......another nigga dey off pant..
Oga ade..collect ur phone... make the nigga wey dey off pant now go but phone

She dey even blame u...na so street babes wey no get love dey behave...so she go get chance use ur head again if she need something....
Re: Please Advice Me by advanceDNA: 12:04pm On Apr 28, 2023
GreatVocalist:

No, that will be petty of you, and there's no way it will ease the pain.


..It will ease some of the pain...she should go and collect phone from whoever is currently offing her pant.....
Re: Please Advice Me by advanceDNA: 12:41pm On Apr 28, 2023
GreatVocalist:

It'll prove that he bought the phone for her to maintain her love. Them dey buy love?

Prove to who?? She doesnt even care how he feels...he doesnt need to prove anything to her..
...wateva reason he bought the phone for her doesnt matter..... she proved she doesnt deserve the phone and has someone else tgar shoukd be buying it....
. i buy phone u dey use am send n霉de to someone else. ..is that not witchcraft??...
Re: Please Advice Me by Vanilla4(f): 12:52pm On Apr 28, 2023
If someone likes me and changed their mind, I will ask questions that wouldn't put pressure on myself. You totally like your GF, you didn't ask the right question.
Your girl says she likes someone else, play cool and start with, What is the guy like? Where did you guys met? Did he knows you have a BF? And the questions that keeps her in an almost checkmate position, You like him, does he likes you? You don't let someone feelings drown while it is still fresh. What are you going to do about it?
Her reactions and answers tells you if she is totally into him.
Love is not a competition, don't put yourself in such position of an option instead delete yourself from the picture. If someone loves you, you are second to none.
She is still in that early phase, that puppy love phase. Do something...

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Re: Please Advice Me by Bigboy2221: 1:13pm On Apr 28, 2023
Vanilla4:
If someone likes me and changed their mind, I will ask questions that wouldn't put pressure on myself. You totally like your GF, you didn't ask the right question.
Your girl says she likes someone else, play cool and start with, What is the guy like? Where did you guys met? Did he knows you have a BF? And the questions that keeps her in an almost checkmate position, You like him, does he likes you? You don't let someone feelings drown while it is still fresh. What are you going to do about it?
Her reactions and answers tells you if she is totally into him.
Love is not a competition, don't put yourself in such position of an option instead delete yourself from the picture. If someone loves you, you are second to none.
She is still in that early phase, that puppy love phase. Do something...

I鈥檓 broke up with her yerstaday but I鈥檓 so confused right now please what do you advise I do?
The guy knows she has a boyfriend cuz he was the one advising her when we had issues that was what she told me and he was also her primary school classmate鈥 he got her contact from her brother when he posted her on his WhatsApp status that鈥檚 how they started relating since February this year..
the guy stays at a nearby state and they have seen ones and he calls her often they do talk sometimes for hours..
All this she told me I鈥檓 just pained that she is confused between me and the guy who to go for?
Can you believe she told me she doesn鈥檛 know if she should leave both of us as she doesn鈥檛 know what she wants?
Re: Please Advice Me by GoldenJAT(m): 1:16pm On Apr 28, 2023
Beg her some more!!! It's fight to finish!!!
Re: Please Advice Me by Vanilla4(f): 1:24pm On Apr 28, 2023
Bigboy2221:


I鈥檓 broke up with her yerstaday but I鈥檓 so confused right now please what do you advise I do?
The guy knows she has a boyfriend cuz he was the one advising her when we had issues that鈥檚 what she told me and he was also her primary school classmate鈥 he got her contact from her brother when he posted her on his WhatsApp status that鈥檚 how they started relating since February this year
Looks like a R/ship hunter, they put them in a friendship position but trying to hunt a partner... Don't be confused, you've broken up already... That was quite fast... What to do? Make yourself happy. You have to try.

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Re: Please Advice Me by ItisWell22(f): 1:28pm On Apr 28, 2023
She most likely prefers the guy over you.

Just learn the lessons and move on bro, as hard as it may be.

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