Saintmary:


When you cut supply, demand actually goes through the roof.

The solution to proffer depends on what you really want. I noticed that males are too ashamed to spell out what they really want from the female gender.

For example, a lot of the voices calling for an end to the 'hook-up culture' are actually complaining about the prices, they want free s$x!

Look at one example given up there, the diasporan guy didn't want to pay 100k for 'yansh'

If you males really want the trend to end, let every man have his (one) wife, and let every woman have her (one) husband.

But you people are 'polygamous in nature'

Una never ready.

folake4u:


Lol. Of course, it is obvious there'd be blame game especially those Baby, let me put just the tip indisciplined men

About this hookup thing ehn, I believe when there's no demand, there won't be supply also. Ceteris paribus.
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jayAjoku:
how can you reduce human Urge for sex if you can tell me the solution then you will answer the question on the thread be like you never understand say sexual urges Dey occur for people body every day some have money and time and reason for hookups some have the body for it , when sexual urges arise they will be satisfied you cannot fight nature now does my earlier post make sense to you ? Or you need me to tell you more ? Most of you people either live in a bubble or get all your information from social media, you forget the real world is different from social media. I dare you go outside tomorrow morning go to the market and the university nearest to you count the number of people on the road. Tell me how you will stop or reduce their urge to have sex

pansophist:
Gerrard59

In a bid to simplify this, I will ask you a few questions.

1. Can you name anything you know of, either a trade, substances (eg drugs), events (e.g. abortion performance), etc, that the government trying to ban it allows the dealers to go free, but arrest/punish only the buyers?

So for example, if I sell harmful drugs, I am free to distribute, manufacture, and advertise, but the government only punishes my customers, not me?

2. If I want to stop alomo bitters in the Nigerian market, Which method is more effective between these two scenarios? Scenario A. Ban importation and make it punishable for dealers to sell such services, AS well as make it punishable for customers to use such products.

Or scenario B, Punish only customers and let the dealers of alomo trade and conduct their business freely?


If you can answer both questions above correctly, then my point will be very clear.

Back to the issue, sellers/service providers always have more power to stop the circulation of a business. There are so many examples I can mention but is it necessary?

When Buhari doesn't want Twitter, he banned it, AND punish those using VPN to access it. That is more effective than just punishing Twitter users. In most countries, prostitution is illegal. If your method is correct, then it should be the other way around, right?

How can you ignore all the societal structures that encourage prostitution and punish only men? it makes no sense frankly. There are hotels specifically to house harlot, then nightclubs, then roadsides where the harlot stands, then hookup sites such as coded runs, and so much more.

You will ignore all these things and just go arrest men? Really? like REALLY? if you want to cut a tree, you do it from the root. You don't cut the fruits and declare success.

My point still stands. If prostitution has to stop, then women have to stop it, not men. Men could be punished for engaging in such services as trafficking girls, building hotels, and so much more.

But it is women, not men, that control sexual access. Not putting the blame on hungry girls that uses prostitution instead of hard work is infantilizing girls.

If the government bans prostitution, which means closing a lot of hotels, banning the site-coded runs, arresting any prostitutes found on junctions, and fining nightclubs heavily, prostitution will reduce overnight.

But to ignore all these and just go for men only? It won't end. A quick example. If I am the only one selling Amala in a city, I have the power to prevent everyone in that city not to eat amala if I refuse to sell. By the same analogy, only women, not men, have the power to stop it.

ANd about my saying that ´men create the society and women integrate into it´, creating a society also means banning prostitution. If men ban prostitution and also punish men luring girls for such services, it will end overnight.

cc. lordAdam16, CaveAdullam

Persephone1:
Honestly Pan just irk me now. You know when you see something annoying but you no react then person still come push am for your face.
I intentionally didn't comment on this topic first because I know nah blame shift go full am, I come drop comment somebody come jump on it. Them just like to silent contrary opinion from ladies, while him no quote Lord wey no reason along with him?

You dey mind these ones? 😂😂😂 as if them don find solutions to their raging hormones Something wey they control them.

seguno2:


Male and female are already reducing the urge for sex, since we don’t fcvk each time we have the urge. Or do we?

Reducing it FURTHER, requires for us men to build a better society for more employment for busy men & women and greater equality of opportunity, income and wealth.

seguno2:


You are not just a saint, you are holy and Mary together 😂😂

See as you just expose guys anyhow above.

lexy2014:


Have you paid for sex on tinder?

Savedday2:
Instead of thinking of reducing hookup in 9ja, just kill all 9ja girls becos, dey can't live without hookup. All 9ja girls

Saintmary:

My sainthood is conferred, not by my works.

I'm just a human trying to please God while recognizing my own humanity at the same time.

Back to the topic, ask women and see how majority of baby daddies try to avoid child support just because the women refuse to have sex with them.

They want unrestricted access to the woman's body without any commitment whatsoever, the only guarantee that the woman will get any support is if she makes her body available.

Same for some husbands, they try to sabotage their wives' earning power so that she will remain financially dependent on them. The real motivation for this is the need to have ever ready sex objects that knows that she will get no money if she doesn't keep the shop open.

Now they have the gall to call women s$x workers.

Who are the real s$x workers?

ednut1:
Reduce hookup The people in the industry dey complain ni😅. Imagine the average lady in Nigeria earning 20k to 35k salary a month wey oga will even owe them join. But hookup over night 7k to 30k, same sex she gave all her boyfriends who later dumped her. If to say we be woman too we for dey do hookup o

MN07:
If you like ban Hook up, if you like ban yahoo, if you like ban alcohol, Nigeria is already a morally degraded society.

You can't stop it's decay, Nigeria is a shithole.

If a drug baron can contest in a presidential election and still have followers voting for him and boast of winning through dubious means and he succeeded, what does that tells you.

Dinieoj:
Government should provide job opportunities, Men should stick to one partner, ladies should be contented with what they have, they should stop longing for expensive lifestyles your salary can't cover.

MN07:
If you like ban Hook up, if you like ban yahoo, if you like ban alcohol, Nigeria is already a morally degraded society.

You can't stop it's decay, Nigeria is a shithole.

If a drug baron can contest in a presidential election and still have followers voting for him and boast of winning through dubious means and he succeeded, what does that tells you.

Savedday2:
Instead of thinking of reducing hookup in 9ja, just kill all 9ja girls becos, dey can't live without hookup. All 9ja girls

CHIOMAEZEH:
Na jew men wey no fit toast woman dey do hookup... Population of ladies are more... Most of them are lonely... Na money miss road dey pay for sex.... I hat it...

The worse are the ones wey dey pay students for hookup... A full grown man go dey pay 21 year old lady 50k to back... A student...

Meanwhile, students yakpa wey you fit use small scope bed am easily...

So, you are paying a woman for sex... Sex she too will enjoy ooo... No be say she dey do you favour or she no go enjoy am...

Money miss road wey no fit toast woman na them dey do hookup... Their excuse is they don't want woman wahala.. Who tell you say hookup babes too no get wahala?

Caleb15:

Three bottles of udeme for you

cocolacec:


Sweden arrests the men who patronise prostitutes on the streets.If the men need sex they should get a girlfriend or get married.

Sweetvie:
Get a girlfriend

jayAjoku:
how can you reduce human Urge for sex if you can tell me the solution then you will answer the question on the thread be like you never understand say sexual urges Dey occur for people body every day some have money and time and reason for hookups some have the body for it , when sexual urges arise they will be satisfied you cannot fight nature now does my earlier post make sense to you ? Or you need me to tell you more ? Most of you people either live in a bubble or get all your information from social media, you forget the real world is different from social media. I dare you go outside tomorrow morning go to the market and the university nearest to you count the number of people on the road. Tell me how you will stop or reduce their urge to have sex

Dancebreaker:

Then the lady who offered sex, or accepted money for sex should not be punished?

While this may earn you cheap popularity with women, it's actually not in their favour long term.

It implies that, in your estimation, they are somehow deficient and cannot be treated equally as men or can't take responsibility for their actions as can be expected of men.

So much about gender equality.

cocolacec:


Sweden arrests the men who patronise prostitutes on the streets.If the men need sex they should get a girlfriend or get married.

cocolacec:


Sweden arrests the men who patronise prostitutes on the streets.If the men need sex they should get a girlfriend or get married.