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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Exmilitant(m): 6:30pm On May 13, 2023
ceejay80s:

Let them be Saint first but for now they are bloody Nigerians
to konk you dey hungry me. grin

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Sparkle777(f): 6:57pm On May 13, 2023
No biggie, growing up, I had names given me by my Dad, Mom, grandma, relatives, neighbors etc. Now as an middle age woman, I answer that one my Dad gave me. Probably because, the rest have moved, died or forgotten.
Chill, na yaa son finally.

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Seun112233: 7:54pm On May 13, 2023
Please what this doing at the front page when there are important topics on crime and agricultural section. You aren't happy they are not calling him Stone or Bush.

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by saphiere(f): 7:54pm On May 13, 2023
joeargy:
Hi everyone, I will appreciate ur advice...

My son is 2yrs old , when he was born I and my wife named him Charles but my wife's mother and father can't stop calling him Daniel, when ever my son is at their place for holidays or visits, they call him Daniel and all their neighbors and friends now call my son Daniel.

I remembered I told my wife about it and her mother heard and felt bad, he is my son and not theirs, I understand grandparents give their grand children names too, I have a name from my grandparents but they call me by the one my parents gave me...

What do I do house?
Go and pay the full brideprice
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Ulunne777(f): 7:55pm On May 13, 2023
anyilalaz:
No issue here bro. That is grandparents for you. Just call him the name you gave him, update the same on his birth certificate, school etc. When we had my first child, my mother called her Amarachukwu, My mother-in-law called here Toochukwu, my land lady gave her yoruba name - Anuoluwapo, wife called her Favour, me where be her papa call am, Chizita.

No issue in the house and she respond when these people call her. She identify them via phone when she is called by those name...
finally na me be her PAPA.

Exactly.

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Nobody: 7:55pm On May 13, 2023
Ever8090:
People just get problem for this life I swear,...what is wrong with grand parents giving their grand child a name?.. some times not even grand parents,but even neighbors calls children different names,..

This so called civilized and religious generation will be acting mumu like mumu....
misplaced priority I must say. A child that has birth certificate which will bear his real name is what the father is creating animosity for. Some fights are not just worth it.

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by sherylbaky(f): 7:56pm On May 13, 2023
Ever8090:
People just get problem for this life I swear,...what is wrong with grand parents giving their grand child a name?.. some times not even grand parents,but even neighbors calls children different names,..

This so called civilized and religious generation will be acting mumu like mumu....
I swear, the thread just weak me grin
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by emezuo17: 7:56pm On May 13, 2023
Exmilitant:
These foreign names wey una dey call children dey vex me. Wetin be Charles and Daniel?
Whatever happened to Izuchukwu, Uwem, Adebola, Ovundah?

God help Africa!!
. You are my real G.

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Moneywirer: 7:56pm On May 13, 2023
taylor89:
Na them know the real papa


You might not be far from the truth grin
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by rant19ade: 7:56pm On May 13, 2023
My bro, if this is your own problem then you bring have any problem in this life.
It's a trivial matter,

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by kad199: 7:56pm On May 13, 2023
Exmilitant:
These foreign names wey una dey call children dey vex me. Wetin be Charles and Daniel?
Whatever happened to Izuchukwu, Uwem, Adebola, Ovundah?

God help Africa!!
I tire wetin charles

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by lilyheaven: 7:56pm On May 13, 2023
You are a trouble maker šŸ¤£šŸ¤£
taylor89:
Na them know the real papa
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by DollarSigns(m): 7:57pm On May 13, 2023
joeargy:
Hi everyone, I will appreciate ur advice...

My son is 2yrs old , when he was born I and my wife named him Charles but my wife's mother and father can't stop calling him Daniel, when ever my son is at their place for holidays or visits, they call him Daniel and all their neighbors and friends now call my son Daniel.

I remembered I told my wife about it and her mother heard and felt bad, he is my son and not theirs, I understand grandparents give their grand children names too, I have a name from my grandparents but they call me by the one my parents gave me...

What do I do house?
To be honest I feel sad when I see posts like this
People be giving themselves unnecessary issues to cause further unknown issues
As a responsible man, what if your wife sees this post? How would she feel
Try Dey tek Loud Mek una brain open up, dem no greešŸ„ŗ
Weirdos everywhere, weird threadšŸ„ŗšŸ˜­

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by lomprico(m): 7:57pm On May 13, 2023
joeargy:
Hi everyone, I will appreciate ur advice...

My son is 2yrs old , when he was born I and my wife named him Charles but my wife's mother and father can't stop calling him Daniel, when ever my son is at their place for holidays or visits, they call him Daniel and all their neighbors and friends now call my son Daniel.

I remembered I told my wife about it and her mother heard and felt bad, he is my son and not theirs, I understand grandparents give their grand children names too, I have a name from my grandparents but they call me by the one my parents gave me...

What do I do house?

There is nothing wrong with it.
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by emezuo17: 7:58pm On May 13, 2023
ceejay80s:

They aren't foreign, we christians name our kids after a Saint or men of God in the Holy bible
Eg Saint Charles , Saint daniel
. So only Europeans are qualified to be saints, your grand parents can't be saints too abi, my guy, local names with meanings are better than foreign names without meaning, what is the local translation of Charles and Daniel, in your dialect.

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by youngfocus(m): 7:58pm On May 13, 2023
joeargy:
Hi everyone, I will appreciate ur advice...

My son is 2yrs old , when he was born I and my wife named him Charles but my wife's mother and father can't stop calling him Daniel, when ever my son is at their place for holidays or visits, they call him Daniel and all their neighbors and friends now call my son Daniel.

I remembered I told my wife about it and her mother heard and felt bad, he is my son and not theirs, I understand grandparents give their grand children names too, I have a name from my grandparents but they call me by the one my parents gave me...

What do I do house?
Why u Dey streeed urself pikin wey fit wake up one day talk say he no go bear jerey or Jeremiah say Na star boy be my name and ppl will b calling him star boy,I change my name when I grow up and that is the name everybody is calling me.even my mum self so why stressing urself

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Victor2707: 7:59pm On May 13, 2023
Stop entertaining your wife's family.

They are not your relatives.
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by 123readygo: 7:59pm On May 13, 2023
Hmmmmmmm
This OP is a woman in a manā€™s body. Of all the problems in this country see what is bothering him. My sis and my mom call my first daughter a name different from what we her parents named her.

My father in-law calls her by his late motherā€™s name. His reason is that her late mother appeared to him in a trance and informed him that she ā€œreincarnatedā€ through my daughter. šŸ˜†

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by theamazonguru(m): 8:00pm On May 13, 2023
joeargy:
Hi everyone, I will appreciate ur advice...

My son is 2yrs old , when he was born I and my wife named him Charles but my wife's mother and father can't stop calling him Daniel, when ever my son is at their place for holidays or visits, they call him Daniel and all their neighbors and friends now call my son Daniel.

I remembered I told my wife about it and her mother heard and felt bad, he is my son and not theirs, I understand grandparents give their grand children names too, I have a name from my grandparents but they call me by the one my parents gave me...

What do I do house?

Bros be calming down.
Don't stress or overwork yourself for nothing over this.
It's a phase that will soon pass.

I had my first child during Goodluck Jonathan's regime. In fact it was in June following his inauguration in May.
Na so one of my neighbors begin call my child Jonathan. Funniest thing is this woman was serious about it.
You will be hearing Mummy Jonathan, daddy Jonathan.
Hiiaaaan, my child's name is Sammy not Jona. Lol.
But we endured it till we moved out of the damn house.

Now no one knows he was ever called Jonathan.

So bro, just take the chill pill.

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by emezuo17: 8:00pm On May 13, 2023
ceejay80s:

Let them be Saint first but for now they are bloody Nigerians
. You are lost bro, who made the foreign ones saints.

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by tonicyril: 8:00pm On May 13, 2023
joeargy:
Hi everyone, I will appreciate ur advice...

My son is 2yrs old , when he was born I and my wife named him Charles but my wife's mother and father can't stop calling him Daniel, when ever my son is at their place for holidays or visits, they call him Daniel and all their neighbors and friends now call my son Daniel.

I remembered I told my wife about it and her mother heard and felt bad, he is my son and not theirs, I understand grandparents give their grand children names too, I have a name from my grandparents but they call me by the one my parents gave me...

What do I do house?
I named my daughter Shekemi, every other person around are calling her Shindara...lobatan, what should I do, how many people do I correct?? Who knows maybe that is the name the child want himself/herself??

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Nobody: 8:01pm On May 13, 2023
You have very evil in-laws. Divorce your wife at once and flee.

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Judolisco(m): 8:01pm On May 13, 2023
Call him both... It's not difficult..... U can have multiple names... When d child grows up...u jst keep calling him Charles at home.... Dis thing no be issue at all

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Lifestone(m): 8:01pm On May 13, 2023
Ever8090:
People just get problem for this life I swear,...what is wrong with grand parents giving their grand child a name?.. some times not even grand parents,but even neighbors calls children different names,..

This so called civilized and religious generation will be acting mumu like mumu....
Na wa o. These are kids calling themselves parents. The birth certificate bears the name you want, he will register in school with the name you want. What's your problems fa. My Parent calls my last son the name they gave him, he had 32 names during naming ceremony. So what's the point.

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by sherylbaky(f): 8:01pm On May 13, 2023
Solofresh2:
Take the child away from them and don't take him close to them for a very long time because if that boy start answering that name at this early stage,wahala go dey oo
Are u for real? Is it not just a name?
Which wahala won dey? grin
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by royalfly(m): 8:02pm On May 13, 2023
joeargy:
Hi everyone, I will appreciate ur advice...

My son is 2yrs old , when he was born I and my wife named him Charles but my wife's mother and father can't stop calling him Daniel, when ever my son is at their place for holidays or visits, they call him Daniel and all their neighbors and friends now call my son Daniel.

I remembered I told my wife about it and her mother heard and felt bad, he is my son and not theirs, I understand grandparents give their grand children names too, I have a name from my grandparents but they call me by the one my parents gave me...

What do I do house?

Your son will be great. IJN just stand your ground and stop them. No sentiment

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by FiftyFifty(m): 8:02pm On May 13, 2023
Lol. I can't see any big deal here... I'm a Muslim but Daniel to me makes more sense than Charles unless you're related to King Charles...lol. But then, you're even lucky they didn't name him Maguire, Weghorst, Eric, or even Hag... On a more serious note, any name you give him will finally prevail.

Greet Dan for me abeg. grin

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by gozzlin: 8:03pm On May 13, 2023
Oga go and rest, after all people can bear 3 to 5 names. Is it a taboo to you if your son answers just 2 names? Nonsense!

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by sherylbaky(f): 8:03pm On May 13, 2023
As in ehhh...I don't understand grin grin One of the most funny things I have read on the internet in my life
Karleb:


Guy what is your problem? undecided

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Mercylike(f): 8:04pm On May 13, 2023
taylor89:
NA THEM KNOW THE REAL PAPA

I understand grandparents and calling their grandkids their preferred name

And I know every human has one or two other names their family extended family calls them just like me now my name reach 30

But you see switching from Charles to Daniel

Which are just same random English names and not a native name just grandparents always give

Oga that child isnā€™t yours

What sort of senseless comment is this?

God, did you create this thing too?

The people that even liked this comments are more of animalistic in nature than the one that made this comment..

Jeeezz

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by TheGift: 8:04pm On May 13, 2023
Ever8090:
People just get problem for this life I swear,...what is wrong with grand parents giving their grand child a name?.. some times not even grand parents,but even neighbors calls children different names,..

This so called civilized and religious generation will be acting mumu like mumu....

What is wrong is that the in-laws are disregarding the name Given to the boy by His own Father, something they wouldn't take from someone else.

My Son has a name from my in-laws and occassiinally they use it, but there is no confusion about what His first name is.

If they decide to insist on calling him their preferred name, please I will just be ignore it and continue calling Him the name I give him, one day he will be old enough to know what or who he must answer to.

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