dre11:

The Nigerian man, before he was jailed for three years, had told the London court that his action was a move to instil standards in his son.





https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/598578-exclusive-london-court-jails-nigerian-three-years-for-flogging-son.html


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Ireportlive:
Na why their kids are wayward

ZIMDRILL:


it doesnt work like that hear

what i mean is this, if the child reports thats it, who ever did the act is in trouble with authority

In this case the mum had to explain the bruises at the hospital, most likely she failed to explain the bruise at the hospital

here kids are protected any bruise that takes a child to hospital u are i trouble

abbey621:
This is a case of marrying a bad wife and having bad kids! Clearly the issue wouldn't have escalated if those bruises were treated at home, ordinary bruise, mama don reach hospital, she even provided the incriminating weapon.....Ki la gbe ki le ju

Abroad no be beans, your spouse, your kids, neighbors, government, everything will frustrate you as a man, be careful the type of woman you chose to marry, she could be the difference between jail or thanksgiving!

techbroX:
Well, it seems more like abuse than beating cos he was reported to have beaten his kid with a "metal stick."

At the same time, the mother and the child should be ready to take care of themselves without the husband because that man may not forget that incarceration... It's not gonna be easy to reconcile after 3 years in prison.

blaquemyc:
The bible they brought to us said "spare the rod and spoil the child".

webcrafty:
Well, that explains why kids in the UK are so rotten and busy stabbing each other about.

Blitzking:
■ Omoh na to dey save beating come naija oo..just buy diary dey record am...when offence don plenty say junior we are going to Nigeria for you to "collect" once junior collect finish fly am back go youkay

mabea:
I would have agreed completely with you but then part of the judgement cited a text message sent to the wife and the child. Who could have revealed it if not the wife.

SavageResponse:


I'm sure they exaggerated the intensity of the beating the boy got

abbey621:


Funny..... Upon all the talking and loving, being their friend and having an open mind, guess what? Kids living in the USA and the UK are 50 times more disobedient and wayward than Nigerian kids, this is pure undiluted fact! When all things are equal in terms of shelter, food and attention, Nigerian kids are angelic compared to those American kids calling their mom and dad, Joe & Betty!

Let's forget 9ja and focus on black Americans, households where at least one parent is a disciplinarian are often better off than one without a disciplined parent. You'll hear a black kid tell his friends, "my mama don't play that, big mama will slap you upside your head if you misbehave!"

Ulunne777:
I used to do the disciplining before but when I noticed my kids tilting towards my husband and him even reporting them to me or asking them if I have seen what they did wrong,I stopped.


We must agree together on the punishment or watch them spoil together.

Stop reporting your kids misdemeanor to the other spouse.The parent present should trash it out or wait for joint punishment.
It potrays the discipliner wicked before the kids

I just pray I marry someone with this thought. This is the main reason children see the father as wicked. Atimes I weigh this law and compare with the "divorce laws" for a young man intending to live in Europe and I just wonder what steps to take early.

If I were the man, once I leave that cell, the child must return to Nigeria and a "crude" village at that. He needs to experience Nigeria.

kcbaba007:
That man's predicament was fully orchestrated by his wife..... Fear that gender

Ilspare the rod and spoil the child.....

If I have kids abroad, I will bring them back to naija to train them.....


My papa beat shege comot for my body, that's why I am who I am today, and my life is secured, with fear of God and great respect for my Dad deeply imbibed in me

I will beat shege out of any of my child that misbehaves..... That wan na sure banker, that pikin brain go dey always reset every five minutes

Ireportlive:
Na why their kids are wayward

mmsen:
Are they any worse than the cultists and ashawo that you people raise?

Shokoloko:

The rod and the staff, they COMFORT me.
Comfort not hurt

ednut1:
Beating grown up kids

MrBrownJay1:


the INFRASTRUCTURES in the UK are better, the yeye mentality of UK kids isnt.



there is a huge different between corporal punishment and abuse... sadly in the UK, screaming at your child can be considered abuse. children these days know that and will even have the audacity to now talk back and/or even insult their parents (because they know the law will protect them) ***over my dead body***

Blitzking:

Omoh na to dey save beating come naija oo..just buy diary dey record am...when offence don plenty say junior we are going to Nigeria for you to "collect" once junior collect finish fly am back go youkay

MrBrownJay1:
today flogging a child is considered abuse, even though majority of us are great human beings today because of these same "abuse"... so make sure that you A) have kids with a woman who follow your school of thought and B) live in a country where flogging is allowed-

no wonder kids in the UK (and all over the world) are now out of control!

Lewisjohnson:

If Nigerian kids are so great, why is the UK better than Nigeria?

Kobojunkie:
Both of them are fking inhumane!

You can tell I am still traumatized from having seen the effects of wire-caning from my childhood...

NinjaMetahuman:
so which flogging is humane?

richmond500:
while flogging is legal, it makes most children dumb.
Some parents will physically abuse the child until the child breaks down.
So it's normal to criminalize flogging as a whole

SavageResponse:
■ Pikin wey no dey hear word dem suppose flog sense enter him brain!

richmond500:
I have a video of a woman beating her 3year old child.
As in ehn, the video was gory as she just deh use the pikin head deh nak for wall.

You see ehn, when you give people a chance to discipline the child, they can go extra miles by abusing the child, so it's better to completely make beating illegal.

If you can't use words to train a child, then you are a failure as a parent.
If this generation of Nigerians that insults their patents were really flogged, then the flogging didn't do anything

SavageResponse:


Pikin wey no dey hear word dem suppose flog sense enter him brain!

Lewisjohnson:

If Nigerian kids are so great, why is the UK better than Nigeria?