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Why is Hookup culture on the rise in most states of the country by Quality20(m): 4:40pm On May 21, 2023
From my journeys and observations, I just realised all over the cities and towns in the country, prostitution and hookup culture is very much on the rise especially among teenage girls and those in the age, 20 to 25. The only part of the country that still seemed not very much affected is the far north, probably because of the lower western educational levels, coupled with sharia laws in those states.
After making more research, it occurred to me that driving force for this astronomical increase in hookup culture among ladies is nothing but the high level of poverty and lack of good parental upbringing. Many parents and guardians have now neglected their parental roles, they only care about pitting food on the tables and not anymore about proper moral upbringing again. Çhildren are left on their own to do as they please

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Re: Why is Hookup culture on the rise in most states of the country by donbachi(m): 4:41pm On May 21, 2023
The only flourishing female sector.

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Re: Why is Hookup culture on the rise in most states of the country by silvoclaira: 4:42pm On May 21, 2023
lipsrsealed


Most of our number of men and women in every state do so because they need money and have no other way to earn it. These women need money for food and shelter, to support their children and families, to pay debts, or to buy drugs etc...

If men are not patronizing them they won't see it as a means to an end.


The North own is on coded 6.0. Get it!

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Re: Why is Hookup culture on the rise in most states of the country by Nobody: 4:43pm On May 21, 2023
donbachi:
The only flourishing female sector.

grin grin
Re: Why is Hookup culture on the rise in most states of the country by God1000(m): 4:44pm On May 21, 2023
Poverty, laziness, moral decadence
Re: Why is Hookup culture on the rise in most states of the country by thisisit: 5:12pm On May 21, 2023
WHO IS HOOKING UP WITH THEM.. IS IT SPIRITS OR FEMALES OR MALES.

IF NO BUYER , ... NO SELLER..

THE MEN SHOULD STOP SEXUAL ABUSE OF LADIES THEN GO AHEAD TO STIGMATIZE THEM

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Re: Why is Hookup culture on the rise in most states of the country by Hhansome(m): 5:40pm On May 21, 2023
grin

Prostitution has little or nothing to do with upbringing.

For once, I will have to agree with the religious people that it is spiritual.

How do we explain the likes of corporate bodies, politicians and high class business women who engage in it? No be poverty most times!

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Re: Why is Hookup culture on the rise in most states of the country by Sonnobax15(m): 7:27pm On May 21, 2023
undecided
Hook-up-ism ain't gonna end soon here in this country.

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Re: Why is Hookup culture on the rise in most states of the country by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 6:29pm On May 23, 2023
Bcoz however is ruling the country and states are doing a terrible job
Re: Why is Hookup culture on the rise in most states of the country by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 6:32pm On May 23, 2023
Hhansome:
grin

Prostitution has little or nothing to do with upbringing.

For once, I will have to agree with the religious people that it is spiritual.

How do we explain the likes of corporate bodies, politicians and high class business women who engage in it? No be poverty most times!
Does it implies that it is a hobby for these women? Just exactly the way guys enjoy playing PES on PlayStation 5 so much.
Re: Why is Hookup culture on the rise in most states of the country by Geovanni412(m): 7:03pm On May 23, 2023
thisisit:
WHO IS HOOKING UP WITH THEM.. IS IT SPIRITS OR FEMALES OR MALES.

IF NO BUYER , ... NO SELLER..

THE MEN SHOULD STOP SEXUAL ABUSE OF LADIES THEN GO AHEAD TO STIGMATIZE THEM

Gbam

It's a game of supply and demand

Let me expand on your point a bit

For a man, he has two options: Get a steady girlfriend (A) or find a girl to hookup with(B)

There are four metrics to measure the desirability of an offer in life and in business:
- Dream outcome
-Possibility of getting the dream outcome
- Time delay
- effort and sacrifice

A and B can give him sex (dream outcome)

The possibility of getting sex from option A is harder than option B

Sex from option A is dependent on her mood and he may not get it every time he asks for it (time delay)
Sex from option B is instant and guaranteed as long as he pays her for the service

The effort and sacrifice needed to get sex from a girlfriend is at the minimum of 30 mins and at maximum could be months
The effort and sacrifice needed to convince a hookup girl to have sex is zero

On a value offering scale, getting a steady girlfriend (A) ticks 1/4 boxes that make a service valuable
On a value offering scale, going for hookup girls (B) ticks 4/4 boxes that make a service valuable

In summary, hookup cannot end because men value a service that is cheap and gives instant value

Hookup is not good but it will never end unless we can change our culture to one in which men marry at a young age to girls and the women are submissive to them as it was during the era before we adopted modern cultural practices.

Think about this...

Have you ever heard that there is hookup culture amongst nomadic tribes that survive on cow? grin

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