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Help!!! Matured Advice Needed by Mamzi: 7:56pm On May 25, 2023
I feel I don't love my wife because she doesnt respect nor Honor me as a husband. I feel I mind is not in the marriage even though I provide enough for her and even for her parents and siblings but I don't think she have ever appreciated me for what I do.. currently my trust for her vanished away because recently when I was away for a 1 day short trip, I discovered she was having a video call and chats with a certain guy from 9pm till 1am. I don't know what to do and I don't feel I can stay with a woman I don't trust nor love anymore... What do I do pls.
Re: Help!!! Matured Advice Needed by advanceDNA: 8:09pm On May 25, 2023
Some women are like that jaré...they don't appreciate or see what her u do for them as a sacrifice.. they just see it as their right as wife...

Baba .this is 2023...u know what to do ...
Any woman wey marry u just because she wants to check marriage off her list, live rent free, and bill-free.....should quickly be shown the door..

No time to dey remain unhappy in a marriage with someone that doesn't even care how u feel......

How do u pple even marry someone that won't sense or notice all is not well with the partner they both live together?

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Re: Help!!! Matured Advice Needed by virginprincess(f): 8:17pm On May 25, 2023
Re: Help!!! Matured Advice Needed by ednut1(m): 8:20pm On May 25, 2023
Sorry
Re: Help!!! Matured Advice Needed by marlow1962(m): 8:21pm On May 25, 2023
Bro find another wife.

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Re: Help!!! Matured Advice Needed by tonicyril: 8:42pm On May 25, 2023
If woman eey give u problems and u don't know what to do...then RIP is not hard to type
Re: Help!!! Matured Advice Needed by MechanicMike: 8:53pm On May 25, 2023
Mamzi:
I feel I don't love my wife because she doesnt respect nor Honor me as a husband. I feel I mind is not in the marriage even though I provide enough for her and even for her parents and siblings but I don't think she have ever appreciated me for what I do.. currently my trust for her vanished away because recently when I was away for a 1 day short trip, I discovered she was having a video call and chats with a certain guy from 9pm till 1am. I don't know what to do and I don't feel I can stay with a woman I don't trust nor love anymore... What do I do pls.


Is she lightskin? angry

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Re: Help!!! Matured Advice Needed by Omuuvwie(m): 8:59pm On May 25, 2023
I have said it here numbers of time that marriage is a 21st century scam, if given opportunity to draw back the hand of clock I will japa 1000 miles away if I hear the word marriage.
Re: Help!!! Matured Advice Needed by Nemesis0147(m): 9:02pm On May 25, 2023
This kind story don come up more than 100 times only this week😂😂
Are these stories real or you guys are trying to discourage the single ones?
Make una divorce abeg😂
Re: Help!!! Matured Advice Needed by blacksam01: 9:06pm On May 25, 2023
Nemesis0147:
This kind story don come up more than 100 times only this week😂😂
Are these stories real or you guys are trying to discourage the single ones?
Make una divorce abeg😂

later women go dey say men no dey try...

but this they come up mostly wen u beg lady to marry u....
Re: Help!!! Matured Advice Needed by Blunttruth: 9:19pm On May 25, 2023
Mamzi:
I feel I don't love my wife because she doesnt respect nor Honor me as a husband. I feel I mind is not in the marriage even though I provide enough for her and even for her parents and siblings but I don't think she have ever appreciated me for what I do.. currently my trust for her vanished away because recently when I was away for a 1 day short trip, I discovered she was having a video call and chats with a certain guy from 9pm till 1am. I don't know what to do and I don't feel I can stay with a woman I don't trust nor love anymore... What do I do pls.
Video call? That is so wrong.
I am afraid to say you may have seen some signs during courtship but you chose to marry her.
Anyway I always like to hear from both sides.
Re: Help!!! Matured Advice Needed by PerfectStranger(m): 10:17pm On May 25, 2023
21st century marriages...

80% of women don't marry who they love but who's ready. Apparently, you were the available one. Divorce her ASAP.

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Re: Help!!! Matured Advice Needed by Dshocker(m): 11:32pm On May 25, 2023
Mamzi:
I feel I don't love my wife because she doesnt respect nor Honor me as a husband. I feel I mind is not in the marriage even though I provide enough for her and even for her parents and siblings but I don't think she have ever appreciated me for what I do.. currently my trust for her vanished away because recently when I was away for a 1 day short trip, I discovered she was having a video call and chats with a certain guy from 9pm till 1am. I don't know what to do and I don't feel I can stay with a woman I don't trust nor love anymore... What do I do pls.

pocohantas why are your fellow women like this, and what do you have to say about this 🎤🎤🎤
Re: Help!!! Matured Advice Needed by Dshocker(m): 11:36pm On May 25, 2023
Mamzi:
I feel I don't love my wife because she doesnt respect nor Honor me as a husband. I feel I mind is not in the marriage even though I provide enough for her and even for her parents and siblings but I don't think she have ever appreciated me for what I do.. currently my trust for her vanished away because recently when I was away for a 1 day short trip, I discovered she was having a video call and chats with a certain guy from 9pm till 1am. I don't know what to do and I don't feel I can stay with a woman I don't trust nor love anymore... What do I do pls.

You said you were on a short trip; so how did you discover she was video chatting?

Na the hand wey you give woman in the beginning, go determine how she go take dey follow you for marriage.... So my dear, i guess the problem stems from you.
Re: Help!!! Matured Advice Needed by frozen70(f): 12:56am On May 26, 2023
Mamzi:
I feel I don't love my wife because she doesnt respect nor Honor me as a husband. I feel I mind is not in the marriage even though I provide enough for her and even for her parents and siblings but I don't think she have ever appreciated me for what I do.. currently my trust for her vanished away because recently when I was away for a 1 day short trip, I discovered she was having a video call and chats with a certain guy from 9pm till 1am. I don't know what to do and I don't feel I can stay with a woman I don't trust nor love anymore... What do I do pls.

I think you have to confront her
Re: Help!!! Matured Advice Needed by AndrewTate(m): 1:07am On May 26, 2023
Y'all just come up here and tell us what's happening currently with your marriage...
Y'all never tell us what lead to that.
No advice.
Next!

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Re: Help!!! Matured Advice Needed by diogo23: 9:48am On May 26, 2023
advanceDNA:

Some women are like that jaré...they don't appreciate or see what her u do for them as a sacrifice.. they just see it as their right as wife...

Baba .this is 2023...u know what to do ...
Any woman wey marry u just because she wants to check marriage off her list, live rent free, and bill-free.....should quickly be shown the door..

No time to dey remain unhappy in a marriage with someone that doesn't even care how u feel......

How do u pple even marry someone that won't sense or notice all is not well with the partner they both live together?
This one is different because she's cheating on him
Re: Help!!! Matured Advice Needed by diogo23: 9:50am On May 26, 2023
Mamzi:
I feel I don't love my wife because she doesnt respect nor Honor me as a husband. I feel I mind is not in the marriage even though I provide enough for her and even for her parents and siblings but I don't think she have ever appreciated me for what I do.. currently my trust for her vanished away because recently when I was away for a 1 day short trip, I discovered she was having a video call and chats with a certain guy from 9pm till 1am. I don't know what to do and I don't feel I can stay with a woman I don't trust nor love anymore... What do I do pls.
This is the reason men die early because people will tell you to endure and you will be dying in silent till you go down six fit and all her numerous bf will take over

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Re: Help!!! Matured Advice Needed by Watcharena: 9:55am On May 26, 2023
Mamzi:
I feel I don't love my wife because she doesnt respect nor Honor me as a husband. I feel I mind is not in the marriage even though I provide enough for her and even for her parents and siblings but I don't think she have ever appreciated me for what I do.. currently my trust for her vanished away because recently when I was away for a 1 day short trip, I discovered she was having a video call and chats with a certain guy from 9pm till 1am. I don't know what to do and I don't feel I can stay with a woman I don't trust nor love anymore... What do I do pls.
divorce her if she doesn't have a baby for you , the earlier the better, once she drop a baby you will have to live with her like that even if is for the sake of the baby.

The reason for those attitudes could be that you are not banging her well it some body before you was doing it better but is not your fault but hers

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