They lack empathy especially the ones living with only their mother such women are dangerous to marry they can even poison you when things go bad beware of such ladies they are worse than cancer.

Letsmeet:
Please everyone, what's your opinion on this?
Is it wise to date a young lady from a divorced home?
If She is very nice, quiet, respectful, the most understanding person in the world, doesn't even quarrel. Has a good job and many other good qualities.
But if her parents are divorced, and live in the same area, and she lives with both of them.
What is the likelihood of her divorcing in future? Anyone with similar experiences please?

Before nko?

That's one more reason why you, as a man, is always advised to steer clear and stay away from single mothers.

Yes, very likely...

Yes!

Major reason for the cause of divorce is as a result from unpreparedness from the partners

How can sh3 be living g with both of them?

dominique:


Me sef dey wonder o

If women held men to d same standard,,they will do better in marriages bc some women would refuse to leave an abusive marriage to avoid her daughters facing this stigma

Statically true. A standard has been set.

Bad for both sons and daughters.

Same way people who use hard drugs are statically likely to land in psychiatric ward. Few become successful in life. As seen with Tinubu.

CondenseMilk:
Divorce is very dangerous especially to the girl child.

Apart from the death of a partner, bringing up kids as a single parent should be highly discouraged

Wise one

Letsmeet:
Please everyone, what's your opinion on this?
Is it wise to date a young lady from a divorced home?
If She is very nice, quiet, respectful, the most understanding person in the world, doesn't even quarrel. Has a good job and many other good qualities.
But if her parents are divorced, and live in the same area, and she lives with both of them.
What is the likelihood of her divorcing in future? Anyone with similar experiences please?

Avoid any lady that's from a divorced home and lived with the mother. Run!!!!

Yes o, l met a lady, she was living with her single mum, she said no big deal in divorce and she doesn't care if her marriage end the same, wetin l know
I just walk away gently


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Divorce, is not infectious.......

A child from a divorced home, is more likely to avoid going down the path of divorce...... But thunder, might strike twice at the same spot....... 🤣😂

Letsmeet:
Please everyone, what's your opinion on this?
Is it wise to date a young lady from a divorced home?
If She is very nice, quiet, respectful, the most understanding person in the world, doesn't even quarrel. Has a good job and many other good qualities.
But if her parents are divorced, and live in the same area, and she lives with both of them.
What is the likelihood of her divorcing in future? Anyone with similar experiences please?

My belief is that apple doesn’t always fall too far from the tree. She has to make a conscious effort for same not to repeat itself in her life, try as she may, the subconscious always has a way of taking over one’s behavior. She would have subconsciously imbibed the idea that at a point she too would have to divorce her husband. The husband could even be the best husband in the world but folks from such family always have a tendency to self sabotage.

Now all hope is not lost, as long as she can rewire her mindset through therapy and more importantly spiritually then she can go on to have a wonderful family. You too would need to help her with this by being involved every step of the way.

Foodqueen:
If she have a good relationship with both parent especially her dad, then u can go ahead cos in her mind, she would really wish her parent weren't seperated.

But if she doesn't and always blame her father for everything, then move cos she will put her frustration on you.

Best answer

Divorce usually has a psychological effect on the children.
If she ended up with her mother after her parents separated and her mother brought her up with the mindset that her father is evil, wicked, useless, untrustworthy and deadbeat, my brother you will have a lot to contend with when you marry such girl.
Any day you Bleep up in that marriage, you will see the tiger in her.
Don't be deceived by her initial show of love and perfection

Letsmeet:
Please everyone, what's your opinion on this?
Is it wise to date a young lady from a divorced home?
If She is very nice, quiet, respectful, the most understanding person in the world, doesn't even quarrel. Has a good job and many other good qualities.
But if her parents are divorced, and live in the same area, and she lives with both of them.
What is the likelihood of her divorcing in future? Anyone with similar experiences please?

. Is divorce an airborne disease? Is it contagious? My brother, you must pursue your relationship with all positivity especially if you are cool with the girl. It is all about how you iron things in your own marriage that will determine if you will be divorced or not.

Sometimes it works the other way round, makes them hate divorce because of what they went through.

Highly likely, they are messed up mentally.
I have dated two of them, they are both same, they see guys as cheaters and they have this believe that no matter the efforts they put in place, the union still not work becos men are scum
They lost the zeal for Love

Letsmeet:
Please everyone, what's your opinion on this?
Is it wise to date a young lady from a divorced home?
If She is very nice, quiet, respectful, the most understanding person in the world, doesn't even quarrel. Has a good job and many other good qualities.
But if her parents are divorced, and live in the same area, and she lives with both of them.
What is the likelihood of her divorcing in future? Anyone with similar experiences please?

kamtrix:

But what of in a case where the lady is well cultured and we'll mannered. The kind that you will never know her parents are divorced unless she tells you? And she is close to both her parents

Oga, it is more likely, a lady from a divorced home will tend towards divorce than one not from a separated home.
That is why parents ask questions about the families of intended in laws.
All those things have an impact on a child, in this case a daughter.

CuriousCart:
I think they will even want to do anything to prevent a repeat. The main problem should be if they will agree to marry - which isn't the case here - so I'm wondering what your problem is.

Agree to marry as in they may not rate marriage as as high as many others do?

Letsmeet:
Please everyone, what's your opinion on this?
Is it wise to date a young lady from a divorced home?
If She is very nice, quiet, respectful, the most understanding person in the world, doesn't even quarrel. Has a good job and many other good qualities.
But if her parents are divorced, and live in the same area, and she lives with both of them.
What is the likelihood of her divorcing in future? Anyone with similar experiences please?

You should know that such background can equally be a strong motivation and influencing factor for such a young lady to want to ensure she carry out due diligence and ensure everything within her own marriage remain intact and not go the way of her parent.

Not divorced per say, but girl that solely brought up by single mother (divorced or widow)


Many hardly known how to lived under husband.

nedekid:

Oga, it is more likely, a lady from a divorced home will tend towards divorce than one not from a separated home.
That is why parents ask questions about the families of intended in laws.
All those things have an impact on a child, in this case a daughter.

And a guy from divorced parent?

Letsmeet:
Please everyone, what's your opinion on this?
Is it wise to date a young lady from a divorced home?
If She is very nice, quiet, respectful, the most understanding person in the world, doesn't even quarrel. Has a good job and many other good qualities.
But if her parents are divorced, and live in the same area, and she lives with both of them.
What is the likelihood of her divorcing in future? Anyone with similar experiences please?

Every small quarrel otilo...

Letsmeet:
Please everyone, what's your opinion on this?
Is it wise to date a young lady from a divorced home?
If She is very nice, quiet, respectful, the most understanding person in the world, doesn't even quarrel. Has a good job and many other good qualities.
But if her parents are divorced, and live in the same area, and she lives with both of them.
What is the likelihood of her divorcing in future? Anyone with similar experiences please?

The simple answer is yes. If your parents are divorced, you are more likely to divorce because there is less sense of shame, you are not doing what others have not done in your family. If your parents are together you are more likely to work harder and not see divorce as an option. If divorce is not an option, you are more likely to work harder to salvage your marriage.

Imagine a husband or wife from a home where the parents were divorced going to the parent to say I am divorcing my husband or wife. The father or mother has no mouth to say try and salvage your marriage …..so it is easier to children of divorced homes to divorce when things get hard because there is precedence.

To paraphrase from a sunny ade song……..you don’t get annoyed with a child that resembles his parent.

If you want to know the future of your wife or husband…look at the mother or father. If you want to know what kind of marriage is in store for you, look at the marriage of the parents of your potential spouse. Divorced parents is a red flag, single mother (parents never married) is a no no.

Honestly they are prone to divorce and battling with one now

Letsmeet:
Please everyone, what's your opinion on this?
Is it wise to date a young lady from a divorced home?
If She is very nice, quiet, respectful, the most understanding person in the world, doesn't even quarrel. Has a good job and many other good qualities.
But if her parents are divorced, and live in the same area, and she lives with both of them.
What is the likelihood of her divorcing in future? Anyone with similar experiences please?

Very high. But not 100 %

What of males from divorced homes , so ladies shouldn't get married to them .

Only you said the lady is good , respectful and every other good qualities and yet you're not still convinced she's the one for you .

Nobody wish to get married and later divorced, it takes two to tango .

Will you act like her dad or will she act like her mom ??

Contrary to what people here believe, they will put in effort and ensure they dont repeat the mistakes of their parents. Some of you, your parents wallowed in abject poverty, why did you struggle to break out? You would have followed the paths of your parents.

Foodqueen:
If she have a good relationship with both parent especially her dad, then u can go ahead cos in her mind, she would really wish her parent weren't seperated.

But if she doesn't and always blame her father for everything, then move cos she will put her frustration on you.

you're wise. Op this is your answer. I can't add nor subtract

They is element in them.