purples25:
Communication is key. Ask her about it in a friendly way. If she is sensible and innocent of any fishy business she will answer calmly.

Dunno why you're scared to ask.

davidodufote:
All of you saying "why didn't he get her a phone since all this while"? As per what abeg? Is he her father, her blood brother? Abi she no get parent or what? Whats with the entitled mentality.
Dude just over look her getting a new phone. See ehn, in the law of women, its combine effort . So choose either to add to the contribution or walk away. Shior

Girlee:


😂😂 Bros she's just your girlfriend. I thought guys appreciates independent ladies🤔
Besides, you didn't mention that she's an orphan or the only child of a poor couple and hence, you're all that she's got. Her older sibling must have supported her in the phone purchase (that's if she has any 🤷) or maybe her parents did.
You were expecting her to wait for you? After all the months that have passed?
What does being an apprentice make her? Come on! Anyone could have offered to buy her a new phone and that's nothing you should fret about.
Insecurity everywhere 😒...

"Nigerian girls will not kill me" - what are you implying? That they're all like your girlfriend. Mhen! Your girlfriend, obviously isn't guilty of anything. People have their ways and don't always think it's an illegal way. Whichever means through which she got the phone shouldn't bother you as long as you're both still together.
Una relationship matter sef 😩💔...
Yunno I got my present phone while I was preparing for my WAEC, without a job and broke. I accepted this guy's friend request on Facebook 3 years ago and while we were chatting, I was slow in replying. He asked why and I told him my phone's screen was bad. He asked for my account details and sent me 50k immediately. We're just friends that haven't met in real life up till date. So chill! Be anxious for nothing...

Dshocker:


There is no proof she is cheating, or someone bought it for her.

My advice is that you should watch her closely to see if there is change in attitude, because that is where it comes from.

frozen70:


Well keep watching her you will notice if she has another guy or she is still with just you alone but saved the money to buy the phone

But I would have appreciated her if she has brought half of the saved money and ask you to help her complete the money to buy a new phone

Like I said, watch her loyalty now that she has proved that she can do it herself

Blackskinman007:


Alaye,,,
If you wanna live long, "avoid engaging those entitled gender" they are opportunistic!!

makeherscream:
exactly what I will do I want to keep an eye on her now, we just finish our late night conversation and she have been giving me all her attention ever since she bought the phone ,

no change of attitude yet Sha , she's a good girl Sha just praying to God let it not be what am thinking ,

because it will affect my life somehow I pray against suicide oo , I love her so much and am sure she feels same for me ,

No wonder some people hardly fall in love this days , falling deep in love is very dangerous it's not good for the health swears , I just hope Sha is not what am thinking , if it happens and I survive the shock ehnnnn omo I will never fall in love again oo

frozen70:


Just relax, you could be having a hard working girl who loves you and wants to assist you

member13:

Oga, this is very simple. Send me her number and I will send a text asking her to hookup for 100K. I have done this for 4 of my friends; only 1 woman passed.

makeherscream:
phone is a pitty thing right you are senseless Sha Nigerian girls are just too useless swear , the fact that I have not bought her a new phone is not because maybe am broke or something , I have a lot of bills to pay and some family members to feed is not that easy for me she should understand all this , afterall I was already planning to surprise her with the phone on her birthday,

But you talk like a bitch

makeherscream:
he can even spell correctly you are too dumb bro , na you 9know weather poverty dey wear you wrapper oo as for me am doing well in life

davidodufote:
All of you saying "why didn't he get her a phone since all this while"? As per what abeg? Is he her father, her blood brother? Abi she no get parent or what? Whats with the entitled mentality.
Dude just over look her getting a new phone. See ehn, in the law of women, its combine effort . So choose either to add to the contribution or walk away. Shior

makeherscream:
🤔 I just hope so , anyway thanks for your concern , Jah bless you

Oma000:

Silentgroper:





what if he does need to be suspicious..


😏😏😏



you might need to chill out ..


what's getting you worked up

makeherscream:
Good afternoon my fellow nairalanders I greet you all ,

my girlfriend who is still an apprentice bought a new phone yesterday , I was surprised when she came to my house yesterday holding the new phone on her hand ,

When I ask her how and where she get money to buy the phone , she said she have been saving money since January to buy the phone, am wondering where she get all the money she has been saving ever since from ,🤔

because she's just an apprentice she's not earning salary or is it the little 5k ,10k 15k that I'm giving her she was saving or is it what am thinking?🤔 I just hope is not what I am thinking 🙁 hmmmmm Nigerian girls will not kill me ,

She lost her phone last year November I promise her I will get her a new phone that she should be patient,

and have been planning to surprise her with a new phone on her birthday , her birthday is just few weeks from now June 20 ,

Nairalanders how una see this matter

makeherscream:
am not scared to ask I even jokingly ask her if it was her side boo that bought it for her , she said no that she saved both the little I have been giving to her and the ones she's getting from her dad , am just thinking how she was able to save 97k to buy a phone 🤔

Sixfeetbelle:


As if you yourself can stay one month without phone. Mtchewww

Carry your hypocritical self outta here

Johnson225:

Omalicha

Sixfeetbelle:


What if he doesn't need to be suspicious?

Besides he's already concluded on how the money came about, so I'm certain he posted it here to get validation and confirmation about it.

I'm not worked up. Relatively pissed that I bothered to reply when he already got what he wanted to hear

Silentgroper:


Aight...



On the flip side, it could be that he came here looking for 2nd opinion ...

what you thought was a conclusion might actually be what he thinks is the conclusion but still giving the situation the benefits of doubt..

Going through his write up .. you would see he's not so sure of his conclusion...


BUT WHAT IF HE REALLY NEEDS TO BE SUSPICIOUS


why are you so sure he doesn't need to be suspicious

Sixfeetbelle:


He really didn't come for a second opinion when he knowingly wrote the line ,"Nigerian girls will not kill me".

To answer your question:

He said he gives her some money.
She works as an apprentice and receives small money.
In a period of 8 months, someone who really needs a phone can save to buy it.

If she was a spendthrift who is lazy or greedy, she still wouldn't be doing apprentice work, but she is, which means she is diligent and focused. A focused person can achieve quite a lot.

With this few points of mine...

Silentgroper:
Yes,in the period of 8 months. someone who really needs a phone could get it..

well, phew!!!


I do not have interest in furthering this convo ..

my body just weak ..


How's oga nazgul btw?? ..

Been long I've seen him around

I hope you're taking care of him for us 😁😁😁

Sixfeetbelle:


Me, too, is tired of the conversation. This is not my relationship so why am I so invested?

Wetin concern me and Nazgul? If he's missing, I wasn't aware, and I don't know how to find him.

makeherscream:
words from a senseless fellow