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My Friend And His Girlfriend Are In A State Of Dilemma. by Sonnobax15(m): 1:21pm On Jun 08, 2023
Back then in 2017,there was this girl whom a very close friend of mine met when we were still working in a bakery....I can recall how my friend used to foot all her bills because she just moved in,to Warri from port Harcourt, even though our salaries weren't mouthwatering as at then.........But due to the fact that he was the manager then,he was subjected to be enjoying some benefits which we weren't cheesy.

Then came a time when they had a misunderstanding and she angrily left his house because they were already co-habiting...I think after a month or so,he pleaded with her and she came back....That was when she started to unleash her rude behaviors towards my friend and all of us who were close to him...I had to reduce the way I visited my friend to avoid insults undecided. She started flirting with different men, around....Tho I tried to warn my friend but he was so hell-bent on wife-ing her....As a close friend and also as a street guy,I saw alot of red flags, which seemed to be far from us,glaring upon our eyes....Still,this friend of mine never saw them or believed in them....In stead,he believed since they had both come a long way,that she'd change someday.....So I had to leave him to his fate angry

Now,fast forward to late December,then came the bigger problem.....This girl in question has recently put to bed.... Just last week,while my good friend cheesy. Was still being happy that he has become a father, another able-bodied man from nowhere has just come out to claim the baby to be his..... grin. Wahala no too much so? grin. There has been a lot of pandemonium surrounding this whole scenario,but the truth is that,I have found my arse sitting on the fence, watching how things would unfold in the coming days grin. Because I warned him,but he didn't listen,so it's now time for me to mind my business grin

Cc:::Mynd44,nlfpmod

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Re: My Friend And His Girlfriend Are In A State Of Dilemma. by yrhuhfy113: 1:30pm On Jun 08, 2023
it is wiser to MIND your business and VANISH temporarily FROM THEIR LIVES.


Because this matter is more twisted and deeper and darker than you can imagine.


WE MUST NEVER IGNORE RED FLAGS

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Re: My Friend And His Girlfriend Are In A State Of Dilemma. by Blackskinned: 1:35pm On Jun 08, 2023
Wahala wahala (in portable's voice) grin

but honestly you don't need to bring your friend's marital issue here. The ameboism is not necessary.

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Re: My Friend And His Girlfriend Are In A State Of Dilemma. by sisisioge: 1:40pm On Jun 08, 2023
Sonnobax15:
Back then in 2017,there was this girl whom a very close friend of mine met when we were still working in a bakery....I can recall how my friend used to be foot all her bills because she just moved in,to Warri from port Harcourt, even though our salaries weren't mouthwatering at all.......But due to the fact that he was the manager then,he was subjected to be enjoying some benefits which we weren't cheesy.

Then came a time when they had a misunderstanding and she angrily left his house because they were already co-habiting...I think after a month or so,he pleaded with her and she came back....That was when she started to unleash her rude behaviors towards my friend and all of us who were close to him...I had to reduce the way I visited my friend to avoid insults undecided. She started flirting with different men, aroundTho I tried to warn my friend but he was so hell-bent on wife-ing her....As a close friend and also as a street guy,I saw alot of red flags, which seemed to be far from us,glaring upon our eyes....Still,this friend of mine never saw them or believed in them....He believed since they had both come a long way,that she'd change someday.....

Now,fast forward to late December,then came the bigger problem.....This girl in question has recently put to bed.... Just last week,while my good friend cheesy. Was still being happy that he has become a father, another able-bodied man from somewhere else has just come out to claim the baby to be his..... grin. Wahala no too much so? grin. There has been a lot of pandemonium surrounding this whole scenario,but the truth is that,I have found my arse sitting on the fence, watching how things would unfold in the coming days grin

Cc:::Mynd44,nlfpmod

grin grin grin grin

A lot of pandemonium will surround the paternity ofcourse! I just hope that even DNA wont suggest neither isn't the father grin. Poor loving eyes....they no dey see fa.

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Re: My Friend And His Girlfriend Are In A State Of Dilemma. by Sonnobax15(m): 1:41pm On Jun 08, 2023
sisisioge:


grin grin grin grin

A lot of pandemonium will surround the paternity ofcourse! I just hope that even DNA wont suggest neither isn't the father grin. Poor loving eyes....they no dey see fa.
grin. I swear..
Re: My Friend And His Girlfriend Are In A State Of Dilemma. by Sonnobax15(m): 1:42pm On Jun 08, 2023
lipsrsealed
Re: My Friend And His Girlfriend Are In A State Of Dilemma. by Marthyboco(f): 2:02pm On Jun 08, 2023
They should hold a family meeting while the other dude will explain how the whole thing happened.... Lastly she knows who the father is. But might decide to choose who ever. Sadly

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Re: My Friend And His Girlfriend Are In A State Of Dilemma. by GOFRONT(m): 2:03pm On Jun 08, 2023
So many people are in this state of dilemma.

What is the Capital of this state??
Re: My Friend And His Girlfriend Are In A State Of Dilemma. by Berrityga: 2:51pm On Jun 08, 2023
Jealous and bitter of your friends happiness that it excites you now his in deep shiiiit. This is why gun should be legalized in this coubtry
Re: My Friend And His Girlfriend Are In A State Of Dilemma. by DaHrNn0001: 8:45pm On Jun 08, 2023
Either which way,these things happen and it's so disheartening that our society has been so degraded that their is no remorse when a married man or woman cheats. Marriage is NOT must. Just stay single or baby mama rather than using people to satisfy your own greed.

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Re: My Friend And His Girlfriend Are In A State Of Dilemma. by austine4real(m): 9:03pm On Jun 08, 2023
He will learn by force

Re: My Friend And His Girlfriend Are In A State Of Dilemma. by izonborn098(m): 10:47pm On Jun 08, 2023
Berrityga:
Jealous and bitter of your friends happiness that it excites you now his in deep shiiiit. This is why gun should be legalized in this coubtry
do you read the full story

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Re: My Friend And His Girlfriend Are In A State Of Dilemma. by Baronthecelebri: 11:03pm On Jun 08, 2023
Your guy is stupid, leave him, let him die, later go and eat his burial rice and beans.

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Re: My Friend And His Girlfriend Are In A State Of Dilemma. by Vision101(m): 11:21pm On Jun 08, 2023
@Marthyboco
They should hold a family meeting while the other dude will explain how the whole thing happened.... Lastly she knows who the father is. But might decide to choose who ever. Sadly.


@me
How she go know? This one put and that one put. Wahala for chop one chop two.

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Re: My Friend And His Girlfriend Are In A State Of Dilemma. by felong(m): 11:44pm On Jun 08, 2023
undecided

Re: My Friend And His Girlfriend Are In A State Of Dilemma. by Sonnobax15(m): 7:07am On Jun 09, 2023
izonborn098:
do you read the full story
. Leave that guy alone... Didn't you notice how I ignored him? No be every thing person dey reply.... Nairaland has taught me that.
Re: My Friend And His Girlfriend Are In A State Of Dilemma. by talented321: 8:31am On Jun 09, 2023
Sonnobax15:
. Leave that guy alone... Didn't you notice how I ignored him? No be every thing person dey reply.... Nairaland has taught me that.
your friend is big simp let him learn the hard way, but i will tell jaga to appoint him as the minister of simps sha

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