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After 10 Years At A Federal University. I NEED HELP. by Jp96(m): 3:28pm On Jun 23, 2023
I'm depressed. So depressed. I'm totally unhappy. A once promising boy held in high esteem by family and friends now looks confused, clueless and hopeless.

I had my pre degree in 2013 and gained admission in 2014. I changed my initial course of study at 400L and started afresh at 200L. I studied a Transport related course. Although, after the change of course, I was meant to graduate at age 24. With convid-19 and last year's 8-month strike, I graduated at age 26. Sadly, I'll be 27 years next month (july).

I heard my school won't release us for service next month, batch B, but for batch C in November. That actually broke me to pieces this morning and added to my depression. CHANCES OF GETTING A JOB IS PUNCTURED and time isn't waiting.

I'm pained right now because I'll remain idle from now until November. My mum and I are worried, but my dad isn't. I tried talking to him, he asked me to relax at home and go for service in November.
Why would I be home from now until November doing nothing?

There's no one to help me, no work, no business, no skill, no money, no motivator, no job, no friends. Just nothing. I do not want to remain Idle for FOUR MONTHS, and this is a cry for HELP. For anyone who can help me with any job, any skill, or help me out one way or the other just to get off this comfort zone. I pray God almighty will return the favour to you..

I live before Iyanaipaja, lagos. Thank you Sirs and Mas.

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Re: After 10 Years At A Federal University. I NEED HELP. by jackmrandy: 4:04pm On Jun 23, 2023
Jp96:
I'm depressed. So depressed. I'm totally unhappy. A once promising boy held in high esteem by family and friends now looks confused, clueless and hopeless.

I had my pre degree in 2013 and gained admission in 2014. I changed my initial course of study at 400L and started afresh at 200L. I studied a Transport related course. Although, after the change of course, I was meant to graduate at age 24. With convid-19 and last year's 8-month strike, I graduated at age 26. Sadly, I'll be 27 years next month (july).

I heard my school won't release us for service next month, batch B, but for batch C in November. That actually broke me to pieces this morning and added to my depression. CHANCES OF GETTING A JOB IS PUNCTURED and time isn't waiting.

I'm pained right now because I'll remain idle from now until November. My mum and I are worried, but my dad isn't. I tried talking to him, he asked me to relax at home and go for service in November.
Why would I be home from now until November doing nothing?

There's no one to help me, no work, no business, no skill, no money, no motivator, no job, no friends. Just nothing. I do not want to remain Idle for FOUR MONTHS, and this is a cry for HELP. For anyone who can help me with any job, any skill, or help me out one way or the other just to get off this comfort zone. I pray God almighty will return the favour to you..

I live before Iyanaipaja, lagos. Thank you Sirs and Mas.

don't cry your self out. learn something usefull. drop your contact if you are ready to learn and smile to the bank

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Re: After 10 Years At A Federal University. I NEED HELP. by Stevenbright(m): 4:04pm On Jun 23, 2023
This is Nigeria! If you continue like this, you will just harm yourself for nothing.

What makes you think going to service before 27 years of age is what will determine your chances of getting a job or being successful in life. See life in Nigeria is street and you have to be strong as a guy to overcome the various challenges you will surely encounter.

So, go out there and look for a job by yourself as that will help build your confidence and give you experience too.

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Re: After 10 Years At A Federal University. I NEED HELP. by superCleanworks(m): 4:07pm On Jun 23, 2023
Jp96:

I'm pained right now because I'll remain idle from now until November.

this Statement is an affirmation of your plan. This is like a declaration of your schedule from now till November.
You are thinking & viewing things from a tilted point and you will trap your mindset with this.

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Re: After 10 Years At A Federal University. I NEED HELP. by Jp96(m): 6:36pm On Jun 23, 2023
Stevenbright:
This is Nigeria! If you continue like this, you will just harm yourself for nothing.

What makes you think going to service before 27 years of age is what will determine your chances of getting a job or being successful in life. See, life in Nigeria is street and you have to be strong as a guy to overcome the various challenges you will surely encounter.

So, go out there and look for a job by yourself as that will help build your confidence and give you experience too.

I've been looking for, no one around me is really helping. Everyone is quiet and just staring at me.
I'm so hopeless right now
Re: After 10 Years At A Federal University. I NEED HELP. by Jp96(m): 6:38pm On Jun 23, 2023
superCleanworks:


this Statement is an affirmation of your plan. This is like a declaration of your schedule from now till November.
You are thinking & viewing things from a tilted point and you will trap your mindset with this.

That's why I'm here, crying for help if anyone can help with a skill or job.
I'm willing to work and not to remain Idle. That's why I came out here in the first place.
Re: After 10 Years At A Federal University. I NEED HELP. by Exmilitant(m): 6:58pm On Jun 23, 2023
bros count your blessings o, some people dey look for way to get Bsc you dey here dey whine. november na next year?

as long as your popsy and momsy no dey worried why you no calm down eat and relax well so that you go fresh before service. undecided

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Re: After 10 Years At A Federal University. I NEED HELP. by Icrave4u: 6:58pm On Jun 23, 2023
Oga there are alot of things you can learn online with your phone stop looking for sympathy no one is going to pity you not even me by the way you re still young. Please make urself useful. You re even staying with ur parents with free food use that opportunity to equip urself mentally by learning a digital skills. U can create contents witb your phone on youtube there alot of things to do to earn money for yourself without working for someone , you can even sell other people product online add ur own and take ur profit, what of those who have no one to look up to. Man up nd get busy sir. If you dnt have a job create one.

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Re: After 10 Years At A Federal University. I NEED HELP. by Omakraid(f): 7:00pm On Jun 23, 2023
Jp96:


That's why I'm here, crying for help if anyone can help with a skill or job.
I'm willing to work and not to remain Idle. That's why I came out here in the first place.
Build your CV and submit in offices around you.. Also start visiting the jobs/vacancies section for Jobs you can apply for.

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Re: After 10 Years At A Federal University. I NEED HELP. by Jp96(m): 8:26pm On Jun 23, 2023
Omakraid:

Build your CV and submit in offices around you.. Also start visiting the jobs/vacancies section for Jobs you can apply for.

Thank you ma
Re: After 10 Years At A Federal University. I NEED HELP. by Jp96(m): 8:36pm On Jun 23, 2023
Icrave4u:
Oga there are alot of things you can learn online with your phone stop looking for sympathy no one is going to pity you not even me by the way you re still young. Please make urself useful. You re even staying with ur parents with free food use that opportunity to equip urself mentally by learning a digital skills. U can create contents witb your phone on youtube there alot of things to do to earn money for yourself without working for someone , you can even sell other people product online add ur own and take ur profit, what of those who have no one to look up to. Man up nd get busy sir. If you dnt have a job create one.

The last thing I'm looking for is sympathy. Read well, I'm only looking for help. If you can help me with a job or skill, pls feel free to suggest or link me up. Thank you.
I don't want free food at my age either. Thanks
Re: After 10 Years At A Federal University. I NEED HELP. by Nobody: 8:42pm On Jun 23, 2023
Jp96:


I've been looking for, no one around me is really helping. Everyone is quiet and just staring at me.
I'm so hopeless right now

Nobody owes you anything in life bro. Nobody really cares about you. You need to step up your game, pick up a digital skill and learn while you look for something to be doing now, anything legal. Drop that certificate and hustle...

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Re: After 10 Years At A Federal University. I NEED HELP. by Jp96(m): 8:43pm On Jun 23, 2023
Exmilitant:
bros count your blessings o, some people dey look for way to get Bsc you dey here dey whine. november na next year?

as long as your popsy and momsy no dey worried why you no calm down eat and relax well so that you go fresh before service. undecided

My mum and I are worried, popsy isn't. I am grateful for having a Bsc.
We have 4 months before November. It's normal I need to work or perfect a skill.
Re: After 10 Years At A Federal University. I NEED HELP. by Jp96(m): 10:08pm On Jun 23, 2023
saintelvnn:


Nobody owes you anything in life bro. Nobody really cares about you. You need to step up your game, pick up a digital skill and learn while you look for something to be doing now, anything legal. Drop that certificate and hustle...

Thanks boss
Re: After 10 Years At A Federal University. I NEED HELP. by Jp96(m): 8:25am On Oct 19
[quote author=jackmrandy post=123986693]

May we not miss help in this life

I just saw that you asked for my contact cry
I'll be rounding up with my service this month end

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