pro01:


ill-mannered pretender covered in Brazilian hair from her head down to her p.u.b.ic region.

iice:

Hmmm i used to think i was high maintenance emotionally. Ok make that, still think i am.

staga:

Any high-maintenance girl that is not giving equivalent returns in puss.y is not worth it. Imagine a girl asking me to pay her house rent when I have not even had her once. That one no go work o!

Orikinla:

A wise guy will date at the level he can afford.

Princek12:

You need to expose yourself to more facets of life, and you need to read and critically think about people's opinions and respond addressing the issues, not just by saying that my opinion is not well founded. Why is not well founded? Don't you think there is a veracity to my comment?

Ha! Ye!  You still have the audacity to type these n*****s*?! Still talking about veracity?  Lol.

Oga, maybe you didn't hear yourself type. You said/typed:

I don't stereotype anyone, but if she is into popular brands, then to me it is a sign that she has a low self esteem.

First of all, you said you don't stereotype ANYONE, but ANY LADY that is into popular brands has a low self esteem. What a statement! You contradicted yourself Sir.  

Secondly, (ignoring the first portion of your statement) you're implying that ANY WOMAN/GIRL/LADY, that wears GUCCI/PRADA/GIVENCHY/VERA WANG/YSL/OSCAR DE LA RENTA has a low slow self esteem.  

Does that even make any form of sense to you---? Seriously? Does it?

Princek12:

Perhaps my comment hit home and you are in denials.

lol -- Me? Gucci? Atall. I haven't gotten to that "stage" yet. Hopefully I will; when God starts blessing my hustle. I'm still rocking H&M and Forever21.  

The absurdity and ridiculousness of your statement caught my attention. I had to quote/question you.

Owu gal:

NOW, high maintenanace has levels.

sexkillz:

[color=#000099]OP!
I like the way you analyzed yourself, honestly! You know what you want, you go for it, You pay for your stuff and that's very Good! Any guy coming your way should at least notice how you expend your self to take care of yourself and should naturally not expect less from you simply because you are dating him! I know you will also appreciate it if he chips in on the expense once in a while, (dont lie ) cos even though you might not need it , it still goes a long way to show that he cares about you and about you maintaining your looks! Kudos!
You'll also agree with me that there are wanna be high maintenance girls! These are the kinds that want all of the above, but the only difference is that they expect the funding to come from external sources! This puts majority of Guys off! Especially those that dont earn much, but still wanna have a feel of what dating a high maintenance chic is like! Now when those guys fall into wrong hands, they come online and open a thread and start blowing their lids off, about how a Nigerian girl did blah blah blah! Pitiable lopsided discombobulated individuals!
I dont think high maintenance ladies are bad! They know what they want! Is that a crime? Hell raised to the power of NO! If i know that from my salary, i cant contribute to making my Gf(high maintenance or not) look good, then what's the point? If i make less than the cost of a brazilian weave( ) why o why should i go after a lady i know uses brazilian weave on herself? Is that dumb, or plain stupidity on my part? What annoys me is the way some of my brothers mouth off about demands from chics! The way i see it is that they wanna date high maintenance chics, but and then they look for those they feel might not be high maintenance, not knowing that these ones are the wannabe types! My advice:
Ladies, be yourself! Maintain yourself the way you deem fit, and try as much as possible to cater for yourself atleast! No matter the class of maintenance you find yourself, be it high, low, medium , short term, Whatever, the point is looking good! Any guy that approaches you, irrespective of your class, should be able to compartmentalize which category you fall into! When you make him understand you cater for your self, he appreciates you the more and would be more than willing to assist in your expenses, without complains! Trust me!
Guys, be yourself! No good comes from being ostentatious! If you notice the chic is high maintenance above your level, pls waka fast! No good running after someone and then when time comes for you to chip in, you tell pitiable stories! Shoe get size! If she's not your size, bounce! And there are low maintenance ladies too! Those that dont bother about brazilian hair, but are content with the normal Amigo attachments! Yes! na me talk it! There are pepper sellers, groundnut sellers, shop attendants, store keepers, they need some good loving too!

Hell! See epistle!

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da student:

Make a lady emotionally happy,she would adjust herself to your current status no matter how high maintenance she is.

If you are a so called high maintenance girl who judges a guy based on his dressing,then well you might never get to meet some of the most amazing people on this earth based on your stereotypical judgement.

High maintenance=Generally Fake.

High Maintenance=Missionary Position

High maintenance=Eww,i can't give you head.

High maintenance= I can't pull you expensive Brazilian hair except i can afford it.

High maintenance=I can't be myself around you.

High maintenance= I can't say my random WTF did he just say that jokes because it might be below her standard "etiquette".

High maintenance =Find a way to change me to your ideal man.(from experience)
Finally,drum roll dum dum dum dum

High maintenance= Plastic

So why should i bother my head?

Blazing88:

if a lady is highmaintaince with her money. Its all good. But when she hops from bed to bed in other to b high maintainace then she shld b ashamed of herself and also d gucci bags she carries. Life is more dan dat. God has given us beautiful hair,beautiful skin. Our fathers married our mothers cos of dr characters not looks! so ladies should breathe.!

coogar:

there's nothing morally wrong when a woman is high maintenance!
her life - her choice. even when she's high maintenance with her money, some men would still complain. dating a woman with high maintenance still requires her man to buy luxury products for her. birthdays, christmas gifts, etc would come and the gnashing of teeth from her man will follow.

staga:

Any high-maintenance girl that is not giving equivalent returns in puss.y is not worth it. Imagine a girl asking me to pay her house rent when I have not even had her once. That one no go work o!

claremont:

I wouldn't mind dating a lady that is "high maintenance", so long as she pays for her high tastes herself. No problem there, problem will only arise if/when she starts to bestow upon me a financial onus I don't have.

Owu gal:

to those men who say they go for the non- weave babes who are not high maintenance, you dey lie and are well deceived.

NOW, high maintenanace has levels.

there is the girl who likes her gap, old navy, express and forever 21.

theres the girl who loves her anne klein, juicy couture, and celebrity designer wear.

then theres the girl who loves her gucci , prada, valentino and versace.

it depends on whose pocket the bill is being footed.

most of the natural babes i see dont have boyfriends and they are into poetry and black is beautiful, black peoples rights activist activities.

most of the ladies in weave, with a love for sephora, mary kay (actually not mary kay),  Mac and sleek always have boyfriends.

so you guys are deceived. Who no like better thing.?

its like a woman saying she has a fondness for poor guys with bad breath. Shege, Kai, olorun ma jen kin gbo. naa lie.

Beauty is to men as money is to women.

no beauty no lambourghini

and fake hair and makeup is not a multi trillion dollar industry all over the world for nothing.

how many ladies do you know get married with their own real hair attached to their heads at the alter.

stop all this deception.

money is good

beauty is good

and you men borrow your friends cars

so why cant we women borrow( actually buy) a brazilian or indian womans hair

please lets all wake up.

if a weaved woman broke your heart, after she realized your jaguar wasnt yours, then your fault.

so high maintenance or not, there are plenty of guys out there who are horrible in character, they often have a GF to match

i actually want plastic surgery right now. beauty is good, no one sees another person and says WOW, LOOK AT THE VIRTUE ON HER/HIM. they see your face and clothes first.

but if you want to maintain the relationship i admit you need character and perhaps juju and  threat. but its all good. the world is as it is

agnesefe:

, and, so this was what female liberation and empowerment was turned to achieve, an age of the pseudos and vacuous. So much was expended, sacrificed and invested- energy from rallies, optimism and politesse-how we got it all wrong,