Men are from Mars while women are from Venus. Its been a long debate over the differences between the sexes, all through out the modern times, many educated people like psychologists probe into the mess of finding the dissimilarities between male and female. Many magazines feature what men want and what women want. But clearly, not one has distinctively answered the question. Not one answer can generalize the preference of each sex. Okay, men can be quite easier to read, but with women, its like going through a labyrinth blindfolded. But generally, women are much more romantic. Dealing in fantasies and dreams while men tend to be more realistic.

Even in the form of intimacy, men and women have different preferences. While men are more direct, women tend to prefer cuddling and stroking. It is quite a known fact that a large number of women would like to be cuddled after sex, while most men would rather go to sleep or just be left alone. Men and women have diverse penchants in physiological responses after sex. Science explains this; men are inclined to go to sleep because the serotonin rush that males have after orgasm normally causes a yearning for sleep. Whereas the female species tend to be revitalized due to the adrenergic and noradrenergic stimulus. Women releases a hormone called oxytocin which us in response to sexual activity, this hormone has the tendency to extract the urge to be close and bond with her partner. Studies have shown that most women would rather cuddle than have sex; this fits the need they have for closeness and intimacy.

Cuddling has been an issue for many men because they feel it is too effeminate. Many men have a hard time exposing their feelings and when it is cuddling time, women tend to be very personal and open that some men shrink from the idea alone. There are many men who cannot handle this experience and don’t know how to cuddle with women. Some are embarrassed that they cannot provide this experience to the women they love for fear of doing it wrong. But the point that you are reading this now is that you are willing to cuddle with your women, and that is already half the battle. Here are some basic tips on how to cuddle with women.

Cuddling with women needs a lot of attention. It is not as easy as it looks, but once you get the hang of it and you do it with the person you love it is a cinch, you might even like it. First of, you have to relax. Having a woman in your arms is a great thing. Even if it is just in your car, the sofa or in the bed, cuddling would be a great bonding experience for the both of you.

Be gentle, do not just pull her next to, timing is everything. Set the mood, you can listen to romantic music or watch a movie together (romantic movie is a must). You can just sit still and gently wrap your arms around her and slowly pull her in. Give her a little peck on the forehead and let her head rest gently on your chest or shoulder. From time to time, you can smell her hair and comment in a whisper how nice it smells.

Do not be afraid to open up your feelings with her, be honest and be sensitive about her feelings as well. Try to rub her arm or shoulder from time to time; this will make her feel secure in your arms. Don’t forget the loving kiss, in cuddles a gentle kiss is all she needs. If you put your heart into it, these cuddles will feel really genuine and she will love you more for that. As time progresses and you get your experience, you can develop other techniques based on what you observe with your woman.
niyi. source:www.datingscheme.com

Too long summary plz.

huh?all these in the name of cuddles?
I think we should find Cuddlemi.

slimyem:

huh?all these in the name of cuddles?
I think we should find Cuddlemi.

Right behind u

sexkillz:

Huh? To Cuddle a woman, i move over to her and cuddle her! What's all these quadruplicated nonsense?

Guy . . . you've started again abi? . .  Thank God say na library i dey today. . . all this your unpolished fomented, fabricated english must be put to an end.

oh cuddlemii come and explain this.

sexkillz:

Jeez! Una no go kill me for this place! Quadruplicated means : Fourfold. Multiplied by 4! Na wa o!
Ok Duplicate x2, triplicate x3, quadruplicate x4, quintuplicate x5,  sextupled x6. . . . Should i continue? Why do ye hate English so much?

because it was not my ancestor language

^And what language did you just write in? "Ancestralish?"

pendo89:

oh cuddlemii come and explain this.

Paragrapgh 1

Men and women are from different planets as such they reason differently, want different things and express themselves differently. No one has answers to why it is so. But one thing is for sure women are more complex to deal with unlike men who are realistic.

Paragraph 2 & 3

Explains the reactions of both sexes before, during & after sex. The scientific or biological reasons to justify these reactions. Women are the species that loves cuddling most. Men would have loved to but they are scared they would not do it right. But any man that has read this far means he is willing to cuddle his woman. Once you admit to your flaws then the problem is half solved & rest is history. Now buckle up lets teach u how to handle your your lady with a grip, don't hold too tight baby.

Paragraph 4

Explains the right posture for cuddling. Intimate locations for cuddling like the car, sofa etc as long as it is comfortable and she doesn't slip away or fall down. Its not an easy task, brace yourself guys, but relax ok!

Paragraph 5

Get an ointment or massage oil in your hands just in case your wash clothes too much, this act needs softness and gentleness. You have to combine it with romantic vices like movies, forehead kiss, blues soul r&b at the background or it wont work. Please pulling down her dress at the cinema is wrong that is for homeless peeps or street peeps. Cuddling is for responsible peeps.

Paragraph 6

At this point, as a guy you know where you are headed, forget the torture its just a phase. You have to act open or expressive, touch her shoulders because that guaranties safety, long life & properity. Don't forget the gentle kiss, please avoid making noise with your lips like u are whistling for a dogs attention. Remember once you unlock those doors with your woman, the sky is the limit with women. With cuddles, you can achieve anything.


THE END, Ha u are still reading, u r already in the spirit

sexkillz:

^^ I'm Maniacally bewildered!

Guy which kind Dictionary you dey use self . . .?

I thought i was going to learn something on this thread, same ol, same ol.

seedord247:

Guy which kind Dictionary you dey use self . . .?

Are you Kidding me? I have to explain what that means too?

sexkillz:

Are you Kidding me? I have to explain what that means too?

I school in greek country so i don't much about those patrick Obiagbhon english

honeric01:

I thought i was going to learn something on this thread, same ol, same ol.

All those english the guy they formulate are not enough for you to learn.

cuddling is not as easy as it looks?? really? the article writer must have been raised by wolves or something

Naija women from venus?

are u serous what the hell

Why dnt Nigerians read, for real?

Even one paragraph is too much for you guys. No wonder why some ppl either have receding logical skills or none at all.

Reading is good for the mind. Plz read.

@Post

Thank you for teaching our men. Simple cuddling Naija men no fit do o
Chaiii, I feel sorry for our ladies.
Even kiss them no fit do, dem fit chop pesin's lips off. Talkless of withstanding their decaying mouth odor.

Ileke-IdI:

Why dnt Nigerians read, for real?

Even one paragraph is too much for you guys. No wonder why some ppl either have receding logical skills or none at all.

Reading is good for the mind. Plz read.

@Post

Thank you for teaching our men. Simple cuddling Naija men no fit do o
Chaiii, I feel sorry for our ladies.
Even kiss them no fit do, dem fit chop pesin's lips off. Talkless of withstanding their decaying mouth odor.

Keep it real!

>> Chima did u see that?

See what?

>> What did u see?

3RNEST:

>> What did u see?

A big booger on your nose.

hahaha, you guys are cracking me up real good. Ride on with the grammar jare @ Nobody.

Ok o, i wil experiment it wit my woman.