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|Re: Can I Be Too Intimidating For Girls I Find It Too Hard To Attract by DonroxyII: 8:24am On Jul 27|
Most Fathers are Weak & Most Fathers ain't Available in the life of their Kids ...
The Transition from Boyhood to Manhood is Always Difficult for Most Because Even in 40s Most Men still have Boyish Bloods running in them Meanwhile ...
A girl is already a woman since she started Menstruating at Average of 16years ... With Most Mothers Present in their Daughters Life(Unlike Men) A Woman at Teenager already has Ideas of What Nature Requires from Her & As BigBoys Keep Wooing Her Left Right & Centre .. She Knows She is a Jewel to be Treasured(That's if dem no spoil her ooo) ....
Most Men are Boys in this Present World na ihm make everything Lopsided!
|Re: Can I Be Too Intimidating For Girls I Find It Too Hard To Attract by Jakumo(m): 1:03pm On Jul 27|
The first line I bolded in your comment quoted above hit home with me. While my father did his best to provide for the family and was never physically absent during my upbringing, the man was emotionally absent, in that he NEVER had any advice on that most fundamental and crucial of all life skills, namely that of forming romantic relationships with women. On the subject of dating, my father's advice, expressed more by what he did NOT say, was essentially "Focus your studies and don't date until you are ready for marriage." WTF?
For any young man growing up who has NO older brothers to explain the philosophy and strategies of courtship, and whose father has NOTHING to say on the subject, the result for many like me could be arrested social development, and in extreme cases, a LIFETIME of missed opportunities to attract women. Fatherhood entails far more than simply providing for the kids because when a father fails to sit his sons down and tutor them on the ethics and procedures of interacting with women, the likelihood is that such a socially deprived upbringing can be debilitating for years down the road, and even for a lifetime in extreme cases.
In my case, most of my aptitude for interaction with women was acquired from books with titles like "How to Meet and Seduce Women", along with youtube videos posted by online dating coaches like Australian Dan Bacon. Oh, how I wish my father had taught me even one-tenth of the knowledge I was later forced to research on my own due to prolonged loneliness as a young adult. Fathers take note. Teach your sons those life skills so they can lead happier lives and meet the partners of their dreams without having to endure years of futile trial and error in the love game.
|Re: Can I Be Too Intimidating For Girls I Find It Too Hard To Attract by koladata(m): 1:48pm On Jul 27|
leave story, even my decent elder sisters chose their husband based on the size of their pockets
|Re: Can I Be Too Intimidating For Girls I Find It Too Hard To Attract by Jakumo(m): 2:09pm On Jul 27|
I have noted in an earlier post that Nigeria's tattered economy has produced a generation of women for whom only money matters. This forum sees respondents from the world over, where such a focus on money to the exclusion of all else is not necessarily the norm.
As an example, Jeff Beezos, one of our planet's richest men, recently married an ugly middle-aged woman with plastic tits and plastic lips, who Jeff picked out of his workforce most likely because he lacks the social skills needed to meet truly beautiful women aged 20 to 25 who have no need for surgical enhancement. Soon we will hear about that elderly bride divorcing Jeff Beezos in order to claim half of his wealth unless he was wise enough to have that old bat sign a prenuptial agreement that would protect his estate in the event of a divorce.
|Re: Can I Be Too Intimidating For Girls I Find It Too Hard To Attract by koladata(m): 2:10pm On Jul 27|
sorry its not only Nigeria, its the way women are created, they date higher. I know you will ague it.
|Re: Can I Be Too Intimidating For Girls I Find It Too Hard To Attract by Jakumo(m): 2:32pm On Jul 27|
Sure wealth is a great attractant and all women aspire to marry a good provider. That said, if wealth was the ONLY determinant of eligibility to attract women, one would NEVER see Average Joe working-class men with beautiful women, because simply by being less than wealthy, those men would only qualify to date and marry old and ugly women.
Obviously, men of ALL income levels enjoy the company of beautiful women, which proves that while wealth is indeed a great bonus for any man's eligibility, being rich is fortunately NOT the ONLY criterion that women find attractive in a man.
|Re: Can I Be Too Intimidating For Girls I Find It Too Hard To Attract by DonroxyII: 2:52pm On Jul 27|
Jakumo:... You Can't Blame Our Dads Because Most of them were Inhibited By Misinterpretations & MalApplications of Religion Doctrines as well as Difficulty Requires in Upgrading their Old Odd Civilisations into New World Orders ... Abhorrence of Vogue & Woke Worlds ...
Most of them all see Life from One Dimension(1D) Leaving Children to be bemused with Billions of unanswered Questions & Mystery of Life Which Most Parents Do not even have answers to:
I don't Believe My Ideas Makes Any Sense Until It Gives me My Desired Result in Practice(The Field) thus The Field Justifies My Means(Idea) if not Then I need to Improve till You Become Master In the Game ...
We simply need to upgrade ourselves to the Contemporary Times ... Our Old Parents Can't give Us All ... They Don't Know Many Things Themselves Leading to their Incarcerations Also They Have Brainwashed Loopsided Ideas of the world of Humanities making them to Pass Same unto their Offspring leading to Generations of Weak Men ...
It's Quite Obvious an Electronic Gadgets Running on Os Developed 10years Ago Can't be able to Address Contemporary Issues nor Compete with Present OS ...
Same as Human, Don't Fight "Times" Because of the Difficulty Required in Upgrading Yourself .. Just Evolve or Perish to the Old world
The Best Teacher of Any Man is Out There is Time ......
The Problem is Many are too Comfortable in their Comfort Zones, They Need to Train their Brain On how to Be Ready & Able to Upgrade in a Jivvy With Least Hazards to Her Neurons ...
It's not Easy Anyway Due to Adaptations But With Consistent Efforts, Any Person Can become the better version of themselves!
|Re: Can I Be Too Intimidating For Girls I Find It Too Hard To Attract by Jakumo(m): 2:59pm On Jul 27|
Lots of wisdom in these words brother. You write with the cadence of a poet, yet the message is there for all who can read between the lines.
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|Re: Can I Be Too Intimidating For Girls I Find It Too Hard To Attract by koladata(m): 3:42pm On Jul 27|
well said, but if i may ask, how old are you sir?
|Re: Can I Be Too Intimidating For Girls I Find It Too Hard To Attract by Jakumo(m): 4:40pm On Jul 27|
I will only disclose that I am over 20 years old. I joined Nairaland the year Oga Seun created the website in 2005, and that readily available fact will confirm that I was a prolific writer at age 2 years old in 2005. The fewer personal details that man pikin divulges online, the better.
|Re: Can I Be Too Intimidating For Girls I Find It Too Hard To Attract by DonroxyII: 7:24pm On Jul 27|
Jakumo:Thank You !
|Re: Can I Be Too Intimidating For Girls I Find It Too Hard To Attract by Error401: 8:27pm On Jul 27|
Pics or Idonbiliveit
|Re: Can I Be Too Intimidating For Girls I Find It Too Hard To Attract by Abolodje: 9:19pm On Jul 27|
Johnnoah1st:If you can’t attract women then work on attracting men my bro as long as you chuck preeq anywhere all good abeg.
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