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Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by blackgold2018(m): 7:43am On Aug 04, 2023
Dialpad:
Flexispy ... please don't use if you can't handle emotional shock.


how does it work.

Is it to be installed in your own phone or your partner’s phone?

If is in your own phone, how does it spy on your partner’s phone without the app in hers?

I’m using IPhone, while the other person you want to spy on is using android. Will it still work?
Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by brosom(m): 7:50am On Aug 04, 2023
Honeybadgerxx:
There's this church girl I'm currently dating, I love her so much and she loves me too. She claimed to be a virgin and insisted on no sex till marriage, I really do not have a problem with that cos I'm not a virgin and I told her about it and she said she's cool with it.

Now this is where the issue is, suddenly one day she chatted me up and asked if I know about hymen in ladies, I said yes and she popped another question asking if the hymen of a lady can be broken without penetration, I told her yes that sometimes the thickness of the hymen varies amongst ladies, some are very light that too much of heat and stress can make a lady discover a little discharge of blood underneath her thereby breaking the hymen ( I actually learnt this during school days). But the question got me curious and forced me to ask her if hers was still intact, she replied me by saying she doesn't know, that she only saw it online and decided to ask me cos she knew I'm knowledgeable, like how possible is this? Why shouldn't you know? We fought about this for days and she still insist that she's isn't aware, she was nearly crying saying this. Well, I noticed some innocence in her statements and let go of it.

Now my question is, is it possible for a lady not to know if her hymen is still intact or not? Ladies in the house please help me out.

Note: I'm not a simp, I be correct OG but decided to give love a chance and trusted this girl not because she's a church girl, not because she claimed to be a virgin, but because everyone tends to vouch for her including those kiss and tell guys around, none of them fit play her tape like they talk about other ladies around. Even in her uni days, I was opportuned to have a friend in her school hostel area of which he's unknown to her and the comments he gave about her are very impressive.
Even when I stylishly engage her in some sex topics, she tends to ask me the meaning of some erotic words.

She's a good girl, never billed me before, though I do send her funds atimes, she dresses moderately and hates going out.

But considering how ladies pretends and how some good girls turns bad, I still have this doubt within me, what could make her asked me such question?

Please I need answers as I'm planning towards our marriage soon, she's in her mid 20s and now a grad
Bro, I want to sincerely tell u something I've never told anyone until now.

I don't know if it's nature on me or something I was born with. All my life I've dated 5 solid good girls, and all na virgins, would u believe? But hear what I have to say in all of them..

My first girl friend after secondary school was very tall, fair, beautiful, a virgin with good manners. We dated for just 9 months before she enter uni, but would u believe we naver had scx? Yes we didn't and I was ok with it because I happened to use my finger to checkmate her on steady if she had broken her hymen, yes I did that. But in those 9 months we had some erotic romance that surpasses sxc, how? We kissed, touch, fondled and give each other heads.

My 2nd girl friend was also beautiful and a good girl too and also a virgin. When she first told me she was a virgin after much woes from her, I didn't believe and I never would believed her until she let me touch her by still using my fingers just to prove her innocency for me and there I confirm her to be true, as usual we did a lot of things but not sex, but her breasts was one in town and I fondled it Wella..

My 3rd girl friend was a virgin too, but have some features of future bad girl, we did literally almost every thing but not scx.

My 4th girl friend was average, beautiful, a virgin but was super shy. This one was the one I tried to break after making some research online but I couldn't do it because she always scream in pains, in fact there is a mark on my right chest, a bite mark which was from her teeth during one of the days I tried to break in but still couldn't succeed because of the pains, after the bite I vowed never to date/marry a virgin. The bite is forever marked on my right chest.

So, my 5th girl friend was a virgin and also graduate, I know it's hard to believe that a girl can still be virgin after school right? Yes there are few of them out there.. as usual we did kisses, romance touches, and give heads, but the one that shook me was we were having ANEL $cx, yes u heard me right.. and she enjoyed it more than anything, but she won'tet me go to her pkekus and according to her its for her future hubby..

Mind u that all these girls I've dated appears gentle, respectful and innocent, but when u stay and live with them very closely, you'll become her best secret sharerer

So, what I'm trying to say Op? Girls re a lot of things this days, yes she could be a virgin, but what if she's receiving "Mr Thompson" from the back from someone else? And even sucks "grin" on steady? Maybe u don't know ur girl at all..

I'm not trying to talk u out from wifing her, but u must understand there's a lot of things u can never understand until u experience it ur self..
Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by Dialpad: 8:00am On Aug 04, 2023
It must be installed in the partner phone, you are provided with a web dashboard to see the 'drama'





blackgold2018:
how does it work.

Is it to be installed in your own phone or your partner’s phone?

If is in your own phone, how does it spy on your partner’s phone without the app in hers?

I’m using IPhone, while the other person you want to spy on is using android. Will it still work?
Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by purples25(f): 8:01am On Aug 04, 2023
You will soon find what you are looking for.
Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by blackgold2018(m): 8:12am On Aug 04, 2023
Dialpad:
It must be installed in the partner phone, you are provided with a web dashboard to see the 'drama'





that’s the case. Who installs an app on another person’s phone without her noticing the new app on her phone. She will definitely delete it
Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by athaliya(f): 8:15am On Aug 04, 2023
blackgold2018:
you are both wrong.

Virgins feel horrny too.

Of course but they certainly don't go about poking themselves to feel for their hymen grin grin grin
At most, she'll use a mirror or go for an x-ray.
A virgin's worst fear is anything entering there grin
How she wan explain ? No evidence grin grin grin

That's why some would rather do anal or become expert throaters.

Whoever told you this was lying or you just looked up some hymen gist on Google and posted with full audacity grin
Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by blackgold2018(m): 8:22am On Aug 04, 2023
athaliya:


Of course but they certainly don't go about poking themselves to feel for their hymen grin grin grin
At most, she'll use a mirror or go for an x-ray.
A virgin's worst fear is anything entering there grin
How she wan explain ? No evidence grin grin grin

That's why some would rather do anal or become expert throaters.

Whoever told you this was lying or you just looked up some hymen gist on Google and posted with full audacity grin
is no google. I know is always painful when touched. I was trying to lay a point to Op.
for him to say her girl doesn’t know if her hymen is still intact or not. I was trying to proof to him every girl knows.

Dou I know some disvirgined themselves through Masturbation. But it’s VERY VERY rare. Because how will you self inflict injury to yourself by breaking the hymen that is very sensitive and very painful even with a surface touch.
Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by Dialpad: 8:26am On Aug 04, 2023
If you have the financial resources get a new phone as a gift, pre install it.

It can never be found on the device. It is not an app on playstore.

She will only figure out when you start seeing stuff and can't keep quiet


blackgold2018:
that’s the case. Who installs an app on another person’s phone without her noticing the new app on her phone. She will definitely delete it
Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by blackgold2018(m): 8:32am On Aug 04, 2023
Dialpad:
If you have the financial resources get a new phone as a gift, pre install it.

It can never be found on the device. It is not an app on playstore.

She will only figure out when you start seeing stuff and can't keep quiet


hmmm.. I got her the phone she’s using already. I guess I will install it. Then how will I install it if it’s not an app in play store?
Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by Dialpad: 8:50am On Aug 04, 2023
The company will send you the guide or you can pay for remote installation assistance.

Better to pay for remote as they will clear all the footprints.

The process can take up to 30 mins for installation



blackgold2018:
hmmm.. I got her the phone she’s using already. I guess I will install it. Then how will I install it if it’s not an app in play store?
Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by blackgold2018(m): 8:52am On Aug 04, 2023
Dialpad:
The company will send you the guide or you can pay for remote installation assistance.

Better to pay for remote as they will clear all the footprints.

The process can take up to 30 mins for installation



how much will the remote installation cost?
Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by Dialpad: 8:57am On Aug 04, 2023
Not sure you have to reach out to them.


blackgold2018:
how much will the remote installation cost?
Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by Honeybadgerxx: 9:17am On Aug 04, 2023
brosom:
Bro, I want to sincerely tell u something I've never told anyone until now.

I don't know if it's nature on me or something I was born with. All my life I've dated 5 solid good girls, and all na virgins, would u believe? But hear what I have to say in all of them..

My first girl friend after secondary school was very tall, fair, beautiful, a virgin with good manners. We dated for just 9 months before she enter uni, but would u believe we naver had scx? Yes we didn't and I was ok with it because I happened to use my finger to checkmate her on steady if she had broken her hymen, yes I did that. But in those 9 months we had some erotic romance that surpasses sxc, how? We kissed, touch, fondled and give each other heads.

My 2nd girl friend was also beautiful and a good girl too and also a virgin. When she first told me she was a virgin after much woes from her, I didn't believe and I never would believed her until she let me touch her by still using my fingers just to prove her innocency for me and there I confirm her to be true, as usual we did a lot of things but not sex, but her breasts was one in town and I fondled it Wella..

My 3rd girl friend was a virgin too, but have some features of future bad girl, we did literally almost every thing but not scx.

My 4th girl friend was average, beautiful, a virgin but was super shy. This one was the one I tried to break after making some research online but I couldn't do it because she always scream in pains, in fact there is a mark on my right chest, a bite mark which was from her teeth during one of the days I tried to break in but still couldn't succeed because of the pains, after the bite I vowed never to date/marry a virgin. The bite is forever marked on my right chest.

So, my 5th girl friend was a virgin and also graduate, I know it's hard to believe that a girl can still be virgin after school right? Yes there are few of them out there.. as usual we did kisses, romance touches, and give heads, but the one that shook me was we were having ANEL $cx, yes u heard me right.. and she enjoyed it more than anything, but she won'tet me go to her pkekus and according to her its for her future hubby..

Mind u that all these girls I've dated appears gentle, respectful and innocent, but when u stay and live with them very closely, you'll become her best secret sharerer

So, what I'm trying to say Op? Girls re a lot of things this days, yes she could be a virgin, but what if she's receiving "Mr Thompson" from the back from someone else? And even sucks "grin" on steady? Maybe u don't know ur girl at all..

I'm not trying to talk u out from wifing her, but u must understand there's a lot of things u can never understand until u experience it ur self..


Wow! This your story is kind of an eye opener to some extent, I will up my game.

BTW, you are a legend o, 5 solid virgin is no joke, you must be very lucky
Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by brosom(m): 9:42am On Aug 04, 2023
Honeybadgerxx:



Wow! This your story is kind of a eye opener to some extent, I will up my game.

BTW, you are a legend o, 5 solid virgin is no joke, you must be very lucky
Maybe I'm not a legend, but here's what u have to do kid.

Call her on the phone, tell some sweet nice things, take her out and show her kindness, love and care, make her to have full confidence in u as her man that no what what you'll be with her, but u must look straight deep in to her eyes while telling her all these and never shy away, first thing you'll notice from her when eye contact is in motion is blink-blink of her eyes, that's ur first victory, second victory is when she'll look side ways to ascertain if anybody is watching u people, and ur third Victory will be when she bows her head, this is a sign of submission from her to u, but don't relax there, maintain the tempo until she yields completely by acting weird, note you'll know when she does that..

Then, take her home, but first assure her there will be no sex until marriage and u must mean it, yes u must control ur self to get ur long awaited answers. During the period when u both are in an aura of love with soft touch on her palms, feet like as though u re massaging her feet, toes, neck and the rest. Note: when these are going on, whispers silently to her ears with soft turns, I hope u no get frog voice 😂😂, you'll see the magic, she'll lay down against the bed, this is a sign of free will from her..well make I stop here.
Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by Honeybadgerxx: 9:58am On Aug 04, 2023
brosom:
Maybe I'm not a legend, but here's what u have to do kid.

Call her on the phone, tell some sweet nice things, take her out and show her kindness, love and care, make her to have full confidence in u as her man that no what what you'll be with her, but u must look straight deep in to her eyes while telling her all these and never shy away, first thing you'll notice from her when eye contact is in motion is blink-blink of her eyes, that's ur first victory, second victory is when she'll look side ways to ascertain if anybody is watching u people, and ur third Victory will be when she bows her head, this is a sign of submission from her to u, but don't relax there, maintain the tempo until she yields completely by acting weird, note you'll know when she does that..

Then, take her home, but first assure her there will be no sex until marriage and u must mean it, yes u must control ur self to get ur long awaited answers. During the period when u both are in an aura of love with soft touch on her palms, feet like as though u re massaging her feet, toes, neck and the rest. Note: when these are going on, whispers silently to her ears with soft turns, I hope u no get frog voice 😂😂, you'll see the magic, she'll lay down against the bed, this is a sign of free will from her..well make I stop here.


Lol... Wasn't talking about this type of opener, but still, thanks.

BTW, I'm not a kid, in my mid 30s, though you might be older but definitely not a kid. Thanks once more
Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by brosom(m): 10:11am On Aug 04, 2023
Honeybadgerxx:



Lol... Wasn't talking about this type of opener, but still, thanks.

BTW, I'm not a kid, in my mid 30s, though you might be older but definitely not a kid. Thanks once more
Who said anything about opener? I'm not sure u understood what I wrote, read again, don't just rush to read and this is why people fail exams.
Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by Adedward(m): 10:25am On Aug 04, 2023
Honeybadgerxx:



Exactly what I'm thinking. But this girl swore with her life that she hasn't even kissed a guy before not to talk of sex, I guess she masturbates.

Now bro, what do you think, let's assume she hasn't been penetrated by anyone before and she lost her virginity to masturbation, should one go on with the wedding plans with such lady? Since the whole reason behind this virginity stuffs is to avoid fornication. I really don't care about her masturbating provided she will stop it after getting married, my problem is her having sex with someone else. Should I go on and marry her, I really love her and she loves me more than I do to her, she's respectful, she's beautiful, she's educated and sensible at least for a lady.

And I also want to know if masturbation is same thing with fornication?
gud dey bro, I can see in u, u are a Christian, and dats what we learned, what I will ask u to do is dat, go to ur knee, ask GOD in payer, if it's ur own, I know surely GOD will show u, and it will be save for u, if she is not virgin, and she is ur choice from GOD u are save, and don't give him much gap, be her advicer, guide her with calls and prayers, she may be in virgin, virgin girls are facing manies challenges everyblessesd day, and pls and pls be prayerful, what so called marriage it's very wide ooo, I pray the good GOD will guide u amen, thanks
Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by BalogunIdowu(m): 10:25am On Aug 04, 2023
talented321:
My concern is why do u choose marriage before sex' as OG way u be.
Fine she may be a virgin or not but that is not enough reason to wait till marriage for this present age.
What if after marriage u discovered she don't have a kpekus or she is not a virgin' but with a borehole
Oga if her claim of virginity is real' then she is masturbating.

I wonder what people like you will advise young people of today....perhaps you're young too..

The world is toouch in disorder for right things to be seen as normal...
Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by athaliya(f): 12:08pm On Aug 04, 2023
blackgold2018:
is no google. I know is always painful when touched. I was trying to lay a point to Op.
for him to say her girl doesn’t know if her hymen is still intact or not. I was trying to proof to him every girl knows.

Dou I know some disvirgined themselves through Masturbation. But it’s VERY VERY rare. Because how will you self inflict injury to yourself by breaking the hymen that is very sensitive and very painful even with a surface touch.

I don't know any virgin who touched her own hymen.

Everyone knows the breaking will be very painful but touching it yourself? Who does that

It makes zero sense to a virgin. Makes sense to a man but why will a virgin touch it?
1. She knows she is a virgin
2. She knows it's fragile
3. She knows it's painful

So why on earth will a virgin get up and start poking or touching it?
98% of virgins won't even use tampons to avoid stories that won't touch the heart grin

Do you get why I'm insisting that whoever told you that must have lied or you read it online and saying it with full audacity.
Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by Ikpeabujo(m): 12:17pm On Aug 04, 2023
GrammarNazi1:


Woman wrapper, that's what I can glean from the topics of your threads.

You're indeed a kid.
you have nothing to say please go and sit down
Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by Xylon: 12:33pm On Aug 04, 2023
Honeybadgerxx:
There's this church girl I'm currently dating, I love her so much and she loves me too. She claimed to be a virgin and insisted on no sex till marriage, I really do not have a problem with that cos I'm not a virgin and I told her about it and she said she's cool with it.

Now this is where the issue is, suddenly one day she chatted me up and asked if I know about hymen in ladies, I said yes and she popped another question asking if the hymen of a lady can be broken without penetration, I told her yes that sometimes the thickness of the hymen varies amongst ladies, some are very light that too much of heat and stress can make a lady discover a little discharge of blood underneath her thereby breaking the hymen ( I actually learnt this during school days). But the question got me curious and forced me to ask her if hers was still intact, she replied me by saying she doesn't know, that she only saw it online and decided to ask me cos she knew I'm knowledgeable, like how possible is this? Why shouldn't you know? We fought about this for days and she still insist that she's isn't aware, she was nearly crying saying this. Well, I noticed some innocence in her statements and let go of it.

Now my question is, is it possible for a lady not to know if her hymen is still intact or not? Ladies in the house please help me out.

Note: I'm not a simp, I be correct OG but decided to give love a chance and trusted this girl not because she's a church girl, not because she claimed to be a virgin, but because everyone tends to vouch for her including those kiss and tell guys around, none of them fit play her tape like they talk about other ladies around. Even in her uni days, I was opportuned to have a friend in her school hostel area of which he's unknown to her and the comments he gave about her are very impressive.
Even when I stylishly engage her in some sex topics, she tends to ask me the meaning of some erotic words.

She's a good girl, never billed me before, though I do send her funds atimes, she dresses moderately and hates going out.

But considering how ladies pretends and how some good girls turns bad, I still have this doubt within me, what could make her asked me such question?

Please I need answers as I'm planning towards our marriage soon, she's in her mid 20s and now a grad
OG you've got good girl commended from other people, don't come to this toxic platform and cast your relationship. There's good contents here, But 70% percent of advices here are thrash. Good girls don't come in handy these days. As an OG, let your instincts guide you!! cool
Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by Ihedinuwa69(m): 2:03pm On Aug 04, 2023
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Re: Is She Deceiving Me About Her Virginity Status? by skedy1(m): 3:21pm On Aug 06, 2023
skywalker240:

You are indeed a wise Man


Most valuable post so far
No, not the most valuable post. The comment just aligns with your thoughts and experience over the said girl.

Now listen...Some girls really are naive and don't exactly know these things. Reason could be upbringing. The society now don't really permit us exercise some patients to actually unravel some of these girls. You know how you see a beautiful girl and in your head, you've laid with her already. But some girls really don't know alot. Focus and intentions about the female child is high but the male gender is neglected, hence the thought of every girl being the same. Even though some girls are beasts and perfect pretenders.

However, like he said, don't enter blindly. Do your best to ensure you're not doing/believing the wrong thing.


All the best baba!

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