Imanuelle:

Gurls are into runs. . . . Doz dat aren't are wishin dey were. . . . No time to learn womanly values. .

safarigirl:

Hmm, men pls stop b.i.t.c.h.i.n.g and start helping out, i was raised in a balanced family, everyone did their part, my dad cooks sometimes, he does his laundry and pays the bills, same as my mum, slavery is OVER, my husband MUST be a freak in the kitchen, don't expect your mother's clone as a wife, you're looking for your better HALF, not a whole. MAN UP AND GET WITH THE TIMES.:-P

Imanuelle:

@plv. . . U betta allow her speak for herself.

Ima Ima:
the comments have been making me laugh men.first of all guys say they want a good wife, virtuous and all.but when they meet one they cant handle it.if she says she doesnt want premarital sex ahhhh the men run like hell. they want a girl that will sleep with them but at the same time they r looking for a virtuous, cultured, christian woman.
u also have to work for it.discipline is lacking in some guys.am not saying dt every girl havin premarital sex is bad o.dnt quote me wrongly.
but guys and ladies b4 u start complaining about how dirty your neighbours lawn is, u might want to clean urs first.

Dandy.:

I av a female friend bak in skool who's 4rm a fairly ok family.she was alws lucky(considering her looks) wit fairly rich en good lookin girls.My broda saw her wit 1 of dem 1 day en was lk ao can dis b her lover?He felt d guy's 2 hot 4 her.Bt d guy loved her truly,spends 4 her lk poo.They dated 4 lk 1yr plus,d guy was startin 2 propose marriage untill she had 2 visit him in Lagos.
  D girl spent a whole wk neva botherin 2 offer 2 cook a meal.Guy neva minded,he brings in tk-away meals en tks her out.Wen girl got back 2 skool,guy cald 2 tel her wat she did wrong,den decided 2 visit en dis time unlike b4 he wont b stayin in a hotel.He came 2 girls house.B4 arrival girl rushed home where housemaid helped prepare stew wich she brot 2 skool.En 4 d 1st 3days guy stayed girl continued cookin rice alone 2 d stew(since noodles n d pathetic white rice were d only foods she knows 2 cook)
  Guy had 2 voice out d 3rd nite n went 2 eat out.Sm wks later he called 2 call off rltnsp sayin girl's rm was untidy n she cant do stuffs(finds it hard 2 do dishes).She cant even cook mere yam;reason-she finds it hard 2 peel.Afta dis our lucky friend stil lost 2 oda great guys 2 d same factor.1 personally told me she loved everytin about girl,bt weneva he cums vivitin girl starves her.Bt she tinks guys are bad species of being.
  Now d big question:-
Dont u tink d only 1 she/we would blame 4 her heartbreaks is her mum dat neva deemed it fit 2 pass accross 2 her d knowledge en discipline?

Dandy.:
I av a female friend bak in skool who's 4rm a fairly ok family.she was alws lucky(considering her looks) wit fairly rich en good lookin girls.My broda saw her wit 1 of dem 1 day en was lk ao can dis b her lover?He felt d guy's 2 hot 4 her.Bt d guy loved her truly,spends 4 her lk poo.They dated 4 lk 1yr plus,d guy was startin 2 propose marriage untill she had 2 visit him in Lagos.
  D girl spent a whole wk neva botherin 2 offer 2 cook a meal.Guy neva minded,he brings in tk-away meals en tks her out.Wen girl got back 2 skool,guy cald 2 tel her wat she did wrong,den decided 2 visit en dis time unlike b4 he wont b stayin in a hotel.He came 2 girls house.B4 arrival girl rushed home where housemaid helped prepare stew wich she brot 2 skool.En 4 d 1st 3days guy stayed girl continued cookin rice alone 2 d stew(since noodles n d pathetic white rice were d only foods she knows 2 cook)
  Guy had 2 voice out d 3rd nite n went 2 eat out.Sm wks later he called 2 call off rltnsp sayin girl's rm was untidy n she cant do stuffs(finds it hard 2 do dishes).She cant even cook mere yam;reason-she finds it hard 2 peel.Afta dis our lucky friend stil lost 2 oda great guys 2 d same factor.1 personally told me she loved everytin about girl,bt weneva he cums vivitin girl starves her.Bt she tinks guys are bad species of being.
  Now d big question:-
Dont u tink d only 1 she/we would blame 4 her heartbreaks is her mum dat neva deemed it fit 2 pass accross 2 her d knowledge en discipline?

safarigirl:

Hmm, men pls stop b.i.t.c.h.i.n.g and start helping out, i was raised in a balanced family, everyone did their part, my dad cooks sometimes, he does his laundry and pays the bills, same as my mum, slavery is  OVER, my husband MUST be a freak in the kitchen, don't expect your mother's clone as a wife, you're looking for your better HALF, not a whole. MAN UP AND GET WITH THE TIMES.:-P
So you are still single?, PELE , keep searching God will surely bless u with a cook as a husband. So u can have enough chance to gossip around and go to night clubs Mtcheeeeeew.

kulumo:

It seems all the ladies are not comfortable with this post. But that's the reality; every bit of the post. They even deny their hubby sex in the name of being tired as a result of work thereby making a faithful man fall. Well God shall surely judge on the judgement day. All those marital vows women makes and they refuse to honor it, i will honor u, with my body etc, God shall judge.
Tell them Mtcheeeeeew!

Ima Ima:

i think dandy that u r surrounded by those type of people cos i see differently.my sister for instance is a banker, a manager o.she gets caught up wit work and is so busy but mennnn she cookssss delicacies.the kinds of food that takes time and coordination.my sisters inlaw too, the same.enough variety.maybe its cos of where i am from sha.
its a personal thing.
but the guys fall in love with such "lazy" babes and marry them,probably cos they are good in some other areas, if u kno what i mean .

pro01:

It's a problem that has no solution. Wives have become extinct.

lindabon:

wife material my beautiful behind  

well, i cook and clean because i think it's a principled thing to do,  not because i want to use those qualities to gain access into a man's house. In recent times, I've seen that most guys are willing to help and contribute in house chores one way or another. most times, when u wake up, and before you finish stretching your sore and stiff body, the bed has already been made by a loving male partner. then before you take a lick and come back, the room is already tidy and sparkling. As you are about to go look for him to tell him what a great job he has done, there he is again, bringing in breakfast
The ladies on the other hand, are up and about. If the man cannot meet up with the house rent or children's school fee, the woman can gladly contribute from her own pocket. No one wants to wait for another to shower them, feed them, clothe them etc,  No time
So i believe this post is from the past or from the great beyond; but definitely not a post from someone living in the 21th century. Only a lazy man/woman will be waiting for someone to cook, clean, blablabla. . . . . . . . Again No time

The world is evolving. . . . I don't know about you, but I think i'm loving the revolution

lindabon:

So a woman should cook and clean to be able to take care of a man?
Hmmmmm, There is notin someone will not hear in this world.