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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Tboymessiah(m): 3:30pm On Sep 02, 2023
occfx:


Perfect, just make sure she loves you more than you love her and give her bele while she goes through school. Plan her life for her the way it will suit both of you in the long run. Get her to learn and become an entrepreneur, if possible set up the the business for her. Con is if you go broke without fixing her, she may think the grass would have been greener if she didn't marry you. That's the worst case scenario you would face.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Tboymessiah(m): 3:31pm On Sep 02, 2023
occfx:


Perfect, just make sure she loves you more than you love her and give her bele while she goes through school. Plan her life for her the way it will suit both of you in the long run. Get her to learn and become an entrepreneur, if possible set up the the business for her. Con is if you go broke without fixing her, she may think the grass would have been greener if she didn't marry you. That's the worst case scenario you would face.

Let me ask you this question,
What if a girl told u that after her parent made some consultation, they were told the man (whom she want to marry ) is not good for her,

but she never left the same man that was not good for, and anytime these same man don't have money to give her she always frown face with moody Body language...

What advise can u give these my street brother.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by ednut1(m): 3:33pm On Sep 02, 2023
IamPlato:
because you have weak erection that 35 doesn't mean all men are like you nigga. Shut up and move
https://www.nairaland.com/7819069/bicycle-ride-adventure-toronto-mississauga am not even 35. I fit like a 20 years old. See evidence lol
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by IamPlato(m): 3:33pm On Sep 02, 2023
Evolutionlove:


Azin Nigerian men dey Suffer Aje. Most especially the Poor/Average ones.

Ladies/Women irrespective of their Societal Status get Sex and Almost everything for FREE.

So it's such people i will say i want to go and marry at Old Age after having the best times of their Lives.

Believe me, The kind Life many Nigerian Girls/Ladies don Chop for this Life ehn most especially those ones for UNIVERSITY, A lot Average men no fit see am Chop in their Lifetime.

I usually Pity men a lot.

only a fool will hustle his life and become rich and then marry a 30year old woman.

After all my hustles to become somebody I deserve a beautiful hot sexy 19 year old as a bride.


Why did Ned marry Regina?

As long as you are made in life you can have any young babe out there.

Young girls will not think twice to abandon these broke Bleep boys for a mature made man

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by IamPlato(m): 3:35pm On Sep 02, 2023
ednut1:
https://www.nairaland.com/7819069/bicycle-ride-adventure-toronto-mississauga am not even 35. I fit like a 20 years old. See evidence lol
oga everyone I know who is 40 is still nacking their women wella.

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Nobody: 3:44pm On Sep 02, 2023
IamPlato:
only a fool will hustle his life and become rich and then marry a 30year old woman.

After all my hustles to become somebody I deserve a beautiful hot sexy 19 year old as a bride.

Why did Ned marry Regina?

As long as you are made in life you can have any young babe out there.

Young girls will not think twice to abandon these broke Bleep boys for a mature made man

True.

Apart from their Naivity and Emotional Instability which can be Tamed and Managed by a True Alpha.

Believe me, Their Touches alone is like a Spark of Thunder when they touch you. Their Face and Smile is always a Joy to return back home to after a stressful day.

I have been with like Three of these beautiful young souls during my youthful days. The memories were great.

Old Ladies/Women hardly moves me. Sometimes, when i look at them, I usually see a Man like me.

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by frozen70(f): 3:58pm On Sep 02, 2023
spyroet:
As a 35 years old man is it advisable to settle down with a much younger women maybe between 18 to 22 years old what are the advantage and disadvantages.
pls advice needed.

If you can stand this age group rascality and craziness, then you will have more to contend with their drama

Alternatively, you can start go for 30, at this age they are willing to settle down with less drama

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Brush1: 4:07pm On Sep 02, 2023
Entanglement:
pro: you can easily find a virgin at that age range 18 to 22 and see will be very royal to you and love you with all her anus. kiss

You can easily install sense on them and they can be corrected from their wrong doing.

Feminist movement group ( from evening newspapers) haven't corrupt them yet and this is the best

From 24 and above run ohh! Their yansh dey like borehole undecided
Sexing the above age group is like putting your pipe on sewage channels angry

You lack intelligence. I married in my late 30s and was still a virgin. My husband is SUPER PROUD OF ME and I am super super proud of myself. No regrets in life, and I can sleep at night. Have 4 kids, two boys and two girls.

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by LARRYOBRAIN(m): 4:09pm On Sep 02, 2023
Can you cope with her youthful exuberance, you can go for 25 to 27years.
spyroet:
As a 35 years old man is it advisable to settle down with a much younger women maybe between 18 to 22 years old what are the advantage and disadvantages.
pls advice needed.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Westerhoffe(m): 4:22pm On Sep 02, 2023
Fiscus105:



Meanwhile, you should ready not to do any dirty shit with such lady.

If not, you will regret hell, u will face in marriage with such intelligent woman.

Such ladies know their rights and ready to fight for them to the last........"I am an african man" rhetoric, won't safe you from such woman.


As it stands now, can you give ur fiance(wife) unrestricted access to ur phone, ur social media accounts and ur ATM passwords.?

If not, u re not qualified for such lady , except you urself is average intelligent guy.

I have nothing to hide from my woman (once there is one).
Even in my last relationship, she has access to my Social Media accounts. She has access to my phones. Same way I have access to hers even though I hardly go through them.

Once you're in a relationship, where you have secrets, (unless for special secrets) like no access to phones, Social Media accounts, and or rooms, then you're not ready for a relationship.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Mummyimbecile(m): 4:24pm On Sep 02, 2023
If she is a virgin, why not

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by cigaricon(m): 4:24pm On Sep 02, 2023
You're even talking marriage. I'm 27 and I can't even date any lady younger than 25. Last time I dated one 22yr old girl like that, I nearly lost my mind. Those ones don't know what life is all about. They're only interested in the latest gadget or wears and trends. Think well oh. Marriage is not for children

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Nobody: 4:59pm On Sep 02, 2023
Brush1:

You lack intelligence. I married in my late 30s and was still a virgin. My husband is SUPER PROUD OF ME and I am super super proud of myself. No regrets in life, and I can sleep at night. Have 4 kids, two boys and two girls.

True though.

He doesn't lack intelligence. He is right to generalize because this particular issue have now become a Menace hence the generalization is Valid.

You are just an Exception and there will always be exception in everything. How many well to do Nigerian Ladies can boast of being Chaste and Virgin at the Age of 30Years.

I ask again, How many??

Unlike many Nigerian boys/men most especially the ones from Poor/Average Background. I will tell you this for FREE. Do you know there are many Guys in their 20s who have never got down with a girl/lady. Except they engage in Mastvrbation and with Sex Workers. Some doesn't even have the Will or Opportunity to engage Sex Workers. All they do is to Mastvrbate.

This Situation is not same for the Female Gender. Currently as i am posting now, There are a lot of Young Girls/Ladies between the Age of 18/22 Years engaging in Sex Transactions with Older men in their 30s, 40s, and 50s. It's very Rampant nowadays.

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Thonee(m): 5:10pm On Sep 02, 2023
I got married at 35 and my wife was 32, talk about God answering someone's prayer then that's me cos God gave me something special.
B4 then these indomie generation girls i came across were after my money and had nothing to offer.

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Nobody: 5:12pm On Sep 02, 2023
To this End.

Allow everyone to make their decision. You bare the Consequences of your decisions.

Nobody should come on here to Cry fowl Afterall.

Adios.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by justking(m): 5:12pm On Sep 02, 2023
They are too in a hurry
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Bigshots001(m): 5:15pm On Sep 02, 2023
glassy:


This is why you want to marry her? Or is there something else you forgot to mention?





Uche is asking you a question,abii you no wan answer her?🤣🤣


Please Op, respond to Uche's question..she wan check something 🤔🤣🤣

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Fiscus105(m): 5:18pm On Sep 02, 2023
Westerhoffe:


I have nothing to hide from my woman (once there is one).
Even in my last relationship, she has access to my Social Media accounts. She has access to my phones. Same way I have access to hers even though I hardly go through them.

Once you're in a relationship, where you have secrets, (unless for special secrets) like no access to phones, Social Media accounts, and or rooms, then you're not ready for a relationship.



I salute ur sagacity, may God give u strength to the very end.

Future warning, men are different from women because of polygamous nature, but not withanding some still tame it
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by skywalker240(m): 5:19pm On Sep 02, 2023
IamPlato:
so you married her after 13 years of her fucking around. Werey grin
Well I don't care, but I popped her 🍒
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by skywalker240(m): 5:20pm On Sep 02, 2023
bonnyhope:


What age is menopause
You tell me
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by IamPlato(m): 5:30pm On Sep 02, 2023
skywalker240:

Well I don't care, but I popped her 🍒
na you even Bleep up. You popped her then left her to go into the world and pass through all men. You na werey guy grin

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by DissTroy(m): 5:37pm On Sep 02, 2023
Box34:
Like what have been said earlier, don't think of settling for any bellow 25. I just married early this year and I was at this junction too trying to make decisions but unfortunately all the girls bellow 25 I met were drama none was marriable or let me say they were not even ready in action and characters still enjoying their prime. I later reconnected with an old lover of mine whose now is my wife and the rest are now history. I am enjoying my home and she is very understanding and quiet to my liking. My brother please check the maturity of the lady and not just only beauty ,because what keep home is understanding and Love .

You reconnected with a former lover who went to sleep with other men during the time apart, not thought her worthy of marriage, but you went back to marrying a woman other men slept with after you knew her?

Are you a cuckold or something? You really think it's something to be proud of?

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by occfx: 5:38pm On Sep 02, 2023
Tboymessiah:


Let me ask you this question,
What if a girl told u that after her parent made some consultation, they were told the man (whom she want to marry ) is not good for her,

but she never left the same man that was not good for, and anytime these same man don't have money to give her she always frown face with moody Body language...

What advise can u give these my street brother.

Since the parents don't want you, let her remain friends with benefits to you... Use her as a stress removal and don't let her attach to much to you in order not to prevent other women into your life. Fact is if a girl loves you much, she won't care what the parents says but since, she takes what the parents says serious, let her remain a fuxk mate till eternity and always remind her what her parents says whenever she wants to play victim.

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by kaymart: 5:52pm On Sep 02, 2023
starpower:
Anyone u choose learn to please yourself as in respect yourself. Am married but sure I know my lady is attractive but she knows I like her enough to not mind losing her. Even while applying body lotion she tease me on how careful I treat myself. Quite a lot of us won't enjoy life because we give others our power. If they Bleep madam 🤣 it will hurt me but still it her decision, I have choice of mine too. We need to stop valuing things above it true value. People can't stop being themselves set boundaries and overlook other stuff. If cheating is a deal breaker please try not do am too. I wash clothes too, I cook 🍳, I let her initiate sex too and control my urge. Prepare yourself for quality friendship, get rid of toxic ones quick to avoid creating excuses within yourself. See we are not our partner parents nothing like hoe phase, inexperienced makes people think much can be achieved with little time.
You said it all
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by onadana: 6:09pm On Sep 02, 2023
madone:
If you ask me eh marrying marrying a girl is not about the age but the level of intelligence, spirituality and morals
In the 90s I would have said 18years to 25years girls are good to go. But this 21st century my brother don't marry that age bracket. But if you must do then make sure the lady is well brought up from a good family and also that she has a mind of her own thereby she will not be influenced by pair pressure from all those marine children on IG and tiktok.


My wife is far younger than I and from a good family,well brought up.To succeed with her I had to break the hold and influence of her parents especially her mum on her life, it's crazy how these mother's want to control the lives of their daughter's.She is still an undergraduate,it takes patience to mold her into what I want but then sometimes that generation difference of them wanting to explore is there.That is where changing roles comes in,you don't play husband this time around,you play the role of a brother or a father to guide them.Not being harsh.You have to constantly remind them they are married until it sinks.She is a blessing to me.

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Oracabessa: 7:00pm On Sep 02, 2023
Lol 🤣 😂 Omo you be blast OG 💯 ♥️
Administration1:
I use God name beg you, leave those young girls alone, look for one 28 to 32 matured lady with low mileage.
Low mileage very important oooo. If you're lucky you might see one that is direct Belgium.
Above is for Nigerian girls staying and living in Nigeria.
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Box34: 7:07pm On Sep 02, 2023
DissTroy:


You reconnected with a former lover who went to sleep with other men during the time apart, not thought her worthy of marriage, but you went back to marrying a woman other men slept with after you knew her?

Are you a cuckold or something? You really think it's something to be proud of?

I think this should best be determined by me. My Peace and my space is achieved afterall.

You were not there neither do you know what happened. What I shared earlier was my own Pros and Cons relating to the matter that OP shared. Always remember we have our differences and what work for me might not work for you.✌️

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Totiemide: 7:23pm On Sep 02, 2023
Evolutionlove:


True though.

He doesn't lack intelligence. He is right to generalize because this particular issue have now become a Menace hence the generalization is Valid.

You are just an Exception and there will always be exception in everything. How many well to do Nigerian Ladies can boast of being Chaste and Virgin at the Age of 30Years.

I ask again, How many??

Unlike many Nigerian boys/men most especially the ones from Poor/Average Background. I will tell you this for FREE. Do you know there are many Guys in their 20s who have never got down with a girl/lady. Except they engage in Mastvrbation and with Sex Workers. Some doesn't even have the Will or Opportunity to engage Sex Workers. All they do is to Mastvrbate.

This Situation is not same for the Female Gender. Currently as i am posting now, There are a lot of Young Girls/Ladies between the Age of 18/22 Years engaging in Sex Transactions with Older men in their 30s, 40s, and 50s. It's very Rampant nowadays.

True... it is rampant these days because the parent we have now is different from the parents we have in the 90s. Today's parent even encourages this young ones to do shit and won't bat a eye.

There are ladies/women who still keep this chastity belt around their waist but very rare to come by.

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by bizhop01: 7:30pm On Sep 02, 2023
If you marry under 25 years old Nigeria woman you're on your own because they are very useless

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Exceed15: 7:46pm On Sep 02, 2023
spyroet:
As a 35 years old man is it advisable to settle down with a much younger women maybe between 18 to 22 years old what are the advantage and disadvantages.
pls advice needed.
.

That age bracket girls are problematic.

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by MadeMan01(m): 8:09pm On Sep 02, 2023
Fiscus105:


And who told you women cannot born without her own womb tru surrogate? , ur brain refuse to reason rationally,

if u re a father and ur daughter bring totally jobless guy for marriage, will you support such union? Selfishness will surely destroy you guys.
I want my woman with her own womb. You can't force me.

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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by Entanglement: 8:17pm On Sep 02, 2023
Brush1:


You lack intelligence. I married in my late 30s and was still a virgin. My husband is SUPER PROUD OF ME and I am super super proud of myself. No regrets in life, and I can sleep at night. Have 4 kids, two boys and two girls.
oh Yee feble minded gender before your late 30s, Love Machine, sugarcane, cucumbers and fingerings must have be doing the job for you but Yee in her mind sayeth Thier anus is that of a virgin, hence in deceipt of her simple minded husband who thinketh he has brought a brand new product but knoweth not thee product he seek is of damage quality undecided

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