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|Dead Friend Owes Me Money by LittleBigDick(m): 3:40am On Sep 18|
He died 2 months ago. At first I thought “I'm not going to ask the family, I'll look like an asshole." but then I thought that ultimately I am within my rights. He owes me money, I have the right to go and claim it from his family.
I was thinking of going to his mother's house and asking her to pay me back, bringing the subject up very gently. I could talk to her about her son at the beginning then say, after 10 or 20 minutes of conversation, "by the way, he owed me 850k, could you pay me back?"
What do you think?
|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by izonborn098(m): 4:04am On Sep 18|
Otilo he don carry ur money go grave..
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|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by Kobojunkie: 4:06am On Sep 18|
LittleBigDick:You are itching to join your friend in the grave, I see? The one you had a contract with is dead. So, unless he specifically told you to see his family after his death — should have a signed affidavit of sorts — then you better accept that you can no longer reach him.
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|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by thesicilian: 4:09am On Sep 18|
Forget about sentiments. You are within your rights to go ask the family for that money. Because if you were the one owing him and the family knew about it, they would surely have come to meet you since for their son's money
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|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by izonborn098(m): 4:11am On Sep 18|
The narrative is different when u are alive.. Because even ur own conscience will disturb you if you are responsible..
|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by thesicilian: 4:16am On Sep 18|
izonborn098:That's just sentimental reasoning. When you're dead your next of kin takes your property. And your liabilities. It's that simple.
|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by Kobojunkie: 4:21am On Sep 18|
thesicilian:Only if OP has proof of the debt.
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|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by spinna: 4:38am On Sep 18|
Is the loan agreement in writing? If orally where there witnesses. If not its your word against a dead man's.
|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by Chibuzoripob: 4:46am On Sep 18|
GONE with the WIND.Sope o ti lo..
For ur own sanity,dnt approach his mama
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|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by Foodqueen(f): 4:47am On Sep 18|
U borrowed him a huge sum of money, so I expect that the family or someone close to the family should be aware.
Go and see his mom. After a subtle greetings. Ask.... don't demand.
Ask her gently if her son gave her anything to give you, ofcourse she will want to know what you are asking about.
Gently tell her and listen to what she will say.
That way, u will know if you will ever get your money back either in full or part or NEVER.... otilo.
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|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by ruggedtimi(m): 5:04am On Sep 18|
LittleBigDick:if the family has the money and you can provide evidence, they will definitely pay you
....Last year my late friend's father paid most of his debt of almost 6m. Is a serious issue from a spiritual angle.
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|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by Maxie110(m): 5:19am On Sep 18|
Quite unfortunate! This is why I constantly pray for my customers... sometimes my debt per individual runs in millions. Hmmmm make God help person oo. You cannot owe me and come and die. Who will pay you the money Except you have a capable next of kin who swiftly takes over the business and wishes to continue
Or a capable next of kin that's aware of the loan and wishes to offset. If not Otilo
|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by Kobicove(m): 5:54am On Sep 18|
Even the ones who are still alive, to recover loans from them na war e come be the friend wey don die
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|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by MrsTwrite(f): 6:27am On Sep 18|
Hmmm... That's a whole lot of money.😂
|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by Gadafii: 6:43am On Sep 18|
Islamic ally I think the family of the dead is mandate to pay debts if he owes anyone, just the same way his debtors would be mandated to pay to his family
But one thing I can tell you is, otilo
The dead tell no tale and pay no debt
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|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by Chasito(m): 6:45am On Sep 18|
The chances of getting that money back is very low, #850k no be small money , had it was something like 50k or 100k, u for don get hope small.
|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by izonborn098(m): 6:47am On Sep 18|
You have already said the same thing
|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by KingLennon(m): 7:22am On Sep 18|
Do you have solid evidence? If not your explanations no go get meaning. Dead men tell no tales ...
|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by thesicilian: 7:26am On Sep 18|
Kobojunkie:Lol. Who loans out 850k without proof? Not in this era
|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by verifiablefacts: 7:34am On Sep 18|
If you are more bouyant than the family, let it go.
|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by dawnomike(m): 8:39am On Sep 18|
LittleBigDick:Abort mission! I repeat, ABORT!!!
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|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by SyrusdeHansome(m): 8:50am On Sep 18|
Sorry to say this bro, ur 850k it af gone. Pple wer de alive no de gree pay debt na dead man go come pay? If ur dead frnd na Abacha kind of person at least u get hope but if na Buhari kind of person den u de follow long rd de travel. Ur money died with him.
|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by jumper524(m): 9:18am On Sep 18|
LittleBigDick:If you can let go please just let go.
|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by mapist(m): 9:29am On Sep 18|
Very true but unpopular opinion. This is exactly my fear about lending huge sums of money because arghhh, u must not die oh.
|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by LittleBigDick(m): 9:34am On Sep 18|
What other proof do I need other than I sent it to his account and he received it .
|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by Bankowner: 9:57am On Sep 18|
And what if the money sent to his account is you paying him back the debt you owe him? Your proof is more than watery.
|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by ExudeLoveToAll: 10:34am On Sep 18|
There is what is called bad debt.
When you don't tie a debt to an asset then it is almost impossible to get it back after the Denise of the debtor.
This is an example to only gve money to those who can afford to place an asset for the purpose of loan. I also gave a friend loan without collateral, he is alive but I have not been able to retrieve it because I can afford to let go of the money. This incident taught me a lesson about loans and friendship.
|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by ExudeLoveToAll: 10:38am On Sep 18|
For sole purpose of learning.
Borrow means taking while lend means giving
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|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by ExudeLoveToAll: 10:42am On Sep 18|
That's not a prove.
Both of you might have been involved in a business that warranted you giving him his share.
Always put your agreement in any business dealings in formal form for future reference purpose.
|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by Mom007(f): 10:46am On Sep 18|
You are not wise... not even close.
|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by spencekat(m): 10:48am On Sep 18|
|Re: Dead Friend Owes Me Money by Bashnigga(m): 11:05am On Sep 18|
In Islam, when someone dies the family usually asks friends and relatives if the deseased was owing anyone before his/her demise
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