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Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by Investor137: 5:59pm On Sep 19, 2023
Met my wife on tangle or tango sef 2015, we got married 2018, now we have 2 beautiful kids, 4 &2yrs respectively.

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Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by Omoawoke(m): 6:01pm On Sep 19, 2023
MajESTHY:
Ion wanna talk..
He will come back to his senses one day and maybe by then,a guy with eyesight has taken me already.

Men have the natural advantage in the waiting game. And to make matter worse, there are countless beautiful girls out there.

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Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by tonicyril: 6:01pm On Sep 19, 2023
grin grin grin grin bro calm down, u dont need vawulence in this situation
AllBlack:


make I no use vex slap you oh.
shey you want make the SIMP come back to his SENSES ni?
So you want make he leave the girl then the person wey dey fvk am go come lose free fvk?
Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by Jamie1000: 6:02pm On Sep 19, 2023
Any fine gal you meet online to date, just know say nah olosho... 😆 🤣
Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by Evestar200(f): 6:04pm On Sep 19, 2023
I have a friend who met a guy through BBM that year.

Both are married now with two beautiful boys.


Anything dating online without seeing each other after two months is a no-no.

I don't have time to waste.

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Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by AllBlack: 6:05pm On Sep 19, 2023
tonicyril:
grin grin grin grin bro calm down, u dont need vawulence in this situation

ehen good. you be correct guy but i no know why devil wan push you to spoil free pussy for another man. 🤣. Leave the SIMP to express himself.
Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by godoluwa(m): 6:10pm On Sep 19, 2023
yungchop:


Please speak.. I'm currently in one and thinking if it's worth it or not, almost 2 years now

Abort it

E no dey work
Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by godoluwa(m): 6:11pm On Sep 19, 2023
Blupen969:
that is if the girl don't actually love you bro

You go learn d hard way

I think you dey early 20s grin
Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by tunize(m): 6:14pm On Sep 19, 2023
creativehubb:
Na olosho and packaged hungry desperate girls full tinder
Tinder na Hk ground if blood hot book one you wan go find love for tinder before? If you wan find love for tinder change ur ip comot for nigeria
Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by sharpwriter(m): 6:20pm On Sep 19, 2023
hardcore007:
Not bad.
Online relationship brought me to yankee.
Still together since we started 6 years ago.
It has its challenges though.
However, just put up more communication and keep on communicating, don’t stop communicating cos it’s the main deal to make it flourish.

Married or just bf, gf relationship
Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by mooretes: 6:31pm On Sep 19, 2023
I've got two for you.

1. I have a friend who met someone online many years ago and they have been married for 12 years and still counting

2. I have another friend who just met someone online and there rship is still young but they seem to be enjoying their love - hopefully it blooms into forever after!

All based abroad

Will I say online dating isn't risky? It is, even the recent rship I mentioned, the guy told me that my friend went willingly with him and he could have been anyone. We discussed the risks and he concluded that there is physical risk for the girl but the men too also are not left out.

So think about it and shine your eye well
Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by Starz825(m): 6:41pm On Sep 19, 2023
Brandiebird:
Meeting online then establishing a real time relationship is very different from dating online; the later is child’s play.
exactly!!
Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by HRMK: 6:42pm On Sep 19, 2023
have you ever met in person?
Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by millionboi2: 6:44pm On Sep 19, 2023
Blupen969:
Have you ever been in love with someone you met online??
How crazy was the love??
Did you guys later meet??
Was the love still there after spending real time with the person??
During 2go days,she has a very nice voice,fell in love but when we saw each other her gender couldn't be rectified,she was looking transgender but with a cool voice Jesus.....years now but is still like yesterday in my head.

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Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by Youngpo413: 6:44pm On Sep 19, 2023
MajESTHY:
Ion wanna talk..
He will come back to his senses one day and maybe by then,a guy with eyesight has taken me already.
you don't worth his time ⌚

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Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by KingRabota: 6:47pm On Sep 19, 2023
Newer really was a fan of online until I met my wife a wonderful, loyal woman with an amazing persona.
But sometimes this life can turn into horrible nightmare in an instant. This September 21 will be 6 years she passed away. I'm still in shock.
Sometimes I feel as if I'm living in a horror movie

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Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by Brandiebird: 6:48pm On Sep 19, 2023
odaniel1:
Online dating is like a dog who barks and snarls at the image in the mirror.....
-Sango

😂😂😂
Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by Brandiebird: 6:55pm On Sep 19, 2023
zedegit:
I'll have said my own but as una no dey greet person for here, I'll move on quietly.
Crazy people full this thread 😂😂😂😂
Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by Barcalee: 6:56pm On Sep 19, 2023
Online dating tried a couple of dating did not end as expected but the last one ended in marriage.
Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by Ochyes: 7:04pm On Sep 19, 2023
izonborn098:
My longest relationship online is 3months, many of those girls prefer the olosho way.. Since then i don't do online...
What is olosho way? Is it billing or what?
Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by izonborn098(m): 7:06pm On Sep 19, 2023
Bleep and pay we go our ways...
Ochyes:
What is olosho way? Is it billing or what?
Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by sharpwriter(m): 7:11pm On Sep 19, 2023
KingRabota:
Newer really was a fan of online until I met my wife a wonderful, loyal woman with an amazing persona.
But sometimes this life can turn into horrible nightmare in an instant. This September 21 will be 6 years she passed away. I'm still in shock.
Sometimes I feel as if I'm living in a horror movie
Sorry bro.. Accept my condolences. cry

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Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by missyojo(f): 7:12pm On Sep 19, 2023
franchasofficia:
The challenge with relationship that started online is the lies, the deceits and the fakeness.


If ladies can be sincere enough to be using their real life unfiltered pictures, many people would have found their partner online because most of us spend more time online than offline.



So my advice to ladies who want to find love or a partner online that won't feel disappointed on meeting them in real life is to please avoid using fake pictures or highly edited pictures.


Try and use your natural photograph that show your true you. Don't raise a guy's hopes so high with edited pictures when you know that you are just a basic girl, it will definitely end in tears.



And to the guys, avoid lies, avoid claiming who you are not. Don't claim to be Aliko Dangote when you are just a Dangote Cement shop sales boy. Don't claim to be Drake when you are just a dirty Naira Marley.



Be real, the truth is, in Nigeria, ladies are not so interested in your handsomeness as a guy, they care more about your ability to provide and take care of them, which means you must have a means of earning income and should be able to afford taking care of yourself without depending on your parents or siblings or guardian before you go looking for a girlfriend to deceive. Just be real, there is a girl out there that will like you the way you are, same applies to ladies; don't claim to be Kim Kardashian when you are one flat ass Janet at Ajah, the guy will definitely chop and run or even quit after meeting you in person angry




Lastly, ladies and gents, don't expect too much from people. Stop having high expectations of who your Mr or Miss right must be, it always end in tears. Don't have the wrong belief that only rich guys come online to find love and thereby expecting to meet only rich guys and don't conclude that only broke guys go searching for love online because its not true, rich and comfortable guys also search for love or partner or female friends online, just be open and expect less from the opposite gender.



Lastly as a lady, when you meet a guy online, please don't give him wrong impression about your personality and character by offloading all your life problems on him and expecting him to carry all for you.



To answer the Op's question, yes I did met wonderful chicks online some years back while single....one or two would have worked but I was too broke to accept their love back then cry


One lived abroad then while I was still struggling in Nigeria....her kind of rich profile intimidated me and I couldn't imagine myself being with a girl higher than me financially and in everything, I was always feeling cold and bad inside me cos I know I no reach her level. How it ended? I intentionally stopped communicating with her when I realized it was a waste of time cos to me, she is above my league.





Another one I met was beautiful and ready for serious relationship, but me I was still struggling and scared to commit. Out of fear that she would one day bill me more than I could afford, I also ran away shocked



This comment is the most sensible comment have read so far. If only people can be Real without faking it. Thumbs up to you Sir

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Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by Emdebby2: 7:21pm On Sep 19, 2023
I don't want to bore you with the ugly details.
Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by RosyIsBlessed: 7:24pm On Sep 19, 2023
accountantben:
I meant my woman via online. We dated for 2yrs via online until I relocated to the state where she based. We are happily married today, and the marriage will be 10yrs by next yr.

Nice one
Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by millionboi2: 7:32pm On Sep 19, 2023
abba190:
my girl is in uk we hv been together for 3years, hope i will be able to japa oneday to meet her
u fit reach dia she go on film4u

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Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by K33fK0zaRt: 7:38pm On Sep 19, 2023
Quebec91:
I tell you bro. You even like am to dey advise am.
Girl wey dem dey Bleep 24/7 for here on a regular basis na hin this one dey do long distance dating with 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
grin don't be like that. We have to help our brothers that are still asleep. Lmao. Thank God say e don stop dey send her money.

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Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by K33fK0zaRt: 7:39pm On Sep 19, 2023
AllBlack:


na for this thread you go know say SIMP get ALPHA SIMP just the way REPILLERS get ALPHA MALE.
alpha simp cheesy cheesy grin Omo that one na General for simping o. Lol
Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by K33fK0zaRt: 7:40pm On Sep 19, 2023
ekitimanalways:

No offence intended, but he is a wimp when it comes to online dating.
grin abeg make Una take am easy on the brother. Maybe it's his first time. Lol
Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by K33fK0zaRt: 7:40pm On Sep 19, 2023
millionboi2:
u fit reach dia she go on film4u
grin e no fit understand this your sentence o. ROTFL
Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by ekitimanalways(m): 8:03pm On Sep 19, 2023
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K33fK0zaRt:
grin abeg make Una take am easy on the brother. Maybe it's his first time. Lol
grin
Re: Nairalanders Share Experience About Online Dating by ekitimanalways(m): 8:16pm On Sep 19, 2023
abba190:
my girl is in uk we hv been together for 3years, hope i will be able to japa oneday to meet her
Don't be a wimp, bro! It may be that she sees you only as a sympathetic long distance or online boyfriend.

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